Morning,
Had a reconfirming confirmation with a friend of the wife the other evening and wanted to share to either a) inspire those who are having a hard time coming to terms with TRP or b) keep those involved motivated to continue
The wife and I had dinner with a friend of hers the other evening, chick is hot, solid 9 (very fit, but not much of an ass so points got docked) but I knew she had a recent date with a guy that works in the same company as me, who happens to be sort of a local social media star (15k + followers on IG). I asked her how the date went and cue the hamster wheel.
She says the date was good but he is hard to understand. She said she is constantly making herself available for him and sending him very flirty texts/pictures but he tends to be aloof, doesn't respond right away etc. from her "I understand if he is dating other girls, I just want him to show me some more attention or feel validated for the effort I am giving him" Now my wife told me this girl gets 10+ messages a day through IG and facebook, and tells me the girl says "It's a turnoff to me for him to not reciprocate the effort I give him", however she continues to attempt to go on dates with him.
As the conversation continued away from her date and onto relationships in general she said "I could never date a guy who I could walk all over, it is just a major turnoff".
I don't know the guy very well, but like I said, he has a reputation for being a "Hot guy" and openly flirts with girls on his IG, so its not hard to imagine he is spinning plates, paired with the type of work we do, he is naturally unavailable.
Just some observations, thanks for reading
TL;DR: Hot girl is getting plated, she probably knows this, but still continues to pursue the guy... also, will not respect a guy she can walk all over.
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