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This guy is classic blue piller.

I'm not gonna give you my life story with her, but lets just say the relationship isn't exactly fair.

That's a bad start...

She likes me to stop talking to a lot of girls, not keep in contact with my ex, etc, which I'm fine with, but she doesn't want to do the same. She wants to do what she wants to do, and if im going to stop her, shes going to resent me for it. As far as that goes, I honestly don't mind too much, but it's definitely created some problems.

Emphasis mine. Yeah, no shit. Allowing her to control you without even the idea of her reciprocating isn't a warning sign? It doesn't BOTHER YOU? How desperate are you for that pussy, man?

Anyways, getting into the main point, about 2 weeks ago, her ex boyfriend who was at the time in jail called her, saying he needed a place to stay for a night and that he had no where to go until he went to rehab for his drug use.

Incoming alpha, incoming alpha!

She had been with this guy for 2 years, had been really in love with him, thought she was going to marry him, and he broke her heart because he kept doing drugs and screwing up their lives and eventually stole from her just to continue to do drugs. They went on and off for a year or so, he went to jail, and then I came into her life.

Good lord, she's an alpha widow.

Our relationship has had it's ups and downs, but when we are together and not fighting or angry, we are very happy, and it's a great relationship.

In other words, when he lets her win the fight she rewards him with non-bitchiness and treat-sex, I imagine.

I treat her extremely well, she says to people I treat her like a queen, and that I must be truly in love with her, which I am.

Beta bluepiller flag...

She's an extremely great person when she's not upset, or at least I thought so until about 3 days ago.

Keep her happy, provider, and she'll keep the mask on...

So it hit the night that her ex (let's just call him N) got out of jail. She picked him up, brought him to her house, they talked for a while, and in the morning, dropped him off somewhere because he was supposed to have a place to stay. But he didn't, and N came back to her house to stay the night again. It's now Saturday, and he'll be staying the night tonight as well as tomorrow night too.

Dat alpha cock...

Thing is, if she really showed me she cared about me and wanted to be with me, then I wouldn't really have a problem with N staying over for that long. But when N came over, she cleaned up her room, cleaned up her bathroom, and worst of all, hid pictures of us from N, because she "didn't want to hurt him, and she would want him to do the same".

Wow. Not only does she disrespect the relationship by hiding fucking PICTURES of him, she shows her complete lack of respect for him by telling him about it with some bullshit excuse! I guess getting banged doggie style just the way you like it would suck if you are staring at your beta b/f's face on the night table.

On Thursday, she told me she thinks it'd be a good idea to give her a day or two to think about things, essentially taking a break.

(Translation: Ride the alpha cock a little bit longer guilt-free this time)

I really feel for this guy. I do. I was there (maybe not to this extreme, thankfully, but I put up with some stupid hypocritical shit in my time for what I learned later was mediocre sex).

It really goes to show that the bluepiller thoughts of "treating your girl like a Queen" and letting her get away with double-standards shit does NOT get you respect in return. But what are we taught all our lives? This very thing.

I guess he had it coming. We can all sit back and think about what we would do in that situation. The truth is if you keep your frame, it would never even come to this.