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Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. [Repost]

January 27, 2022

Was talking to a guy in the DMs about Patrice, found a stellar post with his quotes had been removed. Had to repost and add in some footnotes, translations, clarifications etc. Maybe it is reddit who are the real racists for suppressing a black man's wisdom.

Last few days, seen a noticeable increase in quality. You guys know who you are...keep it up.

My and Vas' back were getting kinda tired from the heavy lifting, will need some more Romanian deadlifts or back extensions I reckon. That said, still got a fair few posts cooking in my oven (alongside some members of a certain long nosed tribe), so stay tuned.

Without further adieu:

"You got to understand, this is not her fault. What women do when they pressure you to marry them is not their fault. That’s what the fuck they do. So you have to dismiss what she wants, dismiss that whole thing where she wants to get married, because that’s what she wants to do anyway. But them saying they want to get married is like me saying I want to eat or wake up and look at something. That’s what that marriage thing is to them. What you have to do is reestablish your shit. One thing you have to do is you have to be able to take an “L”. Not afraid to take a loss to get your point across. So when she gives you that marriage ultimatum, if you look like you’re sweating, and you’re blinking, and you’re nervous about her leaving, she will take advantage of that."

When pizza is good, its good. When its bad, its still pretty good. Sex is not like pizza boys. Check the price tag before engaging. Starfish sex no bueno. Sex after she's disrespected you no bueno. That's just telling her she can do whatever she wants and you'll forgive it for 2 minutes of romp time. Sometimes you got to lose the battle to win the war.

"Stop having negotiations with women. Stop trying to give her things to make her happy so that she lets you go out to fuckin hunt and let you go out to drink. You have to say “look sweetie, this is how it is” and you have to be ready for her to walk out of your life."

"One thing women need from you that if you don’t give them they fuckin flap around like a fish out of water, is emotions. If she goes “I gotta get married! And I don’t want you to go hunting!” You go “Oh sweetie we’re not gonna get married for a while, I don’t know when. And I’m going hunting right now. I’ll see you later. You don’t have to be here if you don’t want” And kiss her on the check and be really cold because now her emotions have to eat on themselves."

"She’s not walking out of your life unless you’re crushed. They never walk out if you’re indifferent on the couch. If you go “goodbye, nice talking to you, I love you but you have to live your life” That bitch will not take a step. Trust me."

Give them an inch, they will take a mile. The only way to keep her is to cede no ground, counter intuitive, I know, but that's how it is. (A lot of game and red pill can simply be described as this and just doing the opposite of what initially comes to mind).

Sometimes, the best move is to just kiss her on the forehead and say "this is the way it is now."

"(Advice given in response to a caller who says his wife only fucks him once a year) Nothing helps a marriage more than cheating. Nothing makes it easier. When you’re cheating there’s nothing she could say that would upset you after you get home. You have to say to yourself “you can’t love a woman, like a woman loves you. You can’t give energy to her the same way she gives energy to you. You can’t go booby-bear, you can’t hold her hand because she’s holding yours. It’s a distance thing. Stay gone for a couple of days, have other things to do besides worry about how much she loves you and you love her. You gotta get a life. You don’t have a life if you’re worried about going to a bachelor party and cheating."

"They don’t want what they can have. And right now I think she has you."

Dread or straight up cheating are powerful tools in the box. Use them when necessary. You always want to have some dread happening regardless if she's a plate, fwb or wife. Don't turn into a complete eunuch where you suddenly choose to no longer to interact with women. Where don't go out to bars/clubs anymore, you don't approach any new cuties on the street, you completely delete all your dating apps, you don't DM any new girls on insta and cut communication with anyone you were currently talking to, and you try to keep your distance with new/current women in your social circle. You can afford to cut some of these things, but you can't afford to cut all these things.

