"Guys never hit on me"

JP_Whoregan · 2015-02-25T17:19:01+00:00

It's hard to be hit on by invisible people. Like Rollo said in his latest article, there are three genders in the eyes of women: women, betas, and alphas. Betas only become visible to women when they can serve some pragmatic use to the woman at that time. And "hitting on" them is definitely not useful to a woman when it comes to a Beta.

It's along the same lines of "Where Have All The Good Men Gone?" articles these harpies are constantly posting on blogs nowadays. The reason this infuriates Betas is because "Good Men" doesn't mean what they think it means. Betas will be quick to say "good men are everywhere, you just don't want to date them". No, what women mean by "Good Men" is "Haaaawt", fuckable men who are going somewhere in life.

They're asking where all the men are because the Betas aren't even seen as men. They're no different than a couch or a lamp, to be used when needed, to be ignored when not needed.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-02-25T17:10:46+00:00

This is why you need to always maximize your demographics.

The same girl who wouldn't even Like you on Tinder will be at a dive bar on a Thursday night where there is no male competition.

SwissPablo · 2015-02-25T18:08:52+00:00

Since taking TRP the way women don't look at me twice highlights how much work I need to do. It used to make me try harder, but now I know I need to try harder on myself, not the women. That's the only way they'll notice.

mister_barfly75 · 2015-02-25T21:47:39+00:00

The biggest difference between the genders is the way we're being brought up.

Born a girl? You're a Disney princess and you shouldn't settle for anything less than a Disney Prince.

Born a guy? Life's a bitch so you should settle for one.

Then, year 30 hits. Women want to settle for providers, but yearn for AF on the side, while the smart men who have spent the last XX number of years getting ignored have earnt enough to be confident enough to get into the panties of girls half their age while the women who ignored them are now complaining about that there's no nice guys out there anymore.

SpinPlates · 2015-02-25T21:24:22+00:00

I used to bartend in a sports bar where I was the only male employee. I had mutual friends with the owner and he wanted to mix it up a little bit and get a male in there to kind of balance the staff out. He was having problems with factions and the all girl staff splitting into cliques that hated each other.

This was in early 2012, I was already pretty red pilled but working at that bar with an all female staff really taught me a lot about women. And one my favorites is you can only be creepy if you're unattractive. And if you're unattractive and not creepy, you're invisible.

I've had conversations like this with my coworkers.

"Ew, this guy is so creepy!"

"How so?"

"He's just trying to talk to me, ugh, he's NOT cute!"

Meanwhile they lay their tits on the bartop in front of 60 year old guys and flit with them hard because they know hes got money.

Upvote_To_The_Left · 2015-02-25T18:20:33+00:00

Rollo's invisible people article hits true here. I have an OKcupid and Tinder account and I get TONS of interest from fatties. Like seriously exclusively fatties. I dont even count them as people at this point. Of course I dont respond either. But it's crazy how being overweight basicaly destroys your chances with most guys. even a ugly girl with a sexy body gets attention from me lol! but if your fat, no fucking chance.

Now lets make this comparison.

Women Fatties = Beta guys

And all the sudden you see why hot girls dont even fucking consider beta guys. It's almost insulting that a beta guy hits on her, the same way i feel a bit insulted when some 300lbs chick thinks she can chat me up.

BUT the same way that a beta guy can work on self improvement and grow a pair of balls, a fatty can lose weight. I would gladly fuck a fit girl. the same way most women will gladly fuck a non beta alpha guy. he doesn't have to even be Chaddington Thundercock, just a bit of game, style, and confidence and you're in.

Girls: dont be fat, look your best!

Guys: dont be beta pussies, get style, game, and grow a pair.

and the world will be a better place.

Killeurkilleur · 2015-02-26T06:40:26+00:00

After they turn 30 they start noticing like a motherfucker.

They start noticing you have good job, dress well and drive a nice car.

They start noticing you have a really nice place to live, a motorcycle or a boat.

They start noticing those pics of you hanging out with your buddies on facecrack having all kinds of fun going to Vegas, drinking at a playoff football game or vacationing in the Bahamas.

They start noticing you don't have a ring on or have too much (or any at all) baggage.

When the radar is tuned up at 22 years old for Alpha fucks they only at best see 1 guy out of 5.

But that shit switches up at 30 (at the latest) and they start looking for Beta man.

However, before you get all fucked up in the brain wanting to run naked in streets after the honeypot take a good look at Michael's Story in the sidebar ----->

Don't be mad at them for being who they are, just realize the truth.

My father use to quote the great Dizzy Dean to me when I was growing up. He said... Everybody for dey selves son...

And women are no different. They know the alpha dude will fuck them when they're 22 - so they fuck the alpha dude. They know the beta man will kiss their ass when they turn 30 - so they let the beta man kiss their ass. If you had life on easy mode you would punch in the cheat codes too. Cheaters do prosper as the old saying goes.

