Was talking to a guy in the DMs about Patrice, found a stellar post with his quotes had been removed. Had to repost and add in some footnotes, translations, clarifications etc. Maybe it is reddit who are the real racists for suppressing a black man's wisdom.
Last few days, seen a noticeable increase in quality. You guys know who you are...keep it up.
My and Vas' back were getting kinda tired from the heavy lifting, will need some more Romanian deadlifts or back extensions I reckon. That said, still got a fair few posts cooking in my oven (alongside some members of a certain long nosed tribe), so stay tuned.
Without further adieu:
"You got to understand, this is not her fault. What women do when they pressure you to marry them is not their fault. That’s what the fuck they do. So you have to dismiss what she wants, dismiss that whole thing where she wants to get married, because that’s what she wants to do anyway. But them saying they want to get married is like me saying I want to eat or wake up and look at something. That’s what that marriage thing is to them. What you have to do is reestablish your shit. One thing you have to do is you have to be able to take an “L”. Not afraid to take a loss to get your point across. So when she gives you that marriage ultimatum, if you look like you’re sweating, and you’re blinking, and you’re nervous about her leaving, she will take advantage of that."
When pizza is good, its good. When its bad, its still pretty good. Sex is not like pizza boys. Check the price tag before engaging. Starfish sex no bueno. Sex after she's disrespected you no bueno. That's just telling her she can do whatever she wants and you'll forgive it for 2 minutes of romp time. Sometimes you got to lose the battle to win the war.
"Stop having negotiations with women. Stop trying to give her things to make her happy so that she lets you go out to fuckin hunt and let you go out to drink. You have to say “look sweetie, this is how it is” and you have to be ready for her to walk out of your life."
"One thing women need from you that if you don’t give them they fuckin flap around like a fish out of water, is emotions. If she goes “I gotta get married! And I don’t want you to go hunting!” You go “Oh sweetie we’re not gonna get married for a while, I don’t know when. And I’m going hunting right now. I’ll see you later. You don’t have to be here if you don’t want” And kiss her on the check and be really cold because now her emotions have to eat on themselves."
"She’s not walking out of your life unless you’re crushed. They never walk out if you’re indifferent on the couch. If you go “goodbye, nice talking to you, I love you but you have to live your life” That bitch will not take a step. Trust me."
Give them an inch, they will take a mile. The only way to keep her is to cede no ground, counter intuitive, I know, but that's how it is. (A lot of game and red pill can simply be described as this and just doing the opposite of what initially comes to mind).
Sometimes, the best move is to just kiss her on the forehead and say "this is the way it is now."
"(Advice given in response to a caller who says his wife only fucks him once a year) Nothing helps a marriage more than cheating. Nothing makes it easier. When you’re cheating there’s nothing she could say that would upset you after you get home. You have to say to yourself “you can’t love a woman, like a woman loves you. You can’t give energy to her the same way she gives energy to you. You can’t go booby-bear, you can’t hold her hand because she’s holding yours. It’s a distance thing. Stay gone for a couple of days, have other things to do besides worry about how much she loves you and you love her. You gotta get a life. You don’t have a life if you’re worried about going to a bachelor party and cheating."
"They don’t want what they can have. And right now I think she has you."
Dread or straight up cheating are powerful tools in the box. Use them when necessary. You always want to have some dread happening regardless if she's a plate, fwb or wife. Don't turn into a complete eunuch where you suddenly choose to no longer to interact with women. Where don't go out to bars/clubs anymore, you don't approach any new cuties on the street, you completely delete all your dating apps, you don't DM any new girls on insta and cut communication with anyone you were currently talking to, and you try to keep your distance with new/current women in your social circle. You can afford to cut some of these things, but you can't afford to cut all these things.
"Most loser women, all they have to barter is their pussy. They don’t have anything else. Men have so many other things to barter when it comes to the sex game, and the relationship game. If you’re an ugly motherfucker with a hunchback and you walking with some type of swagger, everybody could be laughing and going “look at this hunchback motherfucker” but a woman might go “how could this motherfucker with a hunchback look like he should be fuckin’ me?” There are other things that make us attractive to women. Initially there’s only one thing that makes women attractive to us, and that’s fucking them. And then it builds from there. But they like us more than fucking us on the front end. We like to fuck them on the front end and then go “wow, she’s kind of cool” on the back end. So basically, you gotta understand that when you’re meeting these women, essentially, they’re losers. She has to get something out of her pussy, she has to get dinner, she has to get a movie. How can she function if she doesn’t get something out of what she has? Our bodies are not as important to us as their bodies are. So when you’re taking her out to dinner and spending time with her, you gotta understand that that’s her way of fucking you. If you take her out 5 times, she fucked you 5 times. And you haven’t fucked her yet. So basically what you’re doing is driving down a one way street, behind this bitch. And you can’t pass her. So if you find yourself getting stuck behind a chick on a one way road, you turn off the first available exit, and you get the fuck off that road. You can’t let a woman whore out your time."
