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[FR] She was in my bed within 60 minutes

March 25, 2019
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I would like to preface this with the fact that I have made many drastic changes to my life up to this point. I moved to a big city, I lifted weights like there was no tomorrow, and I became interesting by picking up hobbies, including learning to play the piano. Before making these changes, I would read field reports like this and think to myself, these stories are fake af. It took me over a year to transform, but I almost instantly felt like Chad overnight. Now that I am experiencing it, I realize there is more truth to TRP than I had ever imagined.

Begin the Night

It’s Friday night, I went out with some friends to a comedy club, had a good time. I randomly socialized with a few girls in my vicinity, but no results, and I go home alone. I had a long day and decided to turn in early around 11:30. Going home alone is never emotionally fulfilling and I’ve had a few drinks so I’m feeling frisky. I boost my ego by taking shirtless snapchats of myself playing the piano for some plates, who are eating it up, and this makes me feel better. Suddenly, out of nowhere I hear a knock on my door.

Hard work pays off in dividends

It’s nearly 1am, I’ve got a good buzz going, and I was just plinking on the piano so I’m not even sure it was a knock I hear, but I get up anyway and check.

Surprised… It’s the cute girl (HB7) who lives in my building. She just turned 21 and graduated from college. I’ve seen her a couple times in the hallway and had at most a 30 second conversation with her. What could she possibly want?

She explains that she had just gotten back from the bar and as she walked passed my apartment said she heard my piano playing and wanted to say hi. I get a feeling she wanted to do more than say hi.

This is where all those months of reading and applying TRP kicks in, it was seamless, like a Mr. Miyagi thing. I invite her inside and we chat for a while. Nothing in particular, but when you learn (AND PRACTICE), you know how to talk about nothing for hours, and when you throw in playful banter and shit tests, it further seals the deal.

You ever meet a girl that goes from cute to hot because of her confidence and charm? Well this girl fits that manic pixie dream girl trope. One of those funny/cocky girls that guys just seem to fall in love with. She gets a boost from HB7 to HB8. I start to realize that SHE’S the one gaming ME. She invited me to the roof, she’s push/pulling me, she’s passing MY shit tests. I realize I already made the sale, why was I continuing to sell? So, I invite her back to my bedroom to listen to some music, leaving that plausible deniability to stay innocent.

60 Minutes

Just like that. A random girl knocked on my door and within the hour we were fucking in my bed. This girl has a tight body too, fully confirming my upgrade of HB7-HB8. This is the fastest I’ve ever gone from meeting a person to fucking them. Apparently, all I need to do nowadays is post office hours on my door.

If you would have told me a year ago, that a cute 21 year old girl would knock on my door in the middle of the night, and I’d be fucking her within an hour of meeting her, I would’ve told you that you’ve been watching too much porn. Now, I don’t know that limits even exist anymore.

Post FR

We hooked up a number of times since and, as expected, she wanted commitment, or at least exclusivity. I told her I couldn’t do that. She rationalizes that she is ok with just hooking up.

A couple days later, after fucking, she asks if I’m fucking anybody else, I very honestly tell her yes. She says she doesn’t want to do this anymore because she does not want to share me. I am very nonchalant in telling her that I respect that and am fine with not continuing to hook up (after all, I have options).

Two days later I get a “you up?” text, and we fuck. She proceeds to tell me that she still doesn’t want to share me. Again, I am nonchalant in telling her I respect that, but nothing’s changing. She predictably says she doesn’t want to do this anymore.

Third time’s the charm. She hits me up. We fuck. She calls it off. This time feels more serious though. She deletes my number and I tell her if she tries to hit me up again, I will have to politely tell her to fuck off, because it’s not fair to her to treat her like this emotionally.

Boomerang Confirmed

It took a grand total of three weeks for her to go through her phone history, find a number with my area code, and hit me up. Just one more thing I can confirm in my readings of TRP, is that they will always boomerang back when you have that IDGAF attitude.

Conclusion

This field report is just another reminder. Keep frame and lift. I honestly feel like I didn't do much to 'earn' this plate. She knocked on my door and fucked my brains out. But I realize it was all the hard work I put in for 2 years leading up to this point. If she had knocked on my door a year prior, it would have been a much more disappointing result.

