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Guy's girlfriend sends nudes to another dude. Male hamster kicks into overdrive, despite even /r/relationshits telling him to bail.

September 30, 2014
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Edit 1: I added more info because it seems with what I gave that she enjoyed it and she did not. Never saw her crying before like that.

Uhu.

Moreover, she explained me that she did not want anything with that guy, that he was only attractive but not worth even a kiss.

Yeah, how fucking plugged in do you have to be to buy into this horseshit?

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Title Guy's girlfriend sends nudes to another dude. Male hamster kicks into overdrive, despite even /r/relationshits telling him to bail.
Author jobs33ker
Upvotes 124
Comments 74
Date September 30, 2014 6:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit /r/TheRedPill
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/guys-girlfriend-sends-nudes-to-another-dude-male.22094
https://theredarchive.com/post/22094
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2hwywo/guys_girlfriend_sends_nudes_to_another_dude_male/
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[–]ScottishIslander78 points79 points  (30 children) | Copy Link

Plus she's been protective of her phone for months. I'm willing to bet she's had at least a dozen sexting conversations with this guy. Probably fucked him too.

God I hate cheaters liars.

Cheating women never seem to own up to their mistake either. They never own it. They never admit what they did was completely wrong and 100% on them. They always make excuses. They never put in the time or effort to remediate their action. Which is why its never a good idea to take a cheating woman back. If she's cheated, you've lost her. Move on, find someone with better morals who isn't selfish and who knows what commitment actually is. You'll almost certainly be better off.

[–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

For what it's worth, the guys I've known who've cheated didn't own up to it either. When I cheated, I didn't.

[–]red_count21 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It is one thing to cheat and keep it a secret; that is as morally right as cheating can be. Women will cheat, then tell you, for their own selfish reasons. Like a super shit test. The best part is how they will blame the man for it.

Can't just admit they were turned on and wanted the dick...

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Been on the receiving end of this. Girl cheated with me then confessed to her husband and blamed me for hitting on her when she was "vulnerable"... except she came on to me, but hey, who will believe me over a crying hard Jehovah Witness mother of two!

[–]thetenman2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Knock on wood I have never been caught, but if I ever was I would lie and then lie some more. Minimizing is only natural imo.

[–]cali_gunner2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I have and haven't. Both have problems, one less than the other.

[–]1kick65 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They never own it. They never admit what they did was completely wrong and 100% on them. They always make excuses.

Of course not. What value is there in it for them? We have created a society where we privilege women because vagina instead of because morality or because integrity so why would they ever bother to develop the latter two?

[–]Isaiah4verse18 points9 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

This or stop expecting integrity from women chasing unicorns in the first place.

[–]Tarnsman4Life28 points29 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

stop expecting integrity from women

This dude this; women are emotional creatures. Women must receive emotional validation at all times. There is no truth in emotion, just "feeling" therefor women are incapable of sustained truth. It felt good, so she did it. It would have felt bad to tell the truth to Beta-BF so she didn't. The end.

[–]Dat_Black_Guy3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

so where does the "sorry, i have a boyfriend" come from?

[–]Tarnsman4Life13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That is an attempt to justify shitty behavior "Well I told him I had a boyfriend and he kept hitting on me; I had NO CHOICE but to give in to his advances because he was so hot and made me feel so good about myself". Its the hamster allowing the woman to do as she wishes without feeling like a slut.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The same place as 'I never do this kind of thing' and 'it just happened' and the occasionally heard 'I had been looking for a way out for a long time'

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[–]ScottishIslander2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Integrity is never certain. But it is more likely from some than others.

[–]myschadenfreude1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cheating women on my life have always blamed it on someone else, never once saying "I want more dick and more attention.". NEVER.

Worst part is they paint the other party as the reason they are so sad. Every last time I've seen this happen the guy is blind sided and the cheater tries to turn people against the guy. Cheap and soulless.

[–]TytalusWarden0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

Plus she's been protective of her phone for months. I'm willing to bet she's had at least a dozen sexting conversations with this guy. Probably fucked him too.

NOBODY gets access to my phone. Ever. For any reason.

If you want to see what's on my phone you better be paying for the phone, otherwise you ain't seeing shit. You think I'm cheating? So what, my phone. You think I'm lying? So what, my phone.