And yes they will whine about how hard they have it the entire time they are getting their way. It's just how women are.

You have a choice...

You can be miserable thinking how fucking raw of deal you've been dealt, or....

You can look inward for the answer to your unhappiness.

If you think about how unfair it is women get to complain about having it so rough while everyone bends over backwards for them, then you will wig the fuck out eventually being driven mad by the mass of intellectual dishonesty and utter lack of self awareness everyone in society collectively has. The more you think about it the more you'll go nuts. It's completely fucked up - laughably so.

8 years ago I was homeless in the street, estranged from my children, fleeced of everything I owned, 43% of income garnished, $50K in debt.... My ex wife got the house, the kids and the money AND EVERYONE FELT SORRY FOR HER... This is the bizarro fucking world we live in.

Fast forward to today, I'm trolling SJWs on twitter with pics of my bimmer and my beautiful pool and waterway in my patio and backyard with them salty because of my "privilege". I'm having a blast. Fuck those crybaby bitches.

Why? I stopped worrying about stupid cunts and their vapid selfish bullshit. I finally figured out that there's only one way I'm going to get by in this world - and that's to focus on WTF I need to do.

I'm like Kevin Costner in the field of dreams. If you build it they will come. A wise man told me that respect is something you give yourself. You have to set yourself up first and foremost with a plan and a conviction to carry it out. You have to draw the hard line and know when to deploy dread. You have to be able to chuckle, shrug and not sweat shit as you leave it behind.

The short simple answer with women is you have live it on your terms. Not every man has the same terms, but every man has to make sure shit is setup on his terms. You don't have to be a dick, just don't be a shit tested-out doormat.

Value yourself. Value your emotional state. Value your happiness.

Because ultimately, nobody else will.

Maybe your time isn't now. Maybe it is. Maybe it isn't. Just make sure that whenever your time comes, you don't act like a fucking sucker.

The has been a Red Pill PSA...

Good luck out there gentlemen.

vengefully_yours · 2015-02-25T17:23:13+00:00

Women logic:

"No one ever hits on me!"

"Why do people hit on me?!"

Sorry men, we can't win against that logic unless we just walk away and hit on the next good looking lonely woman who will appreciate the fact that we think she is pretty.

2015-02-26T05:48:29+00:00

Oh it's much worse than that. In the minds of many women I know, that "invisible" guy didn't just approach her: He harassed her.

I hear this constantly: "Why do these loser guys think that just because a woman is in a bar that it's okay to harass her?" (Translation: She loathes men that she perceives to be beneath her SMV). The reality of course is that they're in the bar hoping that men who are above her SMV approach her.

And the more unfortunate reality is this: She almost certainly overestimates her own SMV. Why? Because it's incredibly easy for women to sleep above their SMV. Getting laid for an average woman -- even by Chad Thundercock -- is not particularly difficult.

The hamstering begins when they translate that "ease" with which they got laid as being a sign of a high personal SMV. They can't explain the disconnect between the ease with which they got "Chad" to come home with them, and the fact that "Chad" is gone in the morning --but never mind those little details.

In America and Europe you'll find millions of utterly average, overweight and generally unattractive women who believe that they are in the top 5%, because last week "Chad" came all over their tits and "had to leave" afterwards. It's women like this who believe "men never hit on them" because they discount all the men that are not within their 'fantasy range' -- and they're misinterpreting their own sexual history as being relatively "successful". The reality is they've always been playthings.

In another 4 years they'll be posting stupid shit like, "Where have all the good guys gone?"

Newsflash, Princess: You never had 'em.

bsutansalt · 2015-02-25T19:19:23+00:00

"Guys never hit on me" by good looking women just means they're oblivious to all the low quality beta types that do in fact hit on them, or she's got selective memory. The hot guys, they don't hit on her as often as she likes, and those are the ones she's remembering. Everyone else is invisible.

Diomedes11 · 2015-02-25T18:26:48+00:00

Pretty much this. Women only count the males who are attractive as men, that's why women claim that there are no good men left.

Good men = Cristiano Ronaldo clones with his wallet.

To the vast majority of women, average-looking males are either wallets to depend on when the need arises, or they are potential rapists(that's why they treat average men like creeps for trying to get laid, but if a good-looking man calls 'em hoes they giggle).

I'm in awe at the capacity the blue pillers have to rationalize all this and to still insist in pursuing women. They've never known any appreciation from women, they've never known what it is to be sexually desired by women: they think its normal to be sexually invisible until cupcake is 30 and wants to breed, then its time to wallet-up, sucker.

