Intro

I am 23 and in the last 3 months I started work to improve my SMV, frequenting a small bar nearby to practice socializing and build connections. I've noticed the change in people's behavior towards me (both good and bad) and I am still building my database of social queues, so this situation even in retrospect is uncharted territory for me.

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I met this couple tonight at the bar and would estimate they are at least in their late 20s. Almost immediately after introductions the girl began pouring IOIs over me as I sat in front of the bar, to her right (only after she continuously insisted I did so), with her boyfriend on her left.

She gave off more signals than I can remember. Full facing body, dreamy eyes, leaning/moving close to me, frequent touching/feeling, especially of arms and shoulders. Sometimes subtle and sometimes not at all. Once during conversation I got the 'tingle' to look at my crotch and saw her hand quickly jerk back as I looked down. When I looked at her she was blushing wide-eyed.

Most notably later on, she "accidentally" bumped her ass into my side,and immediately apologized for it, though I'd not acknowledged she'd done it.

She interrupted and even straight up ignored her boyfriend to listen to what I was saying or monopolize my divided attention. I expected him to get pissed and lay down some discipline after the third or so time she cut him off but no. He just shut up and let her speak.

Through talking with her it was clear in subtext that she was home often and does not work at all, not even cooking. She does the shopping, he does everything else.

I do not remember a single moment that she initiated intimacy (they didnt kiss once, not even a peck) with her boyfriend of 6 years, but there were plenty of times he came and stood over to do just that. Of course with little reciprocation, if at all.

She also asked where I lived, the street and kind of house I lived in.

We spoke for maybe an hour but by the end of it I think he noticed what she was doing and eventually scooted her off the stool so they could leave. Her boyfriend made it too risky to ask for her number so I asked him for his instead, under the premise of wanting to send him some article I read a while back.

Conclusion

I am seriously wondering what the fuck that was all about and where to proceed. Every question in reflection brings up more questions. Should I take those hints seriously or disregard them? Apparently she has a boyfriend of six years so why is she acting like that?

Who was actually being tested here, me or the boyfriend?