The past two weeks have been focused on jumping back into cold approach. I'm writing about only the most notable interactions from the past weekend.
Made several approaches with wingman. Screened many of the girls through physical contact ranging from touching their arms and legs, high 5s, holding their hands, and playing with hair. No girls DTF yet. I think I'm warmed up - but in reality I'm still pretty stiff.
Wing has pulled a girl from a set so now I'm rolling solo. I open two rather attractive girls with "Hi I'm Framewalker". Start general chit-chat -
Me: "how do you know each other? " Her: "We're lesbians." (shit-test)
From here on out I crash and burn. It's a mix of not thinking too quickly on my feet and saying whatever comes to mind. I can tell there's not much to lose. Me: "Oh that's great. I like bi girls. Many of my past girlfriends were bi, but now that I'm seeing multiple girls they're straight. So frustrating."
(Cue Beta Shaming) Both girls: Look of disgust.
Her: "I bet its because you have a small dick" (bigger shit test!)
Me: Stuttering/ pausing/nervous smile. "Your mom did feel a little loose last night"
Her: "Nice to meet you".
I could not imagine a set going more badly. In reality it couldn't have gone better. I got rid of two uninterested girls very quickly and got over any fear of rejection. I felt zero sadness or anger, and a moderate amount of mild amusement. Having my fears come true, and not being badly affected in the least freed me.
The result was the ability to quickly approach the rest of the night with a cheeky smile and immediately start screening. Grabbing their hands, pulling them close talking to them. Getting numbers, making comments on their appearance/style. I approached and held arms/hands/hips with 4-5 girls in rapid succession. I felt unshakeable in my happiness. Ended up grabbing two girls one for me and a friend and heading to a place to grab food. Unfortunately only a number close. Was a hilarious time teasing the shit out of the girls while eating food.
The warming up carried into the next night. I get to the bar 45 minutes before closing, spending time with the friends that brought me there. 20 minutes to close I approach a group of 4 girls and 1 guy dancing in a circle. Introduce myself and make chit chat. Cute girl to my right does not respond well to kino. Girl on left IOI's with puppy eyes. I spin her around and don't let go of her hand. Made small chit chat with some mild teasing saying things like
"I bet these are your friends from freshman year."
I took every opportunity to tease her and all of her friends. I would say things like
"I'm going to embarrass you in front of your friends."
To her friends I would say things like "what should I say to make her angry" and I would try to play them off each other, doing my best to playfully drive a wedge between them and commenting on the strength of their friendship. I found out that it was a girl's birthday and organized a group hug. The closing song is playing and the birthday girl points at my girl and I and makes a suggestive gesture. I headed back to my friends three feet away for a bit.
I notice the girl I was chatting up hugging the birthday girl, and I interrupt and try some RSDJulien style game:
I push the birthday girl off of my girl so I can grab her and hold her head into my chest.
Me: "How could you do this to me?"
Her: "Do what?
Me: "Every time we see each other you're like this. You pretend we've never met"
Her: "Is that a pickup line?"
Me: Silence and holding.
She grabs my hands and drags me to her place.... Right time, right place.
Lessons: 1. T-shirt and jeans is just fine for a collegetown.
2. Get rejected hard to set yourself free.
3. Closing time is "closing time"