"Most loser women, all they have to barter is their pussy. They don’t have anything else. Men have so many other things to barter when it comes to the sex game, and the relationship game. If you’re an ugly motherfucker with a hunchback and you walking with some type of swagger, everybody could be laughing and going “look at this hunchback motherfucker” but a woman might go “how could this motherfucker with a hunchback look like he should be fuckin’ me?” There are other things that make us attractive to women. Initially there’s only one thing that makes women attractive to us, and that’s fucking them. And then it builds from there. But they like us more than fucking us on the front end. We like to fuck them on the front end and then go “wow, she’s kind of cool” on the back end. So basically, you gotta understand that when you’re meeting these women, essentially, they’re losers. She has to get something out of her pussy, she has to get dinner, she has to get a movie. How can she function if she doesn’t get something out of what she has? Our bodies are not as important to us as their bodies are. So when you’re taking her out to dinner and spending time with her, you gotta understand that that’s her way of fucking you. If you take her out 5 times, she fucked you 5 times. And you haven’t fucked her yet. So basically what you’re doing is driving down a one way street, behind this bitch. And you can’t pass her. So if you find yourself getting stuck behind a chick on a one way road, you turn off the first available exit, and you get the fuck off that road. You can’t let a woman whore out your time."

Your time and attention are your only sources of power. You must not give them up readily. Don't be a time slut. That's just an easy route into the friendzone.

"She’s going to try and gradually take your manhood by small steps and before you know it you’re sitting in the shoe store carrying her bags. You gotta first decide what you want out of this and if what you want is sex, then that has to be obvious. And if that’s not what she wants, fine, there will be somebody else."

"Fundamentally, it’s the nature of women to bitch you up. That always happens; the degree may be different from woman to woman, but it’s all about bitchin you up. And it’s organic. You cannot be angry at how they do it with such ease. It’s like brushing your teeth. Your manhood is constantly under siege, and you can’t be mad at them. It’s like being mad at a fuckin snake for biting you. If you got a rattlesnake in your hand and you’re like “this rattlesnake is the shit” and it bites you, you can’t be mad at the motherfucker. You just have to go “shit, it’s a snake”.

Check out my stay tiger post for further info.

"Women have no skills to get what they want, so they hope what they want just kind of walks in. What gives you the balls to sit and wait for Mr. Right? What skills do you have to get Mr. Right?"

Femininity is preserved, masculinity is built. The 19 year old girl has about the same value as the 30 year old millionaire. When she's on a yacht in Dubai doing all kinds of shit, some very questionable, all she had to do was be pretty and say yes. For the guy who owns the yacht, he had to hustle his way up, and learn a trillion different things along the way.

"You have to take away what she wants (emotions) until you get what you want (sex)"

"She’s only powerful if you let her be powerful."

"If you can't walk away from a negotiation, you have no power. Always be willing to walk away."- Donald Trump

"The amount of time it takes for her to pussy you up is the amount of time she sticks around to enjoy you being a pussy. And then she’s going to leave you."

"(In response to a man calling in claiming his wife wants him to be a stay at home husband) All a woman has in this world is that her man is cool. For the sake of your marriage, do not get put in a position where she thinks you aint cool. If she can’t look at you like “my man is the shit” then your marriage is over. How can you look at him like he’s the shit if he’s a stay at home fuckin’ dad?"

You have to keep some distance from your woman. Keep some of the mystery. There's nothing sexy if she gets to see you taking your morning shit.

"My girl said the other day “can you get off that pimp shit for once?” I go “if I do bitch, then what?” You need an opening to fag me up. Don’t let her fag you up."

Stay tiger.

"A woman wants to be protected by her man, and if she can punk you up, how are you going to protect her against another man? She’s always looking to upgrade the protection."

A man whose willing to stand up to his woman, is also willing to stand up for his woman. Maybe this is why women like sexist jerks, if he can say shit without worrying about offending her, then he can probably protect her too. But if a guy is too scared to offend his woman, too scared to even dip his toes in being a sexist, how can she trust him to stand up to an actual threat like a man? If you can't stand up to a 120lb 5'6 foot woman, how you gonna stand up to 180lb 5'10 man?

"Do the whole dating thing once or twice at the most. Because you don’t wanna do what other motherfuckers don’t do. You don’t wanna be taking her out and other motherfuckers just fuck her in the mouth on the first date. You take her out on 1-2 dates, and then you start pushing up on her. If she don’t wanna give you no pussy, you don’t go “fuck you” this and that. You always love em’ and leave em’. Just give her a kiss on the cheek, pet her on the head and say “thank you sweetie, but I don’t feel comfortable going out with you 2, 3, 4 times because I’m a viral young man who needs to fuck. I wanna be spending my time fucking you, not trying to fuck you. I know I want you now, do you want me?” You gotta make her ante up. "

Maybe this is a bit too overt, you can't give an ultimatum on the 2nd/3rd date. Let your actions do the talking, but yes, polarisation and escalation is important. There comes a point where you literally just have to go for it and if she rejects you, you have to cut all losses and move on.