I post it in the hopes that another man somewhere happens to find this and improves his life because of it. And to tell those in this community that I too have been given hope by the knowledge you have shared.

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Title [FR] She was in my bed within 60 minutes
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Date March 25, 2019 2:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]53withtrollhair 304 points305 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Why is TRP quarantined- this is why. True nature revealed men. Just follow this lads example and have at 'em.

[–]killedontheprivy 53 points54 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol. This shit. Is too funny. I wish I would have know this in high school when I was captain of the basketball team and naive and loyal. Now I am just a computer science nerd. I have to work for it. My girlfriends friends aren't trying to fuck me anymore :(

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why aren't they trying to fuck you anymore ? Computer science nerds are passionate, and passion in any form is interesting af. So what's holding you back ?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn RIGHT true nature revealed!! But they might as well be trying to block out the sun like Mr. Smithers from The Simpsons.....

"Ain't gonna happen!"

[–]Erutz 178 points179 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

Cool story. But remember to NOT seek validation from girls/plates. Validation should always come from within yourself. You seem to be doing fine otherwise.

[–]Erutz 39 points40 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I boost my ego by taking shirtless snapchats of myself playing the piano for some plates, who are eating it up, and this makes me feel better.

This is the part I was talking about, just to clarify. Having some plate swoon over your shirtless bod might be fun, but should not be used as some ego quick fix.

Considering you felt bad about going home alone, you could probably work on your outcome independance as well. Just some constructive criticism.

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Hey thanks man. Yeah you're right. I wrote this up back in September when the event actually happened and 2018 was my year of change.

In my year of change, when I got fit, I realized I had these super powers that I could sleep with girls if I wanted to (rather than being an incel). So I did validate my self worth from trying to rack up a higher N count.

It's true that it should not be used as a quick ego fix, but I believe it helped me achieve abundance and outcome independence. It changed my thought process from "I want to talk to that girl" to "That girl has been waiting for me to show up all week" because I realized I'm not actually some worthless incel that I thought I was.

[–]MatrixofLe3adership 34 points35 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I agree, he nailed the interaction....but it sounds like he is still looking for external fulfillment to an extent.

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]yairof 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly!!!! This should be the words etched on this subreddit "Validation should always come from within yourself"

[–]magx01 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You seem to be doing fine otherwise.

Except trying to seek it here. Or are we going to pretend he wants to "teach" people?

[–]2awalt_cupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He's displaying his SMV. A shirtless, swole, piano playing (good with fingers) playa. He didn't play it wrong. His reasons were wrong but his execution was perfect.

[–]markinsinz7 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think you can reach this stage of validation without external validation from hotties. Eventually yes one does get solid frame from previous successes and thus ends up with that "serenity" sense of well being.

But when your not getting laid and struggling social life yea it can be tough to be genuinely and truly self validated.

It's the typical feedback loop situation. Another option would be to achieve such a high levels in life like wealth or sports or whatever..basically ur typical redpill way (lift game etc)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the reminder! And to clarify, validation comes from within oneself, not in the form of positive talk or something like that, it comes in the form of action. They say that we mustn't believe what people say, but infer their intentions from what they do. So from that, if you really love yourself, which is the foundation the weakness of which leads to a NEED of validation, you must act like you love yourself.

For me, I thought this up when I started running from 5 min to 10 min and finally to 15 min on the treadmill a few days ago and on the last minute, when I realized that I'd almost finished my mission, with the runners' high I realized that you can only show love to yourself when you do things that show love to yourself.

Thoughts ?

[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime 90 points91 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’ve seen her a couple times in the hallway and had at most a 30 second conversation with her.

This was the sale right here. So much is conveyed in quick initial meetings.

The hard work in the gym, your hobbies, the fact that you have plates is all conveyed in your appearance, body-language and confidence. Had you been out of shape, lazy, unmotivated it would have come across in your demeanor too.

In her mind she built you up as the mysterious, cute, well-built guy next door who plays piano. Her a little tipsy from her night out was just enough for her to explore those curiosities.

[–][deleted] 62 points63 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

"I honestly feel like I did'nt do much to earn this plate"

You did plenty, you worked your ass off for two years improvimg yourself for yourself, the result is an incarnation that is attractive to women.