Your time and attention are your only sources of power. You must not give them up readily. Don't be a time slut. That's just an easy route into the friendzone.
"She’s going to try and gradually take your manhood by small steps and before you know it you’re sitting in the shoe store carrying her bags. You gotta first decide what you want out of this and if what you want is sex, then that has to be obvious. And if that’s not what she wants, fine, there will be somebody else."
"Fundamentally, it’s the nature of women to bitch you up. That always happens; the degree may be different from woman to woman, but it’s all about bitchin you up. And it’s organic. You cannot be angry at how they do it with such ease. It’s like brushing your teeth. Your manhood is constantly under siege, and you can’t be mad at them. It’s like being mad at a fuckin snake for biting you. If you got a rattlesnake in your hand and you’re like “this rattlesnake is the shit” and it bites you, you can’t be mad at the motherfucker. You just have to go “shit, it’s a snake”.
Check out my stay tiger post for further info.
"Women have no skills to get what they want, so they hope what they want just kind of walks in. What gives you the balls to sit and wait for Mr. Right? What skills do you have to get Mr. Right?"
Femininity is preserved, masculinity is built. The 19 year old girl has about the same value as the 30 year old millionaire. When she's on a yacht in Dubai doing all kinds of shit, some very questionable, all she had to do was be pretty and say yes. For the guy who owns the yacht, he had to hustle his way up, and learn a trillion different things along the way.
"You have to take away what she wants (emotions) until you get what you want (sex)"
"She’s only powerful if you let her be powerful."
"If you can't walk away from a negotiation, you have no power. Always be willing to walk away."- Donald Trump
"The amount of time it takes for her to pussy you up is the amount of time she sticks around to enjoy you being a pussy. And then she’s going to leave you."
"(In response to a man calling in claiming his wife wants him to be a stay at home husband) All a woman has in this world is that her man is cool. For the sake of your marriage, do not get put in a position where she thinks you aint cool. If she can’t look at you like “my man is the shit” then your marriage is over. How can you look at him like he’s the shit if he’s a stay at home fuckin’ dad?"
You have to keep some distance from your woman. Keep some of the mystery. There's nothing sexy if she gets to see you taking your morning shit.
"My girl said the other day “can you get off that pimp shit for once?” I go “if I do bitch, then what?” You need an opening to fag me up. Don’t let her fag you up."
"A woman wants to be protected by her man, and if she can punk you up, how are you going to protect her against another man? She’s always looking to upgrade the protection."
A man whose willing to stand up to his woman, is also willing to stand up for his woman. Maybe this is why women like sexist jerks, if he can say shit without worrying about offending her, then he can probably protect her too. But if a guy is too scared to offend his woman, too scared to even dip his toes in being a sexist, how can she trust him to stand up to an actual threat like a man? If you can't stand up to a 120lb 5'6 foot woman, how you gonna stand up to 180lb 5'10 man?
"Do the whole dating thing once or twice at the most. Because you don’t wanna do what other motherfuckers don’t do. You don’t wanna be taking her out and other motherfuckers just fuck her in the mouth on the first date. You take her out on 1-2 dates, and then you start pushing up on her. If she don’t wanna give you no pussy, you don’t go “fuck you” this and that. You always love em’ and leave em’. Just give her a kiss on the cheek, pet her on the head and say “thank you sweetie, but I don’t feel comfortable going out with you 2, 3, 4 times because I’m a viral young man who needs to fuck. I wanna be spending my time fucking you, not trying to fuck you. I know I want you now, do you want me?” You gotta make her ante up. "
Maybe this is a bit too overt, you can't give an ultimatum on the 2nd/3rd date. Let your actions do the talking, but yes, polarisation and escalation is important. There comes a point where you literally just have to go for it and if she rejects you, you have to cut all losses and move on.
"A happy man means a happy woman; it trickles down from the man. A happy woman doesn’t mean shit. She doesn’t know how to be happy outside of how a man makes her feel. If a motherfucker is sitting there playing Xbox 360 and you say “I’m not gonna bother this motherfucker at all”. He could be on there for 8 hours and I’m just gonna exist in my own place for 8 hours until he wants to exist with me, you just earned yourself 8 hours of happy. That motherfucker would be like “sweetie, what do you need me to do? Cause you left me alone for that 8 hours I wanted to be left alone for.” You were selling me what I wanted to buy. I wanted to buy some Xbox 360 time and you gave it to me, so you know what? I’m going to figure out how to make you happy. I’m gonna tune into you now instead of tuning out because you tried to force me to spend time with you, or force me to love you, or force me to talk to you."
"You should encourage the whore-ness in every bitch. The reason men don’t like women is because of what you put us through for pussy. The fact is, you could fuck me now but you’re not, just because of the “unwritten rule” of not fucking on the first date. If a chick says she doesn’t know me before we fuck, you don’t know me any better if we talk for a year."