"A happy man means a happy woman; it trickles down from the man. A happy woman doesn’t mean shit. She doesn’t know how to be happy outside of how a man makes her feel. If a motherfucker is sitting there playing Xbox 360 and you say “I’m not gonna bother this motherfucker at all”. He could be on there for 8 hours and I’m just gonna exist in my own place for 8 hours until he wants to exist with me, you just earned yourself 8 hours of happy. That motherfucker would be like “sweetie, what do you need me to do? Cause you left me alone for that 8 hours I wanted to be left alone for.” You were selling me what I wanted to buy. I wanted to buy some Xbox 360 time and you gave it to me, so you know what? I’m going to figure out how to make you happy. I’m gonna tune into you now instead of tuning out because you tried to force me to spend time with you, or force me to love you, or force me to talk to you."

"You should encourage the whore-ness in every bitch. The reason men don’t like women is because of what you put us through for pussy. The fact is, you could fuck me now but you’re not, just because of the “unwritten rule” of not fucking on the first date. If a chick says she doesn’t know me before we fuck, you don’t know me any better if we talk for a year."

True. The only way a girl can truly get to know you or truly achieve intimacy is through sex. Sex is their language they speak. Anything else is cope. Sex is the only thing that connects man and woman. Imagine if one day, all their vaginas, mouths and assholes got permanently sewn up, you would probably spend a hell of lot less time with women, wouldn't you?

"Pussy is only valuable to whoever is fucking it at the time."

"Any woman is going to push your boundaries until you stop her"

"Women hate being in charge. They don’t wanna win, they want a winner. And that’s what women test constantly, is this nigga the winner that I think he is? So you come at us and try to make us losers. And what a loser is, is a guy that lets a woman make his happiness. If you look at any woman who’s in charge, she’s not happy. She thinks she has to be mean to be the boss, she’s copying what she sees bosses do. Women don’t want to run shit, it makes them miserable. They want a man who runs shit so she can go “that’s my man”.

Women aren't suited for power and leadership roles. Power and leadership are inherently masculine traits, only the masculine can excel at this. And any woman who wants to excel at power and leadership will have to masculinise herself.

E.g. Margaret Thatcher. Probably a feminist icon, definitely not a feminine icon.

"I’m not going to bite my tongue, I’m going to tell you how I feel. Ok sweetie, I’m not going to take you out on another date. I’ve been on three dates with you. I know I want to fuck you, I don’t know if you want to fuck me, but I already know I want to fuck you. If you don’t wanna fuck me, figure it out, but were not going on anymore food excursions so I can do something for you and you’re not doing shit for me. The more you make me wait, the less it’s worth."

Never allow a woman make you wait for sex. It's never worth it, it's also indicative of her attraction to you. Or lack of.

"Women want to look at a guy and believe that he will lead them where they need to go. But they’re gonna test him like he’s a weak ass second mate."

It's all a shit test. If her mouth moves, best to treat it like a shit test.

"If I’m the king of the castle and I marry a useless bitch, do you know what she becomes? The queen. She becomes the highest level that a woman’s title can be, in the world. Just by marrying me. I make you the best you can be. But the Queen is the King's bitch. Now, if a queen marries a motherfucker that ain’t shit, what does he become? A king? No. He’s just the motherfucker whose the queen's husband."

"Guys, the only thing you really have to deal with is the threat of rejection on the front end. If I see you on the street and I go “hey what’s up” and you go “I don't like you”, all you had to do was deal with that. And once you apply that to yourself you can go “you know what, I'm just gonna stick fly paper everywhere and see what sticks.”

Check out my post on rejection if this is a sticking point.

"Here’s the problem, I have to be a good lover, have decent money, have decent clothes, be funny, I gotta be happy. I gotta be everything, for your vagina. Now where the resentment comes in is now you look at me, like I’m supposed to love you like you love me, and you’ve haven't done anything loveable. Why should I love you because I’m loveable?"