Sexual strategy is counter intuitive, believe it or not women are most attracted to men who derive hapiness from within and do not need women in their lives. Women will be involuntarily attracted to the guy who does not need women and is focusing on his own wants and needs.

Build yourself, expand on and improve your finances, acquire physical and emotional mastery, cultivate new skills and find new hobbies that you enjoy, increase your intelligeance by increasing your knowledge of psycology, science, human nature and phylosophy.

Focus on these things for a year and you will not only learn to thrive in your own company, you will learn to be emotionally, financially, physically, mentally and intellectually independant, an impervious man. This is the epitome of what is attractive to women and they will chase you and offer up their bodies to you for the chance that they might gain some control over you, emotionally.

Because to conquer an impervious man, to tame and domesticate such a high value male, is the greatest validation a woman can achieve.

You have done plenty to earn her, and the more you focus on yourself the more women will manifest. Nature is cruel but fair.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Really well said. Yes, I agree with this. I guess where I was going with it is I barely applied any game to the situation, so I earned her simply by being the impervious man that I was.

As a blue pilled man for 25+ years, that thought truly blows my mind. Because being the incarnation that I was prior didn't do shit for me.

[–]Thinkingard 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

The piano playing bit is good bait for you to use as well. She heard the piano and she opened you perfectly. You can use that as bait in the future, mentioning your piano skills, or asking a girl to come back to your place to hear you play.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I never mention piano skills, I feel like it comes off as needy. If there's a piano in the room, however, I might just play something.

It's especially mind blowing when they've known you for months and you make no mention of it, and randomly punch out the theme from La La Land or something. It helps to maintain that mysterious hot guy allure.

[–]Bone_Coat 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

OP, once I saw an experiment done on girls, long story short, a man that can play some instrument is much more attractive, he doesn't even have to know how to play it, just by having a guitar or something by his side will do the trick.

[–]MartinVDK91 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

How long did it take to become decend at the piano and how did you learn? I play guitar myself since a lot of years.

[–]Nov51605 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

agreed - if it wasn't for all of the foundational groundwork - this wouldn'a happened - albeit the "fish jumping in the boat" meme on the surface

[–]INTJokes 29 points30 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Were you still shirtless when you answered the door?

[–][deleted] 41 points42 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

lol yes.

I've found that ever since I hit below a certain BF% I feel extremely comfortable with my shirt off, or in cut off sleeves/tanks.

I say this as a former chubby guy. I lost 50 lbs over 2 years and gained a lot of lean mass as well.

[–]MartinVDK91 7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

What's your bf % ? Mine is 13 % and I feel pretty comfortable.

[–]Retiredmagician 9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I think that's a good amount to look good and still have a healthy lifestyle (10-14%)

[–]Rimefang 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have 14% from what trainers tell me. I got visible abs though my belly fat, and got gpod cuts everywhere else. I'm hoping to make it to single digit % someday.

[–]Retiredmagician 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbh I think single digit is only good for competing (or if you're just cutting and want to see how lean you can get)

The amount of work and strictness needed to maintain like 7/8% is quite a bit and I know it isnt healthy to keep at a super low body fat for a long time too.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I'd say about 13 - 14% BF. I don't have visible abs but I have good definition everywhere else. Also girls consistently tell me I have enormous arms.

[–]opper-hombre1 22 points23 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

cool field report. Can you elaborate on the "learn and practice" part about talking about nothing for hours? What resources helped you in this area?

[–][deleted] 50 points51 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Look in Reddit Seduction for "Never run out of things to say" (can't link because automod)

Pretty good reading there.

A big basis of building my skill also came from Dale Carnegie "How to win friends and influence people"

[–]killedontheprivy 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Big up yourself. I appreciate the help.

[–][deleted]  (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]NocnaMora 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

if you still haven't found it, he meant subreddit seduction, you can basically google "Never run out of things to say reddit" and first result will be it

[–]ProFriendZoner 12 points13 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I practice conversational skills on married women. They are much better conversationalists than single women.

Ask an open ended question (a question that does not have a yes or no answer), LISTEN to what she is saying, find something in what she says to ask a question about and keep going like that. You can seamlessly change the topic and cover all sorts of subjects. You'll never run out of things to talk about and she's doing the talking. I've conversed like this for anywhere from 5 minutes to 3 hours and afterwards they'll be eating out of your had. In the practice you find out what works for you, what doesn't, you'll cringe somewhat, you'll smile somewhat. And what you learn you can fine tune to use on anyone.

