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Getting Laid is Easy: There's Never an Excuse

October 11, 2017
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Title Getting Laid is Easy: There's Never an Excuse
Author imabadasstrustme
Upvotes 19
Comments 35
Date October 11, 2017 11:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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[–]general_derez20 points21 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

sex (even with the hottest women) isn't that much better then jerking off

If you honestly think this, you've been doing it wrong.

[–]chasev824 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Or he's really good at jerking it.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Believe me, folks, I'm the best at jerking it. You know, I know it, everybody knows it. I say to people "Who do you think is the best at jerking it?" and they say "Well of course you are, StraightWhiteMaleLOL."

[–]NegitiveSinX1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

you might be nailing all 9s but then you have to deal with their bullshit. Where as if you're jerking it, she's out of your mind in a second.

[–]imabadasstrustme[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah this is what I meant. You can be self-sufficient and shouldn't ever need sex. Like a Kia and a Lamborghini are effectively the same experience and get you where you need to go.

Everyone would rather drive a Lamborghini, but its naive to think a Lamborghini will complete you in a way that a Kia can't. The same way sex with women is thought of as this end-game solution to every issue when it really is just a better version of an orgasm.

[–]NegitiveSinX0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you think hotter chick gives you better orgasims? Or is it that you'd rather spend time with a better looking chick then an average looking one? Because I wouldn't want to drive a Lamborghini in a city because I'll never be able to drive it quickly and the Kia will sit in traffic just the same as the lamborghini

[–]biggerbetterjobs3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

There's something about sex that's a lot better than just masturbation to me. Something about just holding a girl around her waist and feeling her curves, her soft skin, making out, grabbing her ass and boobs. I just love it. I love eating pussy and eating ass, shoving her face in the pillow, tying her up, choking her, maybe a little light slapping and then just passing the fuck out when you all are done. There's something about just "taking" a woman and fucking like animals that's the best.

I will say masturbation does have its perks too and sometimes can be better than the real thing if you're in a particular mood. Everyone enjoys just sitting back and watching a few pornhub videos on a quiet night after a long day.

On the other note, I agree.. Getting laid is pretty easy. Especially with younger women. In 2017 everyone in their late teens to 40s is "sexually liberated" so just having sex isn't that big of a deal anymore.

The guys who say "sex is so tough to get" are generating a self-fulfilling prophecy. They're also placing all the chips on the girl's end when they should be the ones taking the lead to make it happen. Women want to have fun and go for a ride, They don't want to have to think, plan, or deal with a possible rejection most of the time. They want to be taken by a confident guy. It makes them feel feminine, wanted, and happy.

[–]imabadasstrustme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah man we're totally on the same page. I remember I was a hermit one semester of college, I had two internships, going to full-time interviews in NYC, gym 3 hours a day, involved in a frat AND still taking 19 college credits. I had a few girls early but had to drop them for my responsibilities and just jerked off for like 2 months straight. When things finally settled down and I hooked up with a girl again, just the feel of her another human's skin on mine felt infinitely better then the hottest jerk off session.

The guys who say "sex is so tough to get" are generating a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Totally agree. This has gotten more common through the commercialization of girls because of the pick-up industry and the "seduction community". It means they have an incentive to make it seem hard to give themselves a purpose. Their marketing also romanticizes it as if its a catch-all solution to everyone of your problems.

[–]Snazzy_Serval6 points7 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

If getting laid was easy the seduction community simply wouldn't exist. This sub wouldn't exist.

[–]biggerbetterjobs0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It is easy, it's just that the average male in America is not physically fit, not that attractive, and may have the nice guy thing going on. Most of them refuse to look in the mirror and recognize they're the problem too.

I mean, same goes for women as well, but for them; sex is just something that happens to them. Men have to work for it.

[–]Snazzy_Serval0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If it's hard for the average male to get laid, then by definition getting laid is not easy.

Men have to work for it.

If you have to work for it, then it's not easy.

Personally, I'm physically fit, decently attractive but I'm short and have low confidence. I'm 36 and have been with two women. So the concept of it being easy to get laid is simply asinine to me.

[–]2awalt_cupcake-1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Guys who claim getting laid is easy have a history of hambeasts or other really low quality women.

Edit: It seems I have triggered some whale hunters

[–]1Metalageddon1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Or they're simply more blunt, higher value, and cover more risk acceptance.

I mean could be, but that's certainly not the only way for it to happen.