"Let’s boil it back down to pussy. Let’s say we had something that women were after every second of the day. What if God has cursed us or blessed us, and every guy had 10 G’s in his pocket every day. And every day women were out there going “hello” and in our minds, were going “man this bitch is just after my 10,000 dollars” Now, just because she’s after our 10,000 dollars, does that make you special? Cause she’s chasing your 10 G’s? And here’s the thing about my 10,000 dollars, I’m better than my 10,000 dollars. Bitches are not bigger than their pussy."

Guys are success objects. Girls are sex objects. And it takes a lot more to be a good success object than a good sex object.

"You’re gonna love him before he loves you, because he’s showing you the best of him. You’re not showing the best of you before he gets pussy. Before he gets pussy, it’s him auditioning for pussy, so you’re getting the best of a guy. You’re gonna love him first."

A girl has to like a guy before she sleeps with him. A guy chooses whether he actually likes a girl after he sleeps with her.

"Women are looking for a General they are comfortable fighting for. They’re looking for a guy they can believe in. Women really want to have no job, they want to support a man that they believe in."

The biggest prize for a woman is locking down the best man there is. No matter what Melinda Gates has accomplished or will accomplish in life, she will always be known for being the woman who locked down Bill Gates (whose been up to funny business in the last few years). Same thing for Jeff Bezos' wife. And Angelina Jolie for locking down Brad Pitt.

"Remember, a happy man is a happy everybody in his life."

Happy wife, happy life is a blue pill falsehood. Don't trust men who genuinely believe this. They'll backstab you if ordered to.

"Women have no skill to get what they want. You survey the land and go “he’s nice” and your skill is to stand there and go “I’ll get his attention so that he comes over with his skills.” Because you have no skills to get a man. Your skill is your beauty. You don’t know how to get a dude. You don’t choose a guy, a guy chooses you and you choose to go “yes”.

Men actively have to work on their seduction, have to make an active choice to get laid, have to make an active approach. Women don't. They just have to sit passively and let the offers come in. Men fuck, women get fucked. Men approach, women get approached. Men are active, women are passive. Even their respective gametes concur.

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Title Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. [Repost]
Author Protocol_Apollo
Upvotes 290
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Date January 27, 2022 6:12 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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[–]ThrowawayYAYAY2002 53 points54 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Boom! Great post, sir! Have an upvote.

I listen to Patrice's work all the time. Believe me, that man was years ahead of his time. Years. He's one of those guys who you come across and you just know that he's gonna make an impact on your life. The stuff he was saying in '05/'06? I mean, come on! Anyone over the age of 30 will know how different things were back then. And he's still ahead of his time.

He truly cared for his fellow men. He did everything possible to look after us. His work is a treasure. And his frame? Unmatched.

I have to say that I love what Rosebudd Bitterdose and Dante Nero (Patrice's boy) are doing. I also listen to their work, and those guys are cut from the same cloth as Patrice.

He's on the Mount Rushmore of TRP, IMHO. Alongside Rollo and a few others.

[–]TheRedPillRipper 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Patrice’s work

This is one of my all time favourites.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–]omega_dawg93 10 points11 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

it's all pimp game... but for relationships & just dealing with women for pussy, it is not street-level, "go sell your pussy for me," literal pimp game. rosebudd uses that approach, but here's how others apply the lessons in their respective ways:

Patrice = pimp game for the average guy trying to keep his woman in line... applying it to solidify HER behavior within the context of what HE wants from the relationship and keeping her within the boundaries that he sets. this is word-of-mouth, hand me down, "sit down, let me school you young dudes," teaching.

Patrice & Rosebudd: "bitch, i AM the prize." men, you HAVE to believe this in your bones.

Rollo & others = took street level game and wrote formal books about it... describing the psychology behind female nature and literally putting the game on paper giving access to lessons that most guys aren't taught by their fathers, elders, street guys, etc. this is buy the book, learn the lessons, "let's have a man conference," teaching.