[–]Hombremaniac 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I practice conversational skills on married women.

Those, often, tend to be also the most desperate with dead bedrooms, husbands "not listening" and handful of other insecurities.

I talk to a lot of women in our company, mostly around 40 and many of them are not exactly respectful when mentioning their husbands. Kinda makes me cringe inside, but at least I'm not in their shoes.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If a woman is disrespecting her man while talking to you then it's a green light that she wants you to make a move

[–]Hombremaniac 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, that thought has crossed my mind. Also small things like comparing me to the hubby, saying we've got similar type of beard only that mine is groomed better. Commenting on my dress code, both positive as well as negative.

Funny thing is, that while she is not bad looking for 40 (she is slim), I'm not into her much, so perhaps I'm showing IDGAF attitude.

I'll take it as a sign of progress, work harder on self improvement and along with it should come other benefits like behaving the same around chicks that I actually find real hot (not there yet exactly).

Anyway, thanks for the feedback.

[–]rendezvous199 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Read DayBang by Roosh. Gives good examples of rambling

[–]ryuamakusa_daq 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lower your standards for what's acceptable as "cool". If you meet your favorite celebrity and they yammer on about some bullshit, you will find that cool in the moment, unless you sit down and logically analyze every sentence later.

[–]CainPrice 79 points80 points  (29 children) | Copy Link

This is what women are really like. And until a guy has experienced this first-hand, he doesn't know women.

Until a guy has had casual sex with women, he just doesn't know.

If he's only interacted with women who don't like him romantically or sexually, or with women who are his girlfriend or trying to be his girlfriend, and he has no idea what women are like or how they behave when they're just after casual sex, then he doesn't know women. And reading about them on The Red Pill and getting angry isn't enough. He needs to see, first-hand, for himself, what women are actually like by doing the casual thing with them. How differently they behave than every woman he's ever known who was trying to be a girlfriend or who wasn't interested. How liberated, uncensored, and real they are when they're meeting with casual guys and how everything they've ever known about women was just a mask.

If a guy has never been a part of the casual sex culture, he just plain doesn't know women. He's got no business dating or having relationships, or even really advising men about stuff or deciding what kind of future he wants, be it marriage, plates, MGTOW, or whatever. If a guy has not done the casual sex thing with women, first-hand, he just plain doesn't know women and can't make an intelligent decision about anything.

[–][deleted] 49 points50 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

What's crazy is, when I wouldn't commit to exclusivity, her response was "hookup culture is overrated"

She said this, despite perpetuating the very hookup culture she says is overrated.

[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime 29 points30 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Women will re-arrange their world views at will to suit their current goals, and they'll believe it too.

It's one of those in built mechanisms that makes them so persuasive.

[–]mabden 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Replace persuasive with relentless.

[–]jamesbond0512 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You never know. Awalts but she’a the type of girl you can trick out into accepting threesomes and much more.

When you learn how to play the strings they’ll be playing whatever you compose. 7/8 range are the best girls.

[–]ProFriendZoner 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That scares me when I hear a woman saying things like this while engaging in said activity. Yea, I know watch the action and not the words, just keep that little dude wrapped up so she doesn't use you as a one way ticket out of the "overrated hook-up culture".

[–]awaken471 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

can confirm. Had my first casual sex experience at the end of the year, and I was her little bitch almost begging for sex (it's almost like i was acting like the girl in this post)

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is what women are really like. And until a guy has experienced this first-hand, he doesn't know women. Until a guy has had casual sex with women, he just doesn't know. If he's only interacted with women who don't like him romantically or sexually, or with women who are his girlfriend or trying to be his girlfriend, and he has no idea what women are like or how they behave when they're just after casual sex, then he doesn't know women. And reading about them on The Red Pill and getting angry isn't enough. He needs to see, first-hand, for himself, what women are actually like by doing the casual thing with them. How differently they behave than every woman he's ever known who was trying to be a girlfriend or who wasn't interested. How liberated, uncensored, and real they are when they're meeting with casual guys and how everything they've ever known about women was just a mask. If a guy has never been a part of the casual sex culture, he just plain doesn't know women. He's got no business dating or having relationships, or even really advising men about stuff or deciding what kind of future he wants, be it marriage, plates, MGTOW, or whatever. If a guy has not done the casual sex thing with women, first-hand, he just plain doesn't know women and can't make an intelligent decision about anything.