PS: I've seen many, many times how cold, evil and how they lack respect for their beta bucks, and I've seen how women are when they are near an Alpha. Damn, its like, what I suspect would happen if for a whole week the sun didn't show up, and then suddenly it shows all of its glory.

NeopolitanAfterglow · 2015-02-25T17:25:46+00:00

To be fair, I do the same thing. When a 300lb woman with piercings approaches me, I try to banish it from my memory. I can count on one hand the number of times a HB7 or 8 has hit on me.

The problem is that the average woman at a club is a fattie. The average dude at a club is athletic.

Hilarious_Haplogroup · 2015-02-25T18:17:50+00:00

File this phenomenon under "I deserve someone far better than I could ever be reasonably expected to attract." These women will settle for some schlubby beta years later, or wind up owning 12 cats. Work on your own game with diligence and patience, and you'll do well.

2015-02-25T19:55:13+00:00

"What about that guy who was buying you drinks?"

Guys are still such suckers.

TheRedPilsner · 2015-02-26T05:54:53+00:00

"Eww, that guy was gross. That doesn't count."

Women are the same way when it comes to listing their sexual partners. If a woman has regrets about sleeping with a guy (i.e. he was a complete beta and she only slept with him because she was drunk, desperate, or lonely) she will decide that he "doesn't count" and exclude him from the final number.

greatmikeshark · 2015-02-26T03:02:57+00:00

translation. Guys that I want never hit on me.

YaBoiTibzz · 2015-02-26T04:06:07+00:00

The delicious irony is when those same women whine about how evil and wrong catcalling is. Then they go out to a bar and complain that no guys will approach them. They don't even realize the hypocrisy. It's delicious.

2015-02-25T20:21:28+00:00

I challenge everyone here with a plate/gf/whatever to take their plate out to a crowded bar with over 100 people in in it and ask them "honestly, are their any attractive men here?". I have done this with my previous girlfriends and every situation, they said "wow, there like no attractive men here, maybe that guy over there (6'2" tall muscular jock), or that guy over there (sharp looking man in business suit)". It will blow your mind really how little percentage of men they find attractive.

Just another example of how most women fail to recognize the blatantly obvious faulty logic behind their emotional-fueled statements, which then they internalize as them being the victim (because it could never be her fault right?), and feel the need to cry to the world about their horrific horrific crippling problem of never getting (alpha top 10% guys) to attract them.

HeavyMetalJoe91 · 2015-02-25T20:25:37+00:00

"Guys never hit on me"

Translation - "The guys I want to hit on me never hit on me."

DavidTIntellectual · 2015-02-25T17:13:20+00:00

So make sure you're above average or set your sights on females that aren't as entitled as Westerners (Asians and Eastern Europeans)

chrisindub · 2015-02-26T05:01:18+00:00

This is old news. It boils down to your physical attractiveness.....until you take solid game into account.

Haven't you guys opened a set where their initial response was to look at you like, "take off jerk," but then ended up a few minutes later getting IOIs from more than one girl in the group.

This is exactly what TRP is about, learning how to make a girl attracted to you by demonstrating your social value when she would otherwise not notice you solely on physical appearance.

carnage_panda · 2015-02-26T06:42:16+00:00

Well, guys don't hit on me either, and you don't see me crying about it.

2015-02-26T13:43:07+00:00

Uh, whenever I hear stories like this one, I always think why you guys even hang out with these cunts. They are so full of shit it is coming out of their ears.

NabroleonBonaparte · 2015-02-25T20:13:52+00:00

Used to get annoyed by this but gotta turn the tables the redpill way.

Me: "I can never find a decent woman to date nowadays"

"But Nabroleon, what about that one chick from the bar that you tongue wrestled or that plate you've been spinning?"

Me: "Eww those don't count!"

alisonstone · 2015-02-25T20:27:03+00:00

And those guys that "don't count" are usually above average. There is a selection bias to be a guy in a bar/club in the first place. The bottom half of guys usually don't go (as there is very little point for them to do so) or they don't have the courage to ask (because they know they are going to get rejected).

2015-02-25T20:07:57+00:00

sounds like "I'm entitled and I don't deserve someone to love me"

and that's exactly what's going to happen.

LadyLumen · 2015-02-25T18:35:39+00:00

Seems like attractive women complain about this the most. In fact, when I went to the thread "amiugly," where people submit pictures of themselves to see if they are ugly, like 90% of the posters were smokin hot, some hot dudes, but mostly hot chicks.

The reality is that women who are actually ugly don't complain about this kind of stuff because they feel embarrassed by their looks, and their lack of attention. Attractive women complain to get attention and validation.

So I think when people complain about this kind of stuff, the best thing is to either ignore them or reply, "maybe it's because you complain too much."

kick6 · 2015-02-25T17:12:41+00:00

There are enough women who don't say "ewwww" about friendly but ugly guys hitting on them, but give them the courtesy of basic human respect. Those are the girls you want to hang out with, not with those shallow bitches.