Rollo & others: "make yourself your mental point of origin." iow, put your needs first & foremost. your happiness is your priority; her needs are 2nd to yours. ALWAYS.

note: "bitch, i am the prize" = "make yourself your mental point of origin." these guys are talking the same stuff in different ways to appeal to different audiences.

side notes:

  1. my older cousin was a pimp in southern california, and as a teen, he taught me the street way to handle women which included learning a LOT about their true nature = cunning, manipulation, lies, lies, lies, & deceit. BUT THIS STUFF DOES NOT MAKE WOMEN EVIL; THEY USE THESE TACTICS TO SURVIVE IN A PHYSICAL, TOUGH WORLD. this is why AWALT, and why you can't be mad at them. these tactics, strategies, & tools are their survival kit... just accept it.
  2. when i first read, "rational male," all i could do is smile; it was just a formal version of the street talk i'd been hearing for decades.
  3. i don't know rollo, and i don't know anything about him personally. what he's written is a book that ALL MEN NEED TO READ. please do... and pay particular attention to his write-up about "War Brides".

[–]GildanOverlord 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Make a longer post about what your cousin told you, I'm interested

[–]Heeey_Reyrey 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The Rollo that wrote the book is his value and his contribution to the manosphere. What Rollo today is what he is. You are right, he isn't a Wittgenstein of TRP. The part of it is why he was bullied away by GLO from this sub lol. But the book is a must read!

[–]omega_dawg93 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

rollo doesn't come across as a guy that was killing a lot of pussy... and instead looks like a regular married dude that is happy with his life & wife.

and that's ok with me.

but he did LEARN the psychology about women and their true nature and how they operate on a primal level... and communicated it to us all in an easy to understand series of books.

i don't pay attention to all the goings-on with these guys btw each other. i learn from each and move on.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY2002 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's one reason why I really like Rollo: He's not out there claiming he does these things.

I like his angle, and he's an integral part of TRP.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY2002 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Well put.

Your cousin, any stories on the guy in terms of advice etc?

[–]omega_dawg93 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

yes... i'll return and list a few things he taught me.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY2002 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Brilliant news. I'm looking forward to it.

[–]daevilsins_6 16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Whenever i listen to Patrice on Black Philip or O&A, i keep forgetting that he is not with us anymore. Still miss him to this day.

[–]Flyhotstuff 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Really makes you feel like calling in lol

[–]2319Skew 16 points17 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Shame we can't trade Carlos Mencia & Amy Schumer for Patrice O'Neal.

[–]Endorsed ContributorProtocol_Apollo[S] 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Few times do I cringe more than when I hear Amy repeat the “muh vagina” joke for the 10th time.

[–]thestoryofbitbit 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

So you're watching her standup 10 times??

[–]Endorsed ContributorProtocol_Apollo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeh but wasn’t my choice. CIA were using their latest torture methods on me. But no, you don’t need to watch her 10 times to repeat the same “joke” 10 times, you just got to watch it once.

[–]crippledhermit 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd beg for Giraldo back too.

[–]Nighthawk_Black_ 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Search for Danimations Patrice O'Neal on YouTube it has a bunch of animated videos with the audio from the Black Phillip Show.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY2002 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It'd be great if there was more of these threads from RP gurus/Alpha males etc.

I know we all know this, but it's good content and there might be a gem in there that helps someone out.

[–]bludkraze 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bill Burr is basically a walkin RP encyclopedia. Just listen to him reading angry women letters or giving relationship advice.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY2002 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a big fan of his. Very cool guy.

[–]Endorsed ContributorWoujo[🍰] 17 points18 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

I am a huge fan of Patrice O'neal and the Black Philip show and I quote him all the time. Some of his advice, however, is wrong. Most of the girls he smashed were really low self-esteem ghetto trash so he could get away with shit you cannot get away with other girls. He even admitted he could never get a white girl. A lot of girls will not be ok with you cheating if they want an exclusive relationship, so some of these quotes are not valid.

But generally, his content and philosophy is good. Just take it with a grain of salt, like you would do anything.

[–]Endorsed ContributorProtocol_Apollo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeh that’s the thing, he’s a comedian spewing a few nuggets of gold.

It can’t be taken as comprehensive dating advice, transforming your entire view of women and the SMP because it was never meant to.

That job belongs to the sidebar etc.