True. The only way a girl can truly get to know you or truly achieve intimacy is through sex. Sex is their language they speak. Anything else is cope. Sex is the only thing that connects man and woman. Imagine if one day, all their vaginas, mouths and assholes got permanently sewn up, you would probably spend a hell of lot less time with women, wouldn't you?
"Pussy is only valuable to whoever is fucking it at the time."
"Any woman is going to push your boundaries until you stop her"
"Women hate being in charge. They don’t wanna win, they want a winner. And that’s what women test constantly, is this nigga the winner that I think he is? So you come at us and try to make us losers. And what a loser is, is a guy that lets a woman make his happiness. If you look at any woman who’s in charge, she’s not happy. She thinks she has to be mean to be the boss, she’s copying what she sees bosses do. Women don’t want to run shit, it makes them miserable. They want a man who runs shit so she can go “that’s my man”.
Women aren't suited for power and leadership roles. Power and leadership are inherently masculine traits, only the masculine can excel at this. And any woman who wants to excel at power and leadership will have to masculinise herself.
E.g. Margaret Thatcher. Probably a feminist icon, definitely not a feminine icon.
"I’m not going to bite my tongue, I’m going to tell you how I feel. Ok sweetie, I’m not going to take you out on another date. I’ve been on three dates with you. I know I want to fuck you, I don’t know if you want to fuck me, but I already know I want to fuck you. If you don’t wanna fuck me, figure it out, but were not going on anymore food excursions so I can do something for you and you’re not doing shit for me. The more you make me wait, the less it’s worth."
Never allow a woman make you wait for sex. It's never worth it, it's also indicative of her attraction to you. Or lack of.
"Women want to look at a guy and believe that he will lead them where they need to go. But they’re gonna test him like he’s a weak ass second mate."
It's all a shit test. If her mouth moves, best to treat it like a shit test.
"If I’m the king of the castle and I marry a useless bitch, do you know what she becomes? The queen. She becomes the highest level that a woman’s title can be, in the world. Just by marrying me. I make you the best you can be. But the Queen is the King's bitch. Now, if a queen marries a motherfucker that ain’t shit, what does he become? A king? No. He’s just the motherfucker whose the queen's husband."
"Guys, the only thing you really have to deal with is the threat of rejection on the front end. If I see you on the street and I go “hey what’s up” and you go “I don't like you”, all you had to do was deal with that. And once you apply that to yourself you can go “you know what, I'm just gonna stick fly paper everywhere and see what sticks.”
Check out my post on rejection if this is a sticking point.
"Here’s the problem, I have to be a good lover, have decent money, have decent clothes, be funny, I gotta be happy. I gotta be everything, for your vagina. Now where the resentment comes in is now you look at me, like I’m supposed to love you like you love me, and you’ve haven't done anything loveable. Why should I love you because I’m loveable?"
"Let’s boil it back down to pussy. Let’s say we had something that women were after every second of the day. What if God has cursed us or blessed us, and every guy had 10 G’s in his pocket every day. And every day women were out there going “hello” and in our minds, were going “man this bitch is just after my 10,000 dollars” Now, just because she’s after our 10,000 dollars, does that make you special? Cause she’s chasing your 10 G’s? And here’s the thing about my 10,000 dollars, I’m better than my 10,000 dollars. Bitches are not bigger than their pussy."
Guys are success objects. Girls are sex objects. And it takes a lot more to be a good success object than a good sex object.
"You’re gonna love him before he loves you, because he’s showing you the best of him. You’re not showing the best of you before he gets pussy. Before he gets pussy, it’s him auditioning for pussy, so you’re getting the best of a guy. You’re gonna love him first."
A girl has to like a guy before she sleeps with him. A guy chooses whether he actually likes a girl after he sleeps with her.
"Women are looking for a General they are comfortable fighting for. They’re looking for a guy they can believe in. Women really want to have no job, they want to support a man that they believe in."
The biggest prize for a woman is locking down the best man there is. No matter what Melinda Gates has accomplished or will accomplish in life, she will always be known for being the woman who locked down Bill Gates (whose been up to funny business in the last few years). Same thing for Jeff Bezos' wife. And Angelina Jolie for locking down Brad Pitt.
"Remember, a happy man is a happy everybody in his life."
Happy wife, happy life is a blue pill falsehood. Don't trust men who genuinely believe this. They'll backstab you if ordered to.
"Women have no skill to get what they want. You survey the land and go “he’s nice” and your skill is to stand there and go “I’ll get his attention so that he comes over with his skills.” Because you have no skills to get a man. Your skill is your beauty. You don’t know how to get a dude. You don’t choose a guy, a guy chooses you and you choose to go “yes”.
Men actively have to work on their seduction, have to make an active choice to get laid, have to make an active approach. Women don't. They just have to sit passively and let the offers come in. Men fuck, women get fucked. Men approach, women get approached. Men are active, women are passive. Even their respective gametes concur.