TL;DR: I got my first plate. She's tight.

INTRODUCTION:

There's nothing quite like the sense of euphoria after finishing a workout and getting that dopamine rush, the knowing that you just improved your lifts and are in the best shape you've ever been in your entire life and only getting better.

Gaming a woman then fucking her the same day for the first time comes pretty damn close.

Some backstory, filmed in BetaMax™: I was unmotivated at work, alone and asocial, and my raison d'être was getting the dopamine fix from video games and porn to hold back the crushing depression of knowing I had no purpose. I just began lifting properly for a few months and climbing out of the hole, but still felt I had wasted all my youth, potential, brilliance and intellect on meaningless bullshit. Deep down that was my identity. My one solace was a semi-plate that I was "dating" long-term that I had to break it off with. I went to a party a few days after. Half drunk on bottom shelf bacardi and hopped up on red bull I went to bed dissapointed because the new girl I was trying to game was asleep in one room, I was wide awake in another, and in between us was the hostess getting railed in her room by a guy she met a few hours ago. I was at the cusp of the anger phase and this hit me with it full force. I was angry and confused that the world wasn't what I was raised to believe, dissapointed because I should have been able to game my girl and be competing with our hostess for who could fuck the loudest, sexually frustrated because I was not getting laid, and bitter that it took this long for me to realize it. For years I felt like a loser and it all came to the surface in a bubbling metanoia of piss and vinegar. That night was the best thing that ever happened to me.

BODY:

After a month or two of intense reading of The Sidebar, learning and practicing being social, gaming men and women, and trying to release my inner Chad and making myself better in all aspects I thought were important, I had my first tryout last weekend at a work retreat. (Lesson: Work on and improve yourself, it's the most important thing you can possibly do.) The change in perspective over the weeks leading up to the retreat prepared me and I felt I was slaying it: I was still on noob gains while lifting but looking exponentially better, I am told I am above average in looks, I was in a friendly environment on common ground with hundreds of people and I could pick my social battles and game who I wanted. I would see someone I wanted to speak to, walk up to them, break the ice or introduce myself and get them talking about themselves, cracking the occasional smartass remark or shit testing them in a joking manner and getting a feel where the conversation was going and if we even wanted to talk to each other. No real goals involved, no agenda to push, just good social fun. (Lesson: The shotgun approach works. You will 'click' with some people and not others, so spread the love. Talk to men, flirt with women, play with children, old, young, do it with everyone.) It would have been great to get laid on the retreat and I was definitely chatting up women with that in mind, but having an agenda comes through in your body language and conversation so I made it my goal to bring my A-game and hone my social skills.

Whether it was circumstance, my shotgun approach, or the noob gains, I gamed a chick hard and hit a homerun. A cute redhead, mid 20s, freckled all over and shapely. I took the cocky approach that suits my personality and teased/asked her about her appearances (Lesson: Use something you notice about the girl to break the ice and ask a question. Thanks /u/Schrodingersdawg). I sat her down and had her talking about herself with the occasional pun, innuendo, or interjection that got me some smiles or laughs. Her friends came over and I flirted/gamed them too. I got phone numbers from all of them under the nonchalant veil of exchanging contact info and networking. (LESSON: Show them you have options.) Occasionally I'd stop the conversation, stand up and go chat with someone else. Once I gave her my empty cup and had her go refill it at the water jug while I went over to another chick and started chatting.

I felt IOIs coming across and went for some light touches a few minutes into the conversation. Over a few hours the touching was escalated to hands around her shoulder, touching her back, and it reached the point where we were sitting and whispering to each other while I was feeling her up under her dress. Then I'd pull away and not even touch or acknowledge her, then a few minutes later go right back to it. (LESSON: Law of Power #3: Conceal your intentions. It will drive them insane and intrigue them as they try to figure out what you're actually up to, sleeping with them or not.) The encounter had a very dominating feel to it; I owned her body and I did what I wanted with it. Eventually the logistics of the evening worked out to where I got her alone and in private. I went for the kisses and started experimenting to find what got the juices flowing. The details aren't important because every girl will be a little different, the important part is find what she likes, tease her and take your time. The alpha male is in no rush, he knows what he's got and is secure that he's got it.