[–]omega_dawg93 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

most of his advice wasn't about getting pussy... or getting a particular race of women. his point was, AWALT, and they can't help themselves; it's in their nature to do the shit they do, and you can't fault them.

so, as a man, it is YOUR job to define yourself, decide what you want from a particular woman, communicate it to her thru your actions (after a few dates), and if that doesn't work, tell her overtly, "look sweetie... we've gone on enough dates; it's time to fuck or i'm moving on. i'm not getting anything from this situation, and you know i want to fuck."

that mentality/attitude extends past race... tell all women that you're not gonna waste your time playing their silly games for some vagina (that's never worth the waiting process).

afa white girls in particular, i'm sure he had access to them... probably didn't appeal to him as he often said he liked bigger women. let's not kid ourselves by thinking american white girls are some special prize to be had when everyone knows they're about the easiest women to get... esp. from someone with his social status.

as chris rock said, "when you fly into seattle and go thru the baggage claim, they give you 2 white girls before you leave the airport."

[–]Endorsed ContributorWoujo[🍰] -2 points-1 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

his point was, AWALT, and they can't help themselves

It is true that All Women Are Like That. But like what? If he was trying to say that all women are ok with being cheated on, then no, he's wrong.

"look sweetie... we've gone on enough dates; it's time to fuck or i'm moving on. i'm not getting anything from this situation, and you know i want to fuck."

Saying shit like that doesn't work because you cannot negotiate desire. She either wants to fuck you or she doesn't. And if she doesn't, giving her an ultimatum is just needy and beta. That's Rollo Tomassi 101.

If you're not getting what you want from a relationship, you just move on. If the woman wants an explanation as to why you are leaving her, you can tell her, but weaksauce ultimatums rarely work.

Also you shouldn't be going on a bunch of dates with women that don't want to fuck you. You give a woman 2-3 dates max, if she doesn't show you any sexual interest by then it is probably not going to happen.

afa white girls in particular, i'm sure he had access to them... probably didn't appeal to him as he often said he liked bigger women

Dude, will you please take his fucking dead dick out of your mouth? Nothing is more pathetic than a man who worships some other man like he was a God. I have listened to almost everything Patrice ever said in standup, podcasts, and interviews, and he repeatedly made clear he was attracted to while women but couldn't get it going with them. He even said in his stand up that game with white girls and black girls is different and his game is more geared towards "mean black bitches." Listen to his special Mr. P.

You have to realize that Patrice was fat, ugly, black, and never really got mainstream famous. He is a god to comedy nerds like me but most regular people have no idea who he is. His game and fame started to improve near the end of his life, but he spent most of his life has a resentful incel-type. He also may have been traumatized by the fact that he went to jail on a false rape charge for running a train on a white girl with his friends. I say this with no hate for Patrice whatsoever - I love him - but those are just the facts. Dante Nero, his best friend and the cohost of the Black Philip show, would agree with me and has said the same thing.

let's not kid ourselves by thinking american white girls are some special prize to be had when everyone knows they're about the easiest women to get... esp. from someone with his social status.

If you think white women are the easiest women to get you are fucking brain damaged. Holy fucking shit I can't believe any human being that lives in America would think that.

[–]omega_dawg93 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link


i don't comment on men's looks and their ability to get pussy... as women fuck guys for a multitude of reasons from money to social status, to whatever.

AWALT. it's about them expressing their inherent female nature... not their willingness to be cheated on. about being cheated on... a woman MUST understand that high value men are ALWAYS going to have options to fuck other women and that NOT doing so is more about the man being a good person-not being good bc of her being in his life.

additionally, women have ALWAYS shared high value men... go back afa you want in history to attain that fact. "women would rather share an alpha than have a dutiful, faithful beta." AWALT too.

and idk where you live, but i'm in the deep south, and even here where racism is alive & well... white gals are relatively easy to bag & seeing IR couples isn't rare. american white girls are some, if not the easiest, women to fuck. that's my experience and my opinion... and i thought common knowledge. seriously, who the fuck has trouble getting white women?

... that's IF you're even attracted to white women. they are NOT anyone's prize... unless you believe they belong on a pedestal higher than any other race of women; they are NOT different a/o better. your experiences sound much different than mine.

last, comedians and just about everyone else in the red pill community, that speaks the TRUTH about female nature, aren't very popular. even this board on reddit is quarantined bc like patrice, you can't say the truths about female nature without a shit-ton of push-back.

[–]Endorsed ContributorWoujo[🍰] -2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

i don't comment on men's looks and their ability to get pussy.