This.

I suspect its harder to get into a casual relationship with a girl especially if you look ugly.

I know good looking Pakistani guys who slay, but don't lift - they get by on their looks.

I suspect that casual sex with women is primarily dependent on looks and nothing else.

[–]redpill77 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If a guy has not done the casual sex thing with women, first-hand, he just plain doesn't know women and can't make an intelligent decision about anything.

There are aspects of the red pill which come naturally, which I discovered before this subreddit, but this is the kind of ideaa that will drastically change the trajectory of your life.

[–]The_Red_Trooper 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most blue pilled men will say that this is fan fiction and stuff like this never happens. But truth is stranger than fiction. Since i became red pilled 4 years ago i have a lot of stories just like this. Most men wont be able to accept women's true sexual nature. I met an 18 year old girl on tinder who said she wasn't looking for sex but within 30 minutes she was giving me a rim job. stories like these are the reason that women hate the red pill. They don't want society figuring out the sex they are having with Chad and Tyrones.

[–]trpboy123 16 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Finally one good FR that I can read without jerking off lol.

Jokes aside, Great FR.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you stranger. This FR occurred back in September - November and I've experienced so much more since then so I plan to write up more.

[–]meowsero 4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

So did she text back after she said she is deleting your number? and do you fuck then?

The girl I'm seeing now brought up exclusivity the same way, but I fell for it and promised exclusivity and then agreed to be called her boyfriend. Reasons why I fell for it: 1. she is at least a 9 and best I've ever got. 2. we get along really well and have fun together. 3. I had no other plates at the time. 4. needed to keep her because we frequent a social event and was experiencing some backlash and destructive hate from some bitches there, so I wanted her o my side and as social proof.

Reading your post makes me wish I handled it the way you did. But I don't fully regret now cause we are still cool together. I just feel that if I did it your way my mentality would be more outcome independent and that of abundance and more motivated to work on myself harder and bring my SMV up and not settling on LTR, because it's true when they say men in a committed relationship have lower Testosterone.

[–]tyronethejabrone 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Giving exclusivity to really hot chick... because she’s really hot = biggest mistake in the book

Treat a girl like you are fucking a girl hotter than her

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. She went through her call history 3 weeks back and found a number with my area code, knowing it was my number. I meant to politely tell her to fuck off because I felt bad messing with her emotions like that, but also that body was so fucking amazing. So my dick took over and I invited her over.

This was a multiple month affair so we were also friends on instagram. She blocked me, then a couple weeks later, on a Friday night, she unblocks me and hits me with a "u up?" DM.

Maybe this girl is right for you, maybe not. You seem to really like her and she seems to be a good fit for you. Don't overthink, it because its hard to find a 'good one'.

I think I'm slightly older than the typical TRP demographic (I'm 30) and I've been fucked over one too many times from commitment. It was easier for me to turn this girl down after living the depression that was my early - mid 20s.

That being said, I still look forward to meeting a good girl to settle down with. Eventually.

[–]KizahdStenter 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Like O'neil said, maybe one will stick aroung long enough(behaves) that she will be upgraded.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha!!! That shit is funny. I'm 30 as well and nope, no problems with oneitis just because.

[–]heartbroken_nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think that the wisest words I have ever heard on this matter are as follows:

"The only woman worthy of marriage is a woman who will loyally and submissively stand by your side knowing that you would never marry her anyway."

My interpretation:

DO NOT get married, period. However, if you like a girl 'that way', you can stay in a marriage-like LTR, without ever giving into the legal commitment, indefinitely. Just make sure to cover your exit strategies in case something goes wrong, so that you don't get fucked in the ass by the court.

[–]Kyogata 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

She probably heard you playing piano many times, saw you in and around the building without you seeing her. Girls don't just knock on a stranger's door late at night and ask to come. She'd been outside that door before, wondering whether to knock, sometimes even with her hand bunched in a fist nervously held there just about to knock, and then drawing away, regretfully.