I mean seriously.

  • don't be fat.
  • practice good hygiene
  • be direct in your goals
  • ask a lot

You'll get laid. Bonus if you're 6ft or higher, bonus if you're attractive, bonus if you have money or status. Big bonus if you have all of them. But even without them there's an uglier guy than you crushing harder than you ever will simply because he's willing to ask more often and be direct.

[–]2awalt_cupcake0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a lot of these things so I'm speaking from experience it still boils down to a numbers game. Plus running game is difficult when you're teaching yourself. Sure it gets better as you build awareness but it doesn't detract from the leg work involved. And I'm talking about quality women. I know more than enough guys personally who talk about pickup when they sleep with chubsters.

[–]Snazzy_Serval-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Or they are simply good looking guys and/or have lots of confidence.

[–]imabadasstrustme[S] -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's funny sometimes I feel like the people who need the advice most, have the hardest time seeing it. Making excuses like "I have low confidence" is validating you into inaction so you don't have to hold yourself accountable. The reason you're not getting laid is that you're not trying hard enough plain and simple.

[–]Snazzy_Serval0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why would I have to try hard if getting laid was easy?

Dude my whole argument is that getting laid is not easy.

The only people who get laid easily are good looking or have very high confidence.

[–]imabadasstrustme[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Is making a peanut jelly butter sandwich hard or easy? It's neither, you just need to get two loaves of bread, some peanut butter, some jelly, spread it on each slice and then stick them together. I said "trying hard" as in stop being a pussy and do the work necessary to do it. Or sit here crying about it online and telling us about how little confidence you have. It doesn't matter either way, no one here cares if you get laid or not.

I just said I didn't have high confidence growing up and still got laid. I'm pretty good looking but know straight ugly ass guys who got laid a lot too. There's never an excuse man.

[–]Snazzy_Serval0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just said I didn't have high confidence growing up and still got laid. I'm pretty good looking

And that's why you got laid.

but know straight ugly ass guys who got laid a lot too.

Did they have high confidence?

I'm trying to make the point that it's easier to get laid if you are good looking and/or have high confidence.

I have put in a ton of effort into getting women, though I'm not good looking or have lots of confidence and I'm short so I get rejected a ton.

To answer you, I put in the work and I cry about it online.

[–]Shukakun2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

All orgasms aren't born equal, mate. There's a little something called oxytocin that you get a rush of by being in physical contact with other people. It's the difference between the "Tired, relaxed and satisfied" after sex feeling, and the "Lethargic and depressed" after jerking off feeling.

[–]hdak2323 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Doesn't MDMA release tons of oxytocin?

[–]Shukakun0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Never done any and 5+ years since I read about it, but I imagine it does, would make a lot of sense.

[–]imabadasstrustme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I get where you're coming from. Most of the time hooking up with a girl is better then jerking off but there have definitely been times when I had a girl staying with me for a week or longer and I thought "Fuck I wish she could leave or we could not have sex today so I could just jerk off".

But we can disagree on that, I was trying to make a point that every man is self sufficient and in abundance and doesn't need women.

[–]1Entropy-70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not about excuses it is about opening our eyes and taking measures.

[–]TRP_mask0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think age is definitely a good excuse. For someone who's 16 years old it's harder than for someone who's 20.

[–]RedHeMan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Building and maintaining your frame is always mandatory.

[–]Rian_Stone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

you mistake incel invaders with this subreddit.

very few subscribers are members of this subreddit

[–]hopfield-4 points-3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

it’s 100% about looks dude don’t deny it

[–]tacko2766 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ya that's beta bull shit. I know a lot of "average" looking guys that do just fine. They have decent game, decent personalities and decent lives. Most importantly they don't act like thirsty/creepy losers. That's all it really takes.

[–]rogainenoshame6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, it is 100% NOT all about looks. I'm not saying being attractive doesn't help, but having confidence and the ability to smooth talk a bitty is all you need to get laid.

[–]imabadasstrustme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't tell if you're trolling or being serious.

[–]The_Redmen2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go watch some PUA's on YouTube, most of them don't even have "good looks" but are still pulling girls because they choose action by talking to girls instead of getting caught up in their head.

[–]itsjustsimon-1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dan Bilzerian is sooooooo beautifuuuuul and pretty!

But actually you're right... Looks are everything when this is all you can offer to women.

[–]LfK951 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bad example, Dan has tons of money

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Victim mentality = path to success

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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