I'm sorry you are so insecure about your sexuality, so let me help you out. Fat ugly black guys usually have trouble getting laid unless they have something else really compelling about them.

additionally, women have ALWAYS shared high value men... go back afa you want in history to attain that fact. "women would rather share an alpha than have a dutiful, faithful beta." AWALT too.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman where you openly cheated and she accepted it even though she didn't like it? I'm not here to talk about history or theory, I'm talking about practical reality. Have you actually been in this kind of relationship? If so, how many times?

seriously, who the fuck has trouble getting white women?

Patrice O'neal, and according to him. I'm just saying what he said.

Also, do you really in your heart believe it is easier to bang a white girl than to bang a black girl? Do you seriously believe that or are you just being an argumentative fuck?

... that's IF you're even attracted to white women. they are NOT anyone's prize.

Generally speaking, white women are the most sought-after sexual category. The least sought after is black women. Of course, there are exceptions, but scientists literally study this shit.

IT is clear you are like a 24 year dude who loves RP ideology but hasn't that much real experience. You are talking in ideas, not practicality. Your belief that you can just cheat on a woman with no consequences, that white women are easier to bang than black girls, and the rest of the shit you said clearly demonstrate you have little to no real world experience, I'm done with this conversation until you actually enter the real world.

[–]omega_dawg93 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

dude back off the coffee... da fuck is wrong with you? you don't know me like that and seem really emotionally invested in proving me wrong about MY life and experience. lol.

women are attracted to confidence so why YOU think fat ugly black guys won't get laid, they'll get laid before you if you're not confident a/o feminine (emotional).

calling me an "argumentative fuck" bc of MY experiences compared to yours is juvenile. I've had zero issues banging white girls... they're easy to me-have been since high school and thru college and now in the workplace. whatever your experience is with them is your business. do you.

and I've read the articles... and you're right, black women are the least sought after female, but asian women are the most sought after... NOT white women. and ime, Asian women have been the hardest to bang. I'm sure other guys will disagree with that but trust me, I'm mature enough to not call them names bc of THEIR experience. lol.

this is from a dating app survey:


[–]Endorsed ContributorWoujo[🍰] -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ok so you admit that white girls aren't the easiest girls to get, and you also haven't had any of these magical relationships where you cheat on your girl all the time and she just accepts it.

That's all I needed to know. Conversation over.

[–]omega_dawg93 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol. i didn't admit shit. asian women are the MOST coveted... not white women.

why are you copping pleas and defending white women like this? they're party girls... they love attention, sex, drugs, attention, ATTENTION, validation & fun. EVERYBODY knows that!!! WTF? just look on reddit... these boards are at max capacity with white women seeking attention.

and yes, white girls are the easiest to get... to me. THEY ARE EASY TO ME. my experiences are not yours and likewise. when i lived on the west coast (pasadena, ca & seattle, wa) they approached ME, asked for my number... gave up the pussy QUICK and gave up the mouth even quicker! like chris rock says, "when you fly into seattle, they give you two white women at the airport." yes, they are THAT easy (to some of us).

maybe YOU don't appeal to them like i do. it's NEVER been a challenge to get them, esp. now with social media and dating apps... and that's why i don't really desire them like you do. no race of women is particularly special to me bc women will women & that includes white women. and don't get me started on white MILFS btw 35 & 50. dude... you just don't know.

the biggest secret in america is how white women act when black women & white men aren't around.

and WTF don't you understand about cheating? 52% of men cheat and 48% of women cheat... and with sampling error, you can consider that equal. so, guess what, they're no angels. AWALT.

and again, AWALT is about female nature... not about ALL women accepting bad behavior from men. all women accepting cheating behavior from men is NOT the same as all women doing the shit THEY do based on their nature. some women (imo, MOST women) will share an alpha that respects them upfront (e.g. "you're not the only woman i'm seeing") than to have some lame beta at home kissing her feet & begging for his "honey-do" list so he can "get lucky" and get some ass. smh.

why the fuck are you confused about that? have YOU read the sidebar?

[–]VoltairBear 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean if you need an example of one sided open LTR with women that aren’t ghetto trash, look at Andrew Tate. It definitely appears to take next level frame and game though.

[–]Endorsed ContributorWoujo[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I never said it couldn't happen, but its not something you can expect with every woman.

[–]dynospectrum7 16 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Women hate being in charge.