I have a zero tolerance policy regarding my phone. If she does as well (unclear from the article if she ever showed him the phone) then I don't blame her for not showing anything.

I definitely blame her for the mental cheating and the mental gymnastics, but hiding a phone isn't evidence of a crime anymore than exercising your right to remain silent in front of a police officer makes you a criminal.

[–]galaxy_man3311 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ehh, i understand where you're coming from. But, if I didn't snag my ex - gf's (4 yrs, 2 living together) phone, I would never had the raw evidence that I needed to next her hard and begin the next chapter of my life. I would have always wondered what if?

It took a lot of thought from me before I did the deed though..

[–]TytalusWarden-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For me, if I'm wondering "what if" I'm already moving on. My life is sufficiently complicated, I don't need to add "don't trust the person I'm living with" to the list of crap I deal with on a daily basis.

I'm glad it worked out for you, but for me my phone stays secure because it's none of anyone's business what's on my phone.

[–]2comment2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I definitely blame her for the mental cheating and the mental gymnastics, but hiding a phone isn't evidence of a crime anymore than exercising your right to remain silent in front of a police officer makes you a criminal.

First, they were together 4-1/2 years before he noticed this change in her behavior.

Second, interpersonal relationships don't operate under official rules of evidence or court procedure. I'd advocate people going with their gut instinct but with a tempered response.

[–]TytalusWarden-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Noticing the change in behavior is the most telling item in his list. His observation sealed the deal for me long before I read about the silly "she won't show me her cell phone" BS.

[–]Tsilent_Tsunami-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

NOBODY gets access to my phone. Ever. For any reason.

What possible reason could you have for that policy? You either have things you're trying to hide, or you associate with an extremely sketchy crowd.

[–]getfat-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

He pays the bill he can do what he pleases, I have similar policy with my laptop. I just don't like people messing with it.

[–]Tsilent_Tsunami0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I think I was trying to cover the "messing with it" part with the last category. Actual decent friends aren't going to mess up your phone, because they're careful with your stuff.

[–]getfat1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You have better friends than I sir

[–]Tsilent_Tsunami1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably fewer too, but I've become fairly intolerant of problematic interpersonal interactions in my old age.

[–]TytalusWarden0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

The policy remains the same regardless of whether or not I'm doing anything sketchy or have something to hide.

Perhaps my girlfriend would like to check my work E-Mail to see if I recently received a big raise I didn't tell her about? Maybe she'd like to see if I'm selling things on eBay or Craigslist? Perhaps she's nosy and wants to know if I'm planning a surprise party for {insert her achievement or life event here}?

My bottom line: the policy remains consistent because it's a reasonable course of action and it reflects how I treat others. If my actions don't lend themselves to me being trusted then I either need to adjust how I act to better reflect my intentions, or she's unworthy of my continued trust and I need to kick her to the curb.

[–]Tsilent_Tsunami0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I see your point, but I apply that policy to associates, not objects I own. I don't associate with anyone who would mess up my stuff, either through incompetence, or outright malice.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

They rationalize it. My one friend who is a characture of a cheater (literally, if she went anywhere she fucked a guy -- she even mentioned how easy it is for girls to get laid) told me "I know ill end up rationalizing it anyway." I didn't know women were that self aware. They're like sociopaths.

[–]1AfterC52 points53 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Does anyone else actually feel revolted by guys who are such pussy bitches? Perhaps it's a consequence of hitting the gym.

[–]Isaiah4verse133 points34 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They deserve what they get. White knights are worse than feminists.

[–]BloodRoseTRP1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The two aren't mutually exclusive

[–]Tarnsman4Life7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

We have no wars in the west nor real environmental challenges to weed out the weak. Guys like Mr. Beta would not have survived their first battle as Hastati; nor would they have been able to hunt/gather the required subsistence to avoid starvation. One way or the other they would have been weeded out. In the west we now have such a system of excess that the worst consequence to sheer stupidity is usually jail time.

[–]suloco3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well put. Our culture demonizes violence on personal level and men are taught to rather step down or run. Whole nations of this mindset. And when you do defend yourself successfully you got sentenced for bodily harm. Ridiculous.