Eventually she decided she'd go out and have a few drinks, knowing you'd probably be playing piano when she got back, and then she'd have the courage to knock. She did it and ...

She'd been thinking about this a lot, observing, listening, waiting ...

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think you're right. It's interesting to hear this perspective though, because until you said something I just viewed it as a spontaneous act.

[–]phibetared 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No chance it was spontaneous. She had seen you before and knew which apartment you were in. She was "DTF" and was yours to have or lose if you didn't take the opportunity.

[–]Alphabetron1 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ahhh, everyone on their red pill journey ultimately has a girl like this. They just feed right into what the red pill preaches and it feels rewarding as fuck. Solid post.

[–]tyronethejabrone 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What kinda piano you got? Been thinking about taking it up

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Some kind of Casio Keyboard. It has weighted keys. I think it cost me around $300.

Something to note, I'm not terribly good at piano, I'm just good enough to play some songs, and girls that don't know shit about music swoon. Any real musician would call me out in an instant. I still enjoy it though.

[–]phibetared 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I was with a guy/girl couple somewhere. She starts yammering about how wonderful the guy is and "He even played a song for me that was funny... about "chopping broccoli"."

The song, if you don't know, was on Saturday Night Live performed by Dana Carvey (see youtube). It is funny, but very simple. Never-the-less, this girl loved it, it made her laugh, and got him laid.

I shook my head so HE KNEW I knew he had stole the song from SNL. She had no clue. I didn't say anything.

Further, apparently I look like the lead singer of some medium-time band that had just played in my town. Some drunk girl rushes up to me saying "Oh, you are the lead singer from (whatver the name was)!!". AND she starts rubbing my dick through my jeans! Immediately.

So yes, things happen.

[–]get_unoffended 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for the field report. Appreciate the info. And obviously, well-done. Your hard work has paid off. Just curious for my own reference, how old are you?

[–]wilcomylove 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Cool story. Can you please elaborate on what things you worked on for a year which resulted in these drastic changes?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

A worthwhile comment about these changes will probably have enough content to be a post in itself.

In short, I started lifting (find any reddit fitness routine), which lead to me joining a running club, which lead to me gaining a social circle of friends with similar interests.

The snowball effect really took place, as my gym gains got better, I felt compelled to focus more on diet, and then further each exercise. It was self fulfilling to a point.

I did a little bit of cold approach, but most of my socializing skills came from monk mode/social circle game. I wasn't trying to game anybody in my circle so I was already outcome independent (because I literally wasn't trying to get in anybody's pants)

In all honesty, lifting was the #1 thing that changed everything. It made my social faux pas more forgiving, people are willing to put up with less than perfect interactions if you look good.

[–]wilcomylove 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks. Gotta start lifting.

[–]warfarinrx 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol the third time got me. Actions not words boys. Fuckin legendary.

[–]MisterDaiT 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The only thing that stuck out in this story to me is that some asshole was playing the piano at 0100 hours.

Fuck people like you, other people need sleep.

Besides that, keep up the good work improving yourself.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I flexed like Jeff Seid while playing like Beethoven for these hoes. The mating call was heard.

[–]universalabundance1 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

It took a grand total of three weeks for her to go through her phone history, find a number with my area code, and hit me up. Just one more thing I can confirm in my readings of TRP, is that they will always boomerang back when you have that IDGAF attitude.

So what happened when she hit you up?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I had to end things with my other plate so I told her I wasn't fucking anybody else at the time, but also to not expect exclusivity.

She lived in my building so she would come over at night and we'd fuck, then she'd go back to her place. It was pretty great.

I knew I was moving out of that place within a month so we kept it going until then. It just kind of ended there.

I hit her up recently, in not so many words she told me to 'fuck off' lol.

[–]NocnaMora 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

why did you hit her up recently? in the post you said "I tell her if she tries to hit me up again, I will have to politely tell her to fuck off"

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was moving out of the building and we met up again. We parted on good terms and I thought enough time had past that we could at least meet up again, randomly.

Apparently Not.

Like I said, I'm still new to this.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It just kind of ended there.

I hit her up recently, in not so many words she told me to 'fuck off' lol.

