TLDR - when you focus on yourself and your mission, chicks will get pulled into your life automatically. No need to go out of your way chasing pussy.
Background- I am 5'9", 280 lbs, and bald. Not traditionally attractive to women. But I lift like crazy, I shaved my head and grew out a big bushy beard, and as per TRP I pay attention to my wardrobe and grooming. Years of rejection have chapped my leather and forced me to become self-validating, which now works in my favor.
Today I was sitting at a weed lounge smoking weed and vibing out to music. I didnt go there to game chicks; I just had the morning off and wanted to get stoned.
As I was sitting there, in walk two beautiful young women. I see them but ignore them and continue enjoying my weed. They walk around the lounge a bit and come sit on the couch next to me. I make eye contact, flash them a brief smile, then turn back to my weed.
They smile and nod back so 3 seconds later without thinking I offer them a hit from the joint I just lit and they say sure and light their own and we start passing them around the three of us.
I introduce myself and the conversation has a very natural flow. One is 21 years old from Egypt, the other is 22 years old from Bolivia. They are students newly moved to my town.
When I hid built some rapport and had them laughing, I stood up and said: "I gotta get going. You girls wanna exchange numbers?" Of course they said yes. I handed them my phone and gave them hugs and went on my way.
Simple and easy. I know this isn't a big deal for most of you guys, but when I started on this journey I never thought it would be this easy. I also made this post because I've noticed the same thing happening over and over. I have these same interactions everywhere- I recently got girls' numbers from hanging at a coffee shop, hiking in the mountains, at the beach, tubing on the river, etc. They all follow the same pattern. I will just be hanging out alone or with friends doing our own thing and chicks just seem to be around. I make eye contact, smile, and if they smile back I just go up and say "hey". Most are super chill if you just relax and give off a good vibe. The less effort I put into finding women, and more effort into enjoying my life to the fullest, the more women I seem to find around me. Thanks TRP.