I get into a nasty habit of binging on every top post I see on hot/top this Subreddit. I needed a break. Some posts are good but some are terrible. I had been applying what I learned and I fucked 5 girls since April.
Previous to that...it had been 2 years. I'm 22 and couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong. Luckily had a fling in December of last year that sent me down a path where I found this place.
Thank god I found this place. It has taught me what my father couldn't. He's very Redpill in business but a complete beta with my mother.
I've learned a lot in the last few months. Three of my plates lasted under a month and the other two lasted 2 and 3 months. My last plate was the one that I learned the most from.
-Red Flags are so important to respond to. If you let one red flag go your opening yourself up a onslaught of them.
-No matter what they are hiding something. It will eventually come out and it's never good.
-Her friends are a reflection of her.
-You can't save a girl. Don't try. The second you do you've over invested.
-STAY FAR AWAY FROM ANY GIRL WHO DOES DRUGS OR HAS DONE DRUGS.
-A girl who has had a drug problem in the past is damaged goods.
-Don't fuck a girl if she tells you she's sober and doesn't drink.
You might think this would be obvious however, sometimes you find out she had a problem with painkillers after you've fucked her 20 times.
-The less plates you have the faster you drift back into old ways.
-The blue pill can sometimes creep up on you and if your not careful you'll be fucked.
-Never commit to a single pussy unless you've been in it and around it for at least 6-8 months.
-If they are pushing for commitment your doing something right.
-Never forget your in a position of power when she's begging you to commit.
-Never make women the priority. Keep work, school, something ahead of her.
My best was 3 plates spinning at once. I don't know how you can manage more than that. It really depends on your time. My last "plate" was the only one I was seeing so call it what you will.
Long story short, I had become to complacent allowed her to see me more than once a week. This is a problem because she'll start coming over more and more. Soon your seeing her a few times a week. Then your skipping the gym and before you know it your her boyfriend. Fuck that. Keep her at once a week maybe twice but never forget to try and pick up new plates.
It's been a great 2017. Looking forward to closing the year out crossing out a lot of my long term goals.