[–]DarkCircle1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They are just guys that like a lot of women have been horribly misinformed about the other gender.

[–]trped0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude the kid has been with her for a long time and it seems he saw her as a unicorn. It's obvious he's crazy in love. So there are explanations to his behavior.

Would anyone act the same as him? Probably not, and I have too much self esteem to stay with a cheater but I've known countless of guys who just couldn't let their cheating girlfriends go.

[–]Ulquiorra_Schiffer-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah. I don't have enough time in my day to hit the gym, and I'm revolted by them too.

It's a consequence of evolution. Everyone, men and women, are disgusted by these pathetic ultra-betas.

[–]ButterMyBiscuit-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The bigger and stronger I get, the more I look down on scrawny and/or weak dudes. I never make judgements about fat guys because of how many time I've been surprised at the gym by a dude who looks like a generic fat fuck being strong as an ox and limber.

[–]2insickness[🍰] 44 points45 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

From the comments

So he physically forced her to send those pics? Like he had a gun to her head? I'm confused.

As far as I understand it is something like being very pushy towards it. I don't really understand either. But I think it is something like ciberbullying which we have never both experienced. so I don't know whats he told her to make her send those pics.

Hey guys, it wasn't her fault!! She was cyberbullied into it!!

Edit: More self-delusion

I've known a few girls that will send a boob shot to a douchebag guy that doesn't take no for answer and keeps hounding about it. Not the best way to handle it but they say it's easier than to keep repeating no over and over. They say "they're only tits anyway"

Keep telling yourself that, dude.

[–]jobs33ker[S] 18 points19 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

God damnit, I fucking lol'd!

This just makes me think that in some ways, betas have a much more pliable hamster than do women. It takes some serious mental gymnastics to convince yourself of something this fucking stupid!

[–]1AreYouAware_7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

It's not the first, not the last time you'll see this. How long ago was it that relationships had a thread where a guy had posted images that a friend of his fiance sent him that very obviously (even if merely suggestively) showed her and her friends sucking off a stripper , and he was trying so hard to rationalize it away as something other than what it was?

That guy was saying how he was going to break up with her if he found conclusive evidence (as though he needed more?) Of her infidelity. Then, when he found more photos that were impossible to rationalize, he still wanted to stay with her because you " don't just throw away something so good after so many years over something like this "

[–]jobs33ker[S] 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I remember that thread and it made my stomach turn. And then of course there was another thread where a guy's gf literally fucks everyone but him while he remains faithful to her. The OP found the x-thread in trp and joined the conversation and was a total bitch. I just remember reading him say something like "NO, i told you she only lets the other guys cum inside her once WE'VE DISCUSSED IT!"

It would be funny were it not so sad.

[–]Padawanbater2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Holy shit, are you serious? Do you have a link to that thread?

[–]Padawanbater1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I remember that thread, but I wasn't aware more evidence surfaced, do you have a link to the thread?

[–]humankin1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

repeating no over and over

Bitch, ignore them. If they keep at it, blocker apps are cheaper than coffee. If they hound with you in person, cry a little to a cop or campus security or whoever.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

They could just block the number. It's bullshit

[–]Isaiah4verse10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

He's got a wonderful future with women ahead of him.

[–]Complecs58 points59 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

When /r relationships is telling you to bail, you best gtfo. Hah.

[–]Rougepellet4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm surprised they're telling him to bail. From what i've gathered, they always take the woman's side and hamster away her bullshit... must be something in the air.

[–]humankin5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Likely they're heavily impacted by spin. If the post was from the woman then she'd emphasize how she feels and downplay her actions. Commentators would be in a huff at how terrible her boyfriend is and how she owes it to herself to just end the relationship already. Assuming she's unsavvy enough to mention the nudes at all - much more likely she'd paint a picture of her boyfriend becoming controlling or emotionally abusive without any mention of her part.

[–]OKJaded15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If your balls are tingling, it's probably because someone is getting ready to kick you in the nuts.

Learn to trust your guts boys.

