(FR)Played very good game, had shitty sexual performance.

January 5, 2015
6 upvotes

On this Friday, I've met a girl from Tinder. HB6, kinda ugly but great body. Small tits, perfect ass. She is 27y.o. and I am 21, so this is a weird situation. We were suposed to go to the movies, but I got late and we ended up 'watching a movie' on my place. I played the 'cocky player' role. She showed a lot of resistance on the beggining, but ended up very horny and gave me a nice blowjob.

On Saturday, I told her to come for lunch (I ordered food). We ate and another blowjob (I was expecting sex, but yada yada I am not shaved yada yada). She kept saying how 'forward' I am and that she was turned on.

Then I openly demanded sex today (Sunday). I went to her place, we drank wine and said she was very shy on bed cause her old fiancé didn't let her do kinky stuff (which surprised me as on the other days she was acting like a slut and saying she wanted me to bang her doggy style etc.) I don't know how much of an anti-slut defense was that, but I decided to act very comprehensible to make her comfortable, and it worked incredibly to make her wet: We went to the room, started making out, oral, she asked for cock, but BAM, 1 minute in and I came. I usually don't last long (specially on the first round), but this was a fucking blink of an eye. I though : okay, we'll have like 3 more rounds. But my dick played me a trick and took 30~ minutes to get fully hard again. And on second round, guess what : 3 minutes banging and it was over. I felt like shit. She said it was ok and we'll still have a lot of sex on other days, but I can't keep playing 'cocky guy' after this pathetic performance. It is okay if you finish fast as long as you can fuck her on a lot of rounds (i usually 10min/20min/20min/30min with another plate) OR if you have 1 or 2 rounds but they last long (30min/30min). But this was complete shitty sex.

I believe this was Tinder's fault. I spent all day talking to chicks, and maybe Tinder fucks the dopamine sensors as pornography (due to exposure to many possible mates). I'll cut this and see how the next fuck goes. But anyway, I need tips on sexual performance (specially endurance).

Plis gibe me brohugs.

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Title (FR)Played very good game, had shitty sexual performance.
Author RICCIedm
Upvotes 6
Comments 18
Date January 5, 2015 3:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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[–]RedVladimir5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

This is mostly anxiety.

Main cause of PE is really lack of consistent intercourse.

Try to avoid positions where you exert too much movement, such as missionary.

Pro tip 1:

If you (or she) insists on missionary, have her put her legs over your shoulders. Raising her legs that high, will inversely arch her lower back, making your thrusts hit the g-spot on a more consistent basis. This is good for you as well, because your thrusts will remain short and yet effective. Longer thrusts stimulate the whole penis, which is detrimental for stamina.

Pro tip 2:

Whenever possible, have HER thrust into you. Such as during doggy. Also, encourage cowgirl as much as possible.

The less work you do, the better for your stamina. (Your lower muscles will stay relaxed for longer, which means less blood flow. All good for stamina.)

Pro tip 3:

Good news is, you will last longer as you do it more with her. In the mean time, becoming good at cunnilingus should be your next step.

Go to your favorite porn site nd search something along the line of "eat pussy like a pro". It's a 40-min instructional video with useful tips. If you watch it, you'll make her cum easily.

This video helped up my cunnilingus game big time. I sucked at it before.

Pro tip 4:

Learn how to make her squirt. On your favorite porn site, simply search for "how to make her squirt". Thank me later.

[–]RICCIedm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

After the first round, I went back to eating her pussy. Then she said she was too close to having an orgasm and told me to stop cause she wanted to come on my cock, not on my mouth. I think I have the oral sex covered, but I'll restudy everything. Thanks bro!

[–]Furrealyo0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

If you are wearing a condom, cowgirl is not great. You may have trouble keeping it up as girls tend to "grind" in that position rather than actually fuck and the reduced sensations when combined with a condom are not conducive to keeping your cock hard.

[–]RedVladimir0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nothing you've said is a bad thing for a guy who has trouble lasting. That is precisely why I recommend cowgirl.

If you have trouble keeping your dick hard due to the cowgirl position + condom combo, then something else is wrong...

The visual you get from a girl riding you, watching her grind back and forth, should be more than enough to keep you hard.

Besides, you can also pull her in and suck her tits/kiss to keep you engaged.

[–]Furrealyo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Meh...I get your point but I'm old and jaded. Condoms suck worse the older you get and the fact that I'm larger than average at 10" makes cowgirl problematic in that she is LITERALLY riding my dick. Much soreness is the result so I'd rather skip it and choose a position where I have more control.

[–]I_like_big_titays3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

focus on your breathing. I found that doing this lets you calm down. Right before I blow a load my whole body is tense and I am not breathing, but if I force myself to breathe and relax I last a lot longer. I have gone from 5 minute sessions to hour and a half long sessions where I stay inside her and walk her around my apartment doing chores and shit.

[–]RICCIedm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

wahahahah I'll definitelly try breathing better on act. Thanks, man.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Eat more pussy and I guarantee there wont be a problem.

[–]RICCIedm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

as I said above, sometimes the bitch wants the D

[–]Ispongoo 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Stimulated_narcolept has a point, if you get any sexual anxiety or you don't last as long as usual just go down on a woman,it gives you time to get turned on and not keep her waiting. Also she can tell her friends that you're great at eating pussy rather than that guy who lasted 3 minutes. It's a good backup plan but that's my personal opinion

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Is it weird that I actually get less hard while eating pussy? I get so focused on trying to give her pleasure that I almost forget about my own.

I get so into it sometimes that a few orgasms later I'm still horny and shes sore, happy, sleepy, and done for the night.

[–]bleh3210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope happens to me.

For me the thing that kills my performance is when I'm tired or it takes too long for CIP. I like to get straight to it once turned on.

And yes, something like this event is quite common for inexperienced guys and could create more anxiety which will cause performance issues!

[–]Ispongoo 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

This does sometimes happen depending on the person, iv had this a couple of times,to conquer this simply suggested a 69 until you get rock hard again, the more crazy you go on her the more crazy she'll go on you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

the more crazy you go on her the more crazy she'll go on you.

I don't find this to be true at all. Takes quite a bit of skill and practice to find the sweet spot of intensity, and its quite different for every girl.

[–]NeopolitanAfterglow0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's simple. When you're about to cum, stop and wait 30 seconds. No movement. Then resume. You might have to repeat this 2 or 3 times, but then you're good to go as long as you need.

[–]getomc0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Power through it. Takes like 10s for the overstimulation to wear off. Practice by masterbating twice in a row so that you know you can do it.

[–]ehngrxnu0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

same thing happened to a bud of mine, /u/fedemp

[–]FedeMP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I promise it will be better next time

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