For anyone engaging in anything more than random hookups, please understand this.

[–]Comfortable_Echo4253 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For anyone engaging in anything more than random hookups

Curious as to why you differentiate this

[–]Hayekr 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women hate being in charge.


This is a demographic that regularly finds it difficult and painful to be burdened with making the call on what to have for dinner, let alone making truly impactful decisions in a relationship.

[–]floppyjabjab 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've read that with Patrice's voice in my head

[–]comcain 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great post. Thank you!

It's been awhile since I listened to Black Phillip. Might have to give it another go. I think my favorite episode is where he kept muting the mic of the girl that was sassing him. She got sooo mad, then abruptly gave up and became submissive. It was a shit test!

[–]ChrimsonChin988 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Patrice his genius came from being able to clearly and in an entertaining way articulate what any man can feel in his stomach.

I've heard him say multiple times that women will say or do something which will twist your stomach. You can feel something is wrong but you're unsure what exactly. And because Patrice is able to articulate what you're feeling and why, now your mind can catch up and understand what your intuition could already feel.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorProtocol_Apollo[S] 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Bro, just try telling a bitch on the 2nd or 3rd date that.

Tell her “look babe, I like you and all, but I can’t do any more dates/I can’t hang out with you anymore unless we fuck.”

See how that turns out.

Most likely, not very well.

Girls don’t speak overt, they speak covert.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorProtocol_Apollo[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

See how easy a whole boyfriend box gets built around you.

There are other and better ways to avoid this.

Namely, keeping dates low investment, having some asshole game, showing her how you’re really non judgemental about sex, almost giving her shit for seeming/being less experienced than you, being hot and cold and obviously escalating.

Sure, your way will probably prevent you from being seen as boyfriend material too, but it will also prevent you from being seen as fuckboy material as well.


Because fuck boys don’t say “sex or fuck off” , they show it.

[–]omega_dawg93 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol. try it.

you don't put it in ultimatum form: "we can't hang out anymore unless you fuck." that will not work.

but you do say it thru YOUR ACTIONS by escalating physically. if you get an erection while kissing and pushing up on her, PULL IT OUT (in the appropriate place of course). let her know that you're excited and you want her to handle your erection.

if she doesn't... and STILL wants to play around and try to set up another date, etc., that's when you tell her overtly: "i can't do this anymore bc i'm not getting anything from it... i don't need another friend." take the "L" and move on. you won't be getting sex if she decides not to, but she won't be getting TIME, ATTENTION, & RESOURCES from you.

women aren't in it for the sex... they want the attention. never forget that. pull it from her and let her find someone else to bullshit.

men put themselves in the friend zone. never forget that.

[–]FarFromAverage7866 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great post and a good refresher. Patrice O'Neal, Tom Leykis, these guys were indeed way ahead of their time.

[–]AnantNaad 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Aiight , first comment here .

What if my women is slightly masculine , like she's fine with taking charge sometimes .. , is somewhat spiritual so is aware all these monkey branching and light switch instincts that women have in themselves and therefore act rationally .

Will it be right to say above rules apply to majority but there might be exceptions to women that not all of them act impulsively ?

[–]Endorsed ContributorProtocol_Apollo[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

What if my women is slightly masculine , like she's fine with taking charge sometimes .. ,

Have to define what you mean. What is she taking charge of? Is it the kitchen? (That would be okay) or something else ? And why is she leading? Are you just being lazy and just handing the wheel to her?

Will it be right to say above rules apply to majority but there might be exceptions to women that not all of them act impulsively ?


[–]TheRedPillRipper 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

there might be exceptions

u/AnantNaad whenever you’re asking about exceptions; the rule applies. Take your premise. She acts impulsively. You let it slide. She leads. You let it slide. Sometimes. Where’s the boundary? What have you clearly defined as the parameters of your relationship?

It’s okay to let your partner show initiative. As long you’re both clear who’s leading, because as the adage goes; there’s only one captain.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–]DeYtHB 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for contribution, I am huge fan of Patrice O Neal, Tom Leykis.

[–]Btafoh5 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I read this shortly after you posted it 4 days ago and have spent that time listening to every episode of the show day and night whatever I’m doing. This shit is gold… his logic and frame is too strong to deny

[–]Da_llluminati -3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

could have done it without the explanations, but whatever

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