[–]Tarnsman4Life14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I confronted her and she was destroyed. She told me it has been the worst thing she has done in her entire life and that she knew it was wrong

That sums up your average woman there. Destroyed because she is found out and will no longer be getting support/$/Validation from Beta-Boyfriend; knows what she is doing is "wrong" but is so narcissistic and self important that she doesn't care. The proverbial kid stealing from a candy store.

[–]elchoma909 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am disgusted by this self-deluded, pathetic, estrogen filled excuse of a man. How much of a pussy does one need to be to come to the fucking internet to try and find a reason not to break up? What's worse is when plenty of reasons are given to dump her, he hamsters like I've never seen before.

One comment sarcastically said "Forced her as putting a gun against her head?" and idiot beta boy replied "I think cyber bullying!" I am honestly amazed by the level of delusion.

[–]ab_roller6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Usually I feel some amount of rage over stories like this, but not this time. The guy is hopeless, there's no convincing him, he's a lost cause. He's destined to be used and abused his whole life, you can just tell. A guy she met on the work trip is cyberbullying her into sending nudes. Haha, man.
And she definitely cheated on that trip.

[–]jobs33ker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And she definitely cheated on that trip.

I can't believe I didn't put this together before, lol. She's totally fucked this guy and possibly others.

[–]GreatWhite_Buffalo-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not a fan of how common the BP examples have been lately.

I guess any sub that grows substantially tends to progress in a way that older subscribers don't really agree with, but the number posts about hopeless dudes like this are just a big circlejerk.

This sub has provided me with a ton of tips and changed my entire worldview, but the "let's rip on this dude on /r/relationships or /r/sex for shits and gigs" posts add nothing.

[–]Pornography_saves_li1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure they add something: they let other men inclined to the same shit know, beforehand, just how utterly pathetic some men desperate to hang on to a woman really are. Cuckolded hamsterbaters deserve every ounce of derision heaped on their heads, if for no other reason than they make men in general look like pathetic losers - not to mention they, like female feminists - try and shame men into similar fucked up behavior.

Social shaming works. The SJW types use it all the time because it works. There is no 'high road', there is only 'effective' and 'ineffective'.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, how fucking plugged in do you have to be to buy into this horseshit?

You gotta be a fucking nut job to believe that horse shit.

She told me that the guy was being very persistent towards it and she did not what to do

This is hall of fame hamstering. Playing the powerless card while blaming the guy.

"ill send him 3 nude pics to be nice. Maybe he'll leave me alone!"

[–]Lt_Muffintoes4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Woah woah woah, snapchat has a sent images folder?!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, but that's not what was addressed in the article. It was WhatsApp; a mobile app that lets you call, text, and send pictures across seas via text

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

WHY DO MAKE FUN OF THIS GUY? This subreddit saved my life, and I refuse to believe we are here to make fun of blue pillers. Is the guy wrong? yes But is no more wrong that someone that does not speak Chinese to read Chinese. Besides he just got hit by nature on the mouth, no need to do more.

[–]WAFC6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You saved your own life. Plenty of men read TRP and disregard it as it doesn't line up with their indoctrination. This guy would very likely call everyone here a selfish asshole who doesn't understand what he and his gf have been through.

You can't make someone take the pill. Men often try to lead through ridicule (see: the military) so this isn't that unusual.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

He's a fucking idiot. I don't need TRP to realize it and neither should he. Neither should fucking anyone.

[–]kingsilkee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is disgraceful. He needs to kick her ass out of the house

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[–]tanlin20210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

As long as she doesn't care what you do, then it doesn't matter?

[–]dale06070 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. This was like a verbatim account of my last ex. Always glued to her phone, caught her sending nudes to dudes. Her excuses; he kept bothering me for them, I wasn't getting enough attention, blah blah bull shit.

Ridiculous. I stopped reading the comments after the cyber bully bullshit cry baby nonsense. Oh, you're being cyber bullied? Block contact, problem solved.

Edit. Another amazing thing is how often guys ignore their gut instincts. When you have that feeling, there's something wrong and getting that feeling about anyone should just tell you to bail.

[–]EscortVoyeurAdmin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wonder what he'd do if he came home and saw her getting facefucked in the foyer by another dude. He'd probably ask the dude if he had consent to lick his asshole.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would have kicked that overdrive to boost my distortion

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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