These are probably related tbh, she wanted some kind of show of emotional desire/investment on your part and wised up to the fact that it was really just sex

[–]banana_apple_pear 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for putting in the effort to write this FR. Once you were in the bedroom, did you actually put on music? Or did you immediately become physical?

And did you "do" anything to transition to sex once in the bedroom? I know this question comes across a bit autistic, but I often struggle with this. What happens is that I am lying in bed with a girl, I know she wants sex, yet I struggle to go from talking & joking to kissing & fucking. I guess it's some escalation anxiety. So I'm curious how you did this.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I put on music. I also have a laser light machine which displays stars on the ceiling - puts on a good magical mood.

Then we sit and talk on the couch or whatever, and honestly I just go for it. If there's a lull in conversation, or sometimes the girl will help escalate by playfully hitting you, so I do something like grab the arm thats hitting me, I lock eye contact and move in.

If you know they're already attracted then 9/10 times they're receptive, and if they're not receptive then you read the situation wrong, and honestly that's an good and direct answer to say to her like "oh, I read this situation wrong" - no shame in that.

[–]banana_apple_pear 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for your reply, this is really helpful!

I had one more question that I forgot earlier. You mentioned you moved to a big city. Of course please don't disclose any information that could lead to you being doxxed, but could you give an indication about how big that more or less is? Like 200.000 people, a million, 3 million, 20 million...

Finally, I was wondering what kind of music you put on. Slow Jams and R&B? Careless Whisper by George Michael? I once had a roommate who would put on music by 50 Cent when he had a girl in his room.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, I moved to one of the top 20 largest cities in America. I come from a medium sized city to begin with (200k - 300k population) but the new city is 600k+ and much denser, good public transportation, highly educated people flock there, etc. etc.

It depends on the girl. This particular girl is more of a hipster/nerd type so even some folk type music worked for her.

I do have a sex playlist that has beats like Galamatias, Alina Baraz, The Weeknd, and Odesza. They work wonders for setting the mood.

[–]banana_apple_pear 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks again; I currently live in a city with less than 100.000 people and I can notice it's much more boring compared to cities with much larger populations.

The music you play is very interesting; I like the style (it reminded me a bit of the chillhop I sometimes listen to), however I would have never guessed that it would help set the mood. I always choose for something like Too Hot by Keath Sweat or Jeep by Joe.

Anyway, I'm looking forward to next FRs!

[–]mikkeldaman 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Congrats! It's nice to see examples of RP applied successfully in real life and your post is very motivational.

[–]3chazthundergut 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good work trooper. Keep it up

[–]sanos7 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cool story brah, lol, nah seriously, good on you.

As many have pointed out; Beware validation seeking. Still good of you to share. Because you're definitely not the only one doing it and reading it in someone else's FR reflects it back at you and makes you pause, reflect and decide to change that.

Great progress. New experiences can be truly (BP) paradigm shattering. Have had them too.

[–]INNASKILLZ2K18 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Nice...

All the guys like flabbergasted and ecstatic that the post confirms women's nature. After enough experience and time, this stuff just becomes the norm.

Kind of like Neo dodging the bullets - 'nah, there are no bullets'.

Good job, now do it again ;-)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This occurred back in September, so I have a couple more field reports since then. This is my first post so I wasn't sure how well it would go. Seems pretty well received so I'll write more.

[–]INNASKILLZ2K18 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I just peeped that it was back then in another comment.

It's always good to see stuff paired down to frame, game and looks. Good job on the report. Keep them coming.

[–]jonpe87 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She was prob looking for a excuse to fuck with you weeks before... When she knocked on your door she already did know half of your life, or whatever she could discover

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I think you're right. When the weather is nice I go on runs with no shirt on and she said she definitely noticed that. Also my apartment is the first door in the building so everybody has to pass by my place whenever they enter/leave the building.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Here's a question for thought:

Do you wear glasses? Are you losing hair? Do you have an attractive face? Perhaps it wasn't all the work that you thought it was that helped you, but merely recovering your good looks from fat?

If you were the same fitness level, but balding or wore glasses, do you think you would be as successful as you are now?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Good question. I think your reasoning for asking this question is to see how much one has to overcome to become traditionally attractive and it might be more or less for different people.

