I am what most people would call a nice guy. I don't impose on women because I know a few women who have gone through some very very VERY bad stuff .

The thing is though , it appears when I get to a certain drunk I am very good with the ladies. I can chat them up and get phone numbers and get a lot more on a night out. The issue is, when sober I.e. Now, I not got a real clue how.

I think it could be that when I had a few my safety checks when talking to a women are gone. And I say what I want.

The question is , how do I get this attitude I have ( if that is what it is ) to my normal life ?