Summary: it's amazing to see what happens when you know what to do in situations, and that's specially thanks to TRP, here is just a short field report that happen last night it was so easy and awesome, still pretty siked!( i'm not the best at writing so bare with me )
So last night i decided to go clubbing with a few of my friends, currently i'm not as fit as i want to but i'm slowly moving in that direction, in the meanwhile i've been dressing approiately to make up for that. Immediately as i got to the club i saw a few girls that i know, so we went in together and that really increased my preselection, a lot of women were looking and staring in my direction while realizing that i got a little bit nervous but i held my frame and kept a good composure. If there's one awesome thing i've taken from TRP is the power of small talk, i started talking to everyone at the party just to get myself in a more relax frame and that really set the ton for the night, it was simple conversations and it really help 1,hey bro those are some wicked shoes, where did you buy it 2, do you know if the hennesy gold is better than the hennesy black 3, dude wtf i thought i was the tallest guy at this party, great now you're gonna steal all the ladies. was basically making everyone feel good about themselves and in the process making myself more likeable.
we're on the dance floor and the girls were chilling with me and my friend that we came into the club with, this continued for like an hour, and that's when i met ( lets call her lisa ) lisa, she was staring me down as i heading to the bar for a good 3 seconds right into my eyes, so i was like SHIT! this call feeling me then my male hamster went on for some reason -_- * what the fuck would i say to her, what if she doesn't like me and she shames me * until i told myself to shut the fuck up. I went to the bar got a beer and did some breathing exercise to calm down then i reminded myself that i'm awesome, sometimes we have to motivate ourselves * you 're just classy and everyone is looking in your direction, you met a lot of friends and had fun all night, what do i have to lose? you can always find someone else if it doesn't work out * then i said fuck it and approached her! and this is how it went, " by the way you guys are awesome i used some of the lines i saw here :D "
Gem- Hi goodnight my name is Ge...
Lisa - interupts me before i could say my name " i'm sorry i'm not looking for a boyfriend "
Gem- " panics a little, ok get yourself together and be conscious of what is going on, AH! IT'S A SHIT TEST! I GOT THIS " yea me neither those guys are pussies man
Lisa - "Looks at me funny" what the hell are you gay or something?
Gem- " Hehe another shit test, i got this! " yea but only for nick cannon, don't even think about it he's mine! ( thanks whoever introduce me to this line on TRP )
Lisa- Haha omg you're so funny, i'm lisa, what's your name?
(Wait..wait.. is it really that easy guys? pass a few fitness test and that's it? ) from that point on everything was just on easy mode, i continued talking to her for another 15 mins or so, did everything right a little kino, playful banter and teaze her a bit. i went back to the dance floor and chill with my friends a bit( don't want to seem to needy ) she was with her friends also on the dance and i see her staring me down, one of the girls i came in with was dancing with me, i could tell that she was hamstering " i wonder if that's his girl, shit i need to do something " fast forward 30 mins later i was chilling in the sitting lounge and she came right over and sat on me i told her don't blame me if you get stick with something in your ass, then she said would that be such a bad thing ( ok wait a minute i was a fucking game 6-7 months ago and now a HB7 wants to fuck me? MIND BLOWN! ) that's when i knew i had to isolate her, i told her i'm going outside to smoke a cigarette, come with me.
As we got outside i told her " look at me for a sec then i stick my tongue down her throat and squeeze her ass " now i'm thinking fuck... when can i go to fuck this girl, silly me forgot there is a beach a minute away -_-, i told her my car is park that way ( it wasn't but i had to find a way to get her there ) so as we got there i grab her purse and said this is mine! and run to the beach, then she said wanted back her purse i told her come and get it and stick my tongue out at her, she ran after me, then we started making out on the beach " ok guys at this moment i'm freaking out and this is where i fucked up, i was thinking omfg i'm actually gonna fuck this HB7 WTF! " i know i know.. i overthink things and put her on a pedestal i had like no LMR, this is getting pretty long so i will finish here, sadly i Came in under 2 minutes and that really killed my vibe :'( anyways it was awesome guys! i never fucked someone before that i've only met for 2 hours so this was a new experience for me.
Lesson Learned-
1, Overthinking can be your downfall if you don't relax your mine.
2, Being Stoic and conscious really puts you on top in a social situation
3, having women with you increases preselection
4, Small talk can work wonders for you, and put you in the right frame of mind in an uplifting manner
5, Just have fun man, we can find ourselves sometimes in this mental box of thinking about what people might be thinking of you, who cares that you can't dance just dance! Have fun! at the end of the day we only have one life to live don't let restrictions hold you down, keep telling yourself that until you believe it. Steve Jobs once said one of his motivations is knowing that one day he will die, and that made him prosper tremendously, so who cares what others think of you.
If you guys have anything to add to make me improve by all means go ahead, til Next time lads!
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