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[FR] Weekend Update

February 3, 2015

The past two weeks have been focused on jumping back into cold approach. I'm writing about only the most notable interactions from the past weekend.

Made several approaches with wingman. Screened many of the girls through physical contact ranging from touching their arms and legs, high 5s, holding their hands, and playing with hair. No girls DTF yet. I think I'm warmed up - but in reality I'm still pretty stiff.

Wing has pulled a girl from a set so now I'm rolling solo. I open two rather attractive girls with "Hi I'm Framewalker". Start general chit-chat -

Me: "how do you know each other? " Her: "We're lesbians." (shit-test)

From here on out I crash and burn. It's a mix of not thinking too quickly on my feet and saying whatever comes to mind. I can tell there's not much to lose. Me: "Oh that's great. I like bi girls. Many of my past girlfriends were bi, but now that I'm seeing multiple girls they're straight. So frustrating."
(Cue Beta Shaming) Both girls: Look of disgust.
Her: "I bet its because you have a small dick" (bigger shit test!)
Me: Stuttering/ pausing/nervous smile. "Your mom did feel a little loose last night"
Her: "Nice to meet you".

I could not imagine a set going more badly. In reality it couldn't have gone better. I got rid of two uninterested girls very quickly and got over any fear of rejection. I felt zero sadness or anger, and a moderate amount of mild amusement. Having my fears come true, and not being badly affected in the least freed me.

The result was the ability to quickly approach the rest of the night with a cheeky smile and immediately start screening. Grabbing their hands, pulling them close talking to them. Getting numbers, making comments on their appearance/style. I approached and held arms/hands/hips with 4-5 girls in rapid succession. I felt unshakeable in my happiness. Ended up grabbing two girls one for me and a friend and heading to a place to grab food. Unfortunately only a number close. Was a hilarious time teasing the shit out of the girls while eating food.

The warming up carried into the next night. I get to the bar 45 minutes before closing, spending time with the friends that brought me there. 20 minutes to close I approach a group of 4 girls and 1 guy dancing in a circle. Introduce myself and make chit chat. Cute girl to my right does not respond well to kino. Girl on left IOI's with puppy eyes. I spin her around and don't let go of her hand. Made small chit chat with some mild teasing saying things like

"I bet these are your friends from freshman year."

I took every opportunity to tease her and all of her friends. I would say things like

"I'm going to embarrass you in front of your friends."

To her friends I would say things like "what should I say to make her angry" and I would try to play them off each other, doing my best to playfully drive a wedge between them and commenting on the strength of their friendship. I found out that it was a girl's birthday and organized a group hug. The closing song is playing and the birthday girl points at my girl and I and makes a suggestive gesture. I headed back to my friends three feet away for a bit.

I notice the girl I was chatting up hugging the birthday girl, and I interrupt and try some RSDJulien style game:

I push the birthday girl off of my girl so I can grab her and hold her head into my chest.

Me: "How could you do this to me?"

Her: "Do what?

Me: "Every time we see each other you're like this. You pretend we've never met"

Her: "Is that a pickup line?"

Me: Silence and holding.

She grabs my hands and drags me to her place.... Right time, right place.

Lessons: 1. T-shirt and jeans is just fine for a collegetown.
2. Get rejected hard to set yourself free.
3. Closing time is "closing time"

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Title [FR] Weekend Update
Author FrameWalker
Upvotes 32
Comments 19
Date February 3, 2015 3:40 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit /r/TheRedPill
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/fr-weekend-update.28706
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2uljg3/fr_weekend_update/

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Good FR.

Her: "I bet its because you have a small dick"

That's a bitchy reply and it helps to have a few good one liners:

You: Who invited their little sister to the bar?

You: You don't get out much do you?

You: There aren't a lot of mirrors in your house are there

You: Oh careful, your feeding tube just fell out

heading to a place to grab food

Getting food is a libido killer and it's much better to just go separate ways if she insists on getting food

[–]Mouthpiece2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree and amplify. "Yes! It's microscopic. ". Laugh. Then move on.

[–]T4-FLow-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Could he reply with something along the lines of: How about both you try it then tell me what you think about it. Sorry iff I made any english mistakes not my native language.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If a girl is being a bitch then she's not worth your time or effort

[–]T4-FLow0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Got it then he should've just ignored and moved on.

[–]WallBender2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the FR. It really helps to hear the details of the dialogue between you and the women.

Re: Friday crash-and-burn... I actually chuckled at the "your mom" joke but I'm a man. And yea you were already off on a somewhat bad step with the story about the girls you're seeing because it comes off as trying to get their validation.

But still, after their pathetic "small dick" joke I just would've asked them "really? is that all you got? be creative."

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol "Your mom did feel a little loose last night".

[–]dabrah1-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice job. Your getting over your fear of approaching, and it seems like your having a good deal of success. Keep it up. More importantly, you noted several times that you were happy/having a good time. This shit is supposed to be fun, and it obviously is to you.

[–]TekkomanKingz-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Seems like Saturdays are better for you than Fridays.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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