After reaching and rubbing the fun part between her legs the battery of LMRs came in hard: she enjoyed the touching, but when I went to removed her panties she resisted, saying they were staying on. I backed off a bit and went back to petting, trying to keep a balance of excitement and momentum but not being suffocating and moving too quick. She suggested popping up Netflix, which I agreed to. I began again shortly after, but I was met yet again with insistence that clothes were staying on. I told her if she wanted to stop just say so. She said stop, so I disengaged completely. I got her to grab my phone for me and started flipping through Facebook, ignoring her completely. She started to take the hint and rolled over to cuddle. I took the cuddle but continued ignoring her otherwise (an important detail here is she was unable to see my phone cuddled up to me, which allowed me to play the trump card for LMR: played the text message notification sound). Seeing her wonder what that was I commented, "Oh that's just the text message sound on my phone." "It's 2am and you're getting a text?" "Apparently." (LESSON: If she's not playing ball, disengage. Show them you have options. Dread game works. The most powerful tool a man has is the ability to disengage and walk away, preferably into another woman's bedroom.)

Bam. Dread instilled. She hamstered around for a second then reached up around my neck and pulled me in for the kiss. After that it was gravy. Clothes came off, despite her protests that they were staying on. Exchanged oral, more token LMR, she sat back and said, "I just met you." I replied back, "And I just met you." (LESSON: DO. NOT. BREAK. FRAME. She doesn't want to feel like a slut, this doesn't mean she doesn't want to fuck your brains out.) We continue, met with more LMR: "We have to stop." Ignored her, spread her legs and went to town.

She was tight. I'm meeting her again later this week.

LESSONS LEARNED:

  • Work on and improve yourself, it's the most important thing you can possibly do.
  • The shotgun approach works. You will 'click' with some people and not others, so spread the love. Talk to men, flirt with women, play with children, old, young, do it with everyone.
  • Use something you notice about the girl to break the ice and ask a question.
  • Show them you have options
  • Law of Power #3: Conceal your intentions. It will drive them insane and intrigue them as they try to figure out what you're actually up to, sleeping with them or not.

I recommend purchasing and reading the book and not just the sidebar cliff notes. Robert Greene goes into greater detail and gives real examples of historical figures applying them. One of them was a countess trying to teach a young man how to court a woman he was fond of. The strategy she teaches this young man is redpill all the way.

  • ASD? If she's not playing ball, disengage. Show them you have options. Dread game works. The most powerful tool a man has is the ability to disengage and walk away, preferably into another woman's bedroom.

  • LMR? Do not break frame. Ever. If a woman respects and is attracted to you she will submit to your frame every time.

*This is especially true with LMR where breaking frame means the encounter's over, yet LMR is just a token bit of bullshit to shift the initiative and responsibility to you. If she's naked and in bed with you, she's not resisting even if she says she is; you will know if there's real resistance long before you even get to touch her. If a woman doesn't submit, move on because she doesn't respect you or isn't attracted to you.

ADDENDUM:

This could be taken as humblebragging, and yes I am proud of myself and excited to share my success story with TRP, but my motivation is for the other guys to read this and think if I can do it then they can too. I took advice from other men here, applied it, and got what I wanted. Yes it works. I went from a nerdy skinny shut-in to feeling successful, full of purpose, and charming with women, and goddamn if I'm not the happiest I've ever been. If you've read the sidebar and are actively improving yourself I believe you are as far as TRP reading can take you. GO OUT IN THE REAL WORLD AND PRACTICE. Don't soak up the details of TRP and FRs and expect it to land you pussy without it. You'll be happy you went through the struggle.