How To Pass A Girl’s Emasculation Test | ...She pulled a stunt as we passed a group of dudes that I’ll never forget... “Hey you’ll always be my best friend!!”

February 7, 2019

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Title How To Pass A Girl’s Emasculation Test | ...She pulled a stunt as we passed a group of dudes that I’ll never forget... “Hey you’ll always be my best friend!!”
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 173
Comments 42
Date February 7, 2019 3:27 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]Modredpillschool[S,M] [score hidden] stickied comment (5 children) | Copy Link

"It’s humiliating, and that’s the intent. She wants her available sexuality announced in the loudest, unequivocal terms, and if that means crushing the soul and manhood of her beta orbiter in front of a snickering audience of would-be suitors, she’ll do it, because one of her worst fears is to be mistaken for a girl who SETTLED for a beta male."

This one hits home. I can recall very specific events in my early twenties that make sense now:

"Spot on. Bump n grind is major beta chump bait. You should be pushing the girl off you after a short grind session, or don’t even bother with it at all."

My favorite response:

“Friends don’t give blowjobs like that!”

[–]Senior ContributorMentORPHEUS138 points139 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

she pulled a stunt as we passed a group of dudes that I’ll never forget.

“Hey you’ll always be my best friend!!”

I heard some snickering from the guys, and realized despite my attempts I was still a hard beta, hurt by a former relationship and struggling to find my way.

I flirted with her a few more weeks, and finally ended up ghosting her after giving it another shot.

Three weeks? That's probably how long the laugh track ran. Waaay to long to affect the woman, and more importantly, to preserve his dignity.

In the case of open public humiliation contrived to make others noticeably react, the best response is to immediately turn cold toward her and turn your attentions elsewhere.

“Hey you’ll always be my best friend!!”

What makes you think THAT? with a smirk. IMMEDIATELY go about your own business. I'd be walking toward my car. If she rode there with me, I'd tell her, "Go catch a ride with those guys."

This kind of thing is most likely to happen to young men who haven't yet built or internalized the Abundance Mentality. Take it from me: a prospect who says such an audacious thing NEVER ripens into a quality relationship! Cut your losses immediately and turn your attention where it will bring you returns. The only way to truely "pass an emasculation test" is to make it an abject fail for HER.

The funny thing is, when you're all 10-20 years older, some women will still attempt things like this as if they're still pre-wall. When you stand your ground, they're likely to turn into female orbiters of you!

[–]BazingaBen20 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This input is worthy of a bookmark.

[–]adonis_syche10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'd bookmark it with my dick so that it hurts when I close the book, because it is meant to stay forever open. Cheers.

[–]Flying_Wingback5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, I wouldn’t even acknowledge the other guys. If there’s doubt, there’s no doubt. Minimal effort and time spent with her after that point before ghosting

[–]AllThatJack0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This and take a moment to analyze why you were here in the first place. If you wasn’t banging her, you simply shouldn’t have been there. I’ve seen it, lived it, it’s a hard cold lesson that should let you know “waiting” in any way is a bullshit proposition.

[–]jodo29900 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

u/MentORPHEUS , what do you mean by stand your ground. How would you do that in the mentioned event?

[–]Senior ContributorMentORPHEUS0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean when the same woman ages up and her options diminish, she'll still throw out rapport-breaking lines like this, but unlike with a young woman, they become passable shit tests. Pass them (stand your ground rather than just leave an unviable prospect) and the same woman you would have orbited in vain at 20 will orbit YOU at 35+ after such an event.

[–]WuTangAyri1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Saying "Go catch a ride with those guys" is pretty beta

[–]Senior ContributorMentORPHEUS3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

More or less so than flirting with her for a few more weeks?

She made an audacious move with her comment; the best response comes commensurate with this. Let her watch your disappearing back while knowing the reason why.

According to the principles of operant conditioning, feedback must come immediately and decisively to make the subject actually learn anything.

[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime85 points86 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

A reminder that beta's are invisible to women. She does not care about you or your feelings she only cares about how you make her feel and she'll humiliate you without a second thought if you're inhibiting her search for Alpha cock.

Carefully consider how much you invest in a women, if she's not directly rewarding you for your input, rest assured, at some point or another she'll punish you for it.