Lightspeedius · 2015-02-26T01:01:14+00:00

You might as well not be human if you're average.

I agree. Why would you settle for being average? Being human is an exceptional thing, celebrate that. I'm certainly not interested in anyone who is acutely aware of (and thus projects) their averageness.

2015-02-26T06:39:41+00:00

if you are socially savvy you wont make a social faux pas and get the 'fuck off loser'. Just go out with the bros have a laugh as you're playing pool and women will want some of your good vibes. If you catch them checking you out then you know its on.

Dev_on · 2015-02-26T16:15:10+00:00

So?

And why are you sitting there while your 'friends' are bitching about their lovelifes? thats got orbiter written all over it. Small question, if you called them up and asked them to help you move, would they? It's the simplist freind test out there.

WeCantHaveFun · 2015-02-26T00:01:40+00:00

"Listen cunt, you aren't worth talking to because you're ugly, fat, and shitty to hang out with. Go find your beta fag while you still can."

Those pussies buying drinks should remind everyone that you should never pre-pay a bitch. They all have shitty credit with men.

Evolved_Red · 2015-02-25T17:41:17+00:00

In the eyes of a female, betas are literally zeroes.

westsan · 2015-02-26T01:48:27+00:00

NOTED; But this is kind of the 80:20 rule.

justskatedude · 2015-02-26T02:37:30+00:00

Why don't women start approaching then?

Philhelm · 2015-02-25T18:50:50+00:00

Translation: Guys that I want to hit on me never hit on me, but I still get hit on all the time by creepers.

tl;dr: She doesn't get hit on by desirable men.

ShagggyDog · 2015-02-25T21:05:20+00:00

For her it is like to be hit on by a girl when she's straight (and arguably worse). That really doesn't count. Indeed, alphas and betas are different genders to them.

SherlockDoto · 2015-02-26T00:52:10+00:00

is 6'4" ideal height now? lol

2015-02-26T04:30:12+00:00

This is why I never even bother. I'd rather just talk shit and have some beers with my bros.

BIGBIGBIGMEANIE · 2015-02-26T06:00:22+00:00

Why are you hanging out with such bitches?

All-DayErrDay · 2015-02-26T03:45:49+00:00

If you're not at least 6 foot you shouldn't go into the dating scene.

oldredder · 2015-02-25T22:33:30+00:00

I don't even hit on chicks anymore. If I'm talking to one, I'll ask her her hobbies, be told she has basically zero, so I turn around and walk away after telling her she is hella boring and wouldn't be able to keep up with how I spend my free time. It's almost just more fun to be a dick about it.

Forty_Deuce · 2015-02-25T18:43:38+00:00

There are some that don't. They are the very special cases though, and it's probably how they carry themselves. But for the most part, women are approached by men on a regular basis.

oldredder · 2015-02-26T03:48:56+00:00

17 and 5'8, is there still hope?

2015-02-26T06:39:36+00:00

I mean, most guys would act the same if they were only being hit on by ugly chicks.

oldredder · 2015-02-26T07:45:11+00:00

hm. I can imagine this, like a simulation / day-dream but I've never seen this happen.

jagrmeister721 · 2015-02-25T17:56:55+00:00

In the jungle, a woman's objective was to spread her legs for the best genetic material from a man. Commitment wasn't a thing. Traditionalism oriented women to think about mate selection from her cortex and consider things like compatibility and actual value of the man. With feminism telling women they can decide, they've regressed back to mate selection using their hindbrain. Alpha doesn't mean accomplished; it means a man who who would have influence in the jungle- tall, dominant, having social status. If you're not that man or can't come across that way, the regressed woman isn't interested.

Cynewald · 2015-02-26T15:46:59+00:00

Ugly / off the radar guys = any guy who's a sub 7 or (or sub 5 if tall)

Ugly / off the radar girls = any girls who's obese or deformed i.e. any sub 3.

This is how it is if you want to pick up girls in their prime years (late teens to late 20's). Tall guys have an advantage in that they can be about average facially (i,e a 5 or 6) yet can still get attention. If your average height or a short guy and average facially (or ugly) you are shit out of luck unless you have mega status or loadsa money. Until you realize it keep being delusional.

Either you are born goodlooking as a guy (or tall & average which can cut it), you become goodlooking by working out, jaw implants, surgery etc (looksmaxing), or you remain average / unattractive and thus shit ought of look like a i said earlier (unless your happy smashing fat / chubby or ugly girls in their teens and 20's).

kirk88 · 2015-02-25T23:19:51+00:00

I hear my female friends say things like this constantly

There's your first problem. Why do you have female friends?

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