I used to wear glasses, but I upgraded to contact lenses, and later I got Lasik.

I have a full head of hair so that is one thing I did not have to overcome.

My face is probably average. I used to have extremely terrible acne so I have acne scars on my face, of which I have been using creams to try to reduce. I also have a weak jaw line and can't grow facial hair. When I was fat it all went to my neck so I was very much a neckbeard.

To answer your question, yeah I think I would be as successful as I am now. I corrected the things that I could (Lasik, fitness, shave everyday). If balding was an issue I am sure I would address it to ensure my success rather than dwell on it as some life sentence to perpetual virginity.

[–]b2daoni 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Mewing for the weak jaw. Orthotropics might help.

[–]SilenceIsGolden321 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is awesome. Focusing on your hobbies does pay off. Not only does it fulfill you, but if you become good at what you do, bitches will be more attracted to you.

Even if OP was only playing "Mary Had A Little Lamb" on loop he would still have these bitches on him due to all the bodybuilding.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's funny, I often start with "Mary had a little lamb" and then lead into some Beethoven or something. Really throws people off lol

[–]Moldy_Gecko 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I know rule 1 is lift, but I don't. Regardless, because of TRP, I can confirm that the TRP framework can get you laid within 60 mins no problem. I don't write FRs, but I have a handful of experiences just like this.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That's awesome that you're able to do that. I grew up very shy and introverted so even though I've worked hard to overcome it, I still prefer quieter, more intimate conversations in smaller group settings. I found that being fit also afforded me to be able to make many more social mistakes before being disqualified. Which in turn gave me more confidence.

[–]Moldy_Gecko 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Me too man. I've always been kind of shy and overthink everything. I prefer the same kind of settings as you as well. I guess for me (I'm not fat, btw, just not fit), I found jobs that put me out there; waitstaff, bartending, and sales are a great way to break that comfort zone. However, I can agree with you that if I were more fit, I could definitely make a lot more mistakes before being disqualified. I've just been lucky or good enough that I guess I don't make too many social mistakes anymore.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's awesome, I look forward to continuing my improvement so that I don't have to solely rely on one or another.

[–]scorpionkg 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That was awesome! Congrats, bro! Hard work pays off, and you don't even gtf about it anymore, because you are a full alfa.

Congrats, I am working on that.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

LFMAO...That was INSANE Good AND Funny! I particularly liked the Boomerang part how you stuck to your guns and WHAMMO....

"She's bacckkkkkkkk"

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

fake: girl hears piano and comes to talk to him

gay: anon takes shirtless videos/pictures of himself playing piano

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, this is exactly what I said when I read field reports like this.

[–]trp_nofap_rewire2018 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

About fake FRs: I’d say 99% are, unless OP has something truly insightful to share here. It’s the internet, we have no evidence that what you are saying is true or false. Now if the field report is coming from a veteran member that’s another story.

[–]odaklanan_insan 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is it true? I don't know. Is it possible? Absolutely fucking yes.

If you want to see the truth with your own eyes, OP can't help you with that. You have to walk the walk and see it for yourself.

[–]SaladThunder 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What were you playing on piano?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't remember.

If you want to learn one song, learn the theme from La La Land. It's the ultimate panty dropper.

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]abdullah_ibrahim 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

but when you learn (AND PRACTICE), you know how to talk about nothing for hours, and when you throw in playful banter and shit tests, it further seals the deal

and how do you exactly learn this

[–]1tysonfury 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

How to learn to talk hours about nothing?

[–]Iamthebest98 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bro link me the fuck up on all the posts you have read.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean honestly. The sidebar and sorting by Top of All Time is a good place to start. It's a lot to read, and reading is good, but it's just the start.

I was lucky that I had a friend to talk to about these concepts and it helped to further internalize a mindset for me.

[–]celtiberian666 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just like that. A random girl knocked on my door and within the hour we were fucking in my bed.

It could also be 30 seconds and in your hallway. Knocking on your door 1am "to say hi", LOL, what she really meant was "to take some D*".

I guess you know you could have sealed the deal right away, you took longer to enjoy the ride (sometimes "the game" is as fun as the f* part, or even better).

[–]throwryuken -3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Occasionally this sub is cringey as fuck. This thread is one of those occasions.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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