[–]latinasonly17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

not only are betas invisble to women ... there genrally less visible to people in GENERAL. one of my buddies brothers , ,,, guy is loaded AF ,,. but soft as a bunny ,,,. has trouble keeping peoples attention . i personally get bored hanging w/ betas

being BETA is being small in the animal hierarchy, even if you have money you can be a small animal.

[–]jonpe8738 points39 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

what matters is not the answer, is the attitude

you can say: "Sure..." if it has a sense of aloofness and a kind of disinterested attitude... the mind state of outcome independence and abundance.

1,000,000 of girls turn 18 everyday, why would you be so worried about a particular girl

[–]adonis_syche11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


Your words have way lesser impact than your style of delivery. Just a "sure" is enough in most cases, if you say it right with that Jordan shrug.
"Imma shrug that pussy off ma shoulda...Imma shrug yo titties off my dick"

[–]Andgelyo33 points34 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Y’all are thinking too much into this shit, if a girl ever said that me, I would just laugh it off, drop her off to the group of men to get railed, ghost and say “good riddance”.

Also, Filipino girls are one of the most grimiest whores ever. If you’re white you are automatically Chad to them, until they find a better one (hypergamous Asians are the worst).

Source: American born filipino

[–]WuTangAyri3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeh I once fingerbanged a filo chick on a McDonalds rooftop while her mum was on shift managing. Nasty bitch

[–]Andgelyo5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah asian girls in general are easy pickings, careful with them though, they’ll branch swing faster than a native islander looking for food in garbage cans once they find a taller, richer, man.

[–]WuTangAyri3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My girl is half islander and half chinese lol but she fucks like a wild animal so I keep sticking my dick in crazy

[–]boy_named_su25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a ghosting right there

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

*** Spot on. Bump n grind is major beta chump bait. You should be pushing the girl off you after a short grind session, or don’t even bother with it at all.

I would say that a confident man would escalate past grinding pretty quickly.

Grab her hand, spin her around, pull her close, bite her neck, feel her body...

She’s there to serve you, this is her qualifying to you.

If she’s not interested in escalating then sure... keep the grind short and moveelsewwhere

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire223 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Eh, it's not about witty verbal replies and saving your ego, it's about the significance of what she says, how it shows her hand as to how she perceives you as a prospect or non-prospect, and how you act in response.

People often talk about IOIs on here, but what about when a woman tips her hand that she views you as an exploitable beta chump?

What an alpha do?

Whatever the fuck he wants.

Keep her in the friendzone? Try to fuck her a few more times? Ghost her? Whatever.

What he wouldn't do is harbor the illusion that she views him as sufficiently sexually desirable.

Who cares what a bunch of random guys think? Who cares about the "humiliation?"

The girl basically DQ'd herself as a prospect to the guy. So now he knows not to pay any more attention to her unless he wants to use her as social proof.

[–]NabroleonBonaparte3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


Gotta view yourself as the prize and that she’s demonstrating if she’s worthy of joining your adventure

[–]dingleburry_joe2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You are a fire Marshall shut that shit down

[–]ShadyMahFuggah2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Friends? Most of my friends don't have my dick on their breath."

[–]WuTangAyri2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If shes saying "Hey you'll always be my best friend" in front of a group of guys... YOU are the one who fucked up.

Do not be the kind of guy that this would happen to. Be desirable.

[–]Gaboyski_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't let anyone treat you like shit especially publicly, men and women alike. Have some fucking self-respect.

[–]old_ex_commie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ahh. Thank you. I had a grinder show up at my campground last summer that I'm sure to see again this year.

Now I know what to do.

[–]latinasonly-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha thats funny as shit ...i like this girl already .. easiest way to respond to "playful insulting" sh*t tests is playful aggression .... if you are already out on a date or whatever....say "idk about that ... and playfully move in for the kiss....

if she says your gay - playful pretend your gonna beat her ass (with physicality ) - keep pretending your gonna hurt her until "she taps out" ....(says ok ok ... or stop) . its all playful and you don't actually hurt her or make her feel bad. you can beat ANY verbal shit talk games with playful (not offended) phsycality... if you are physically stronger. so with women you always win ;)

if she says why you touching me ... tell her why you talkin smack .... its considered socially acceptable to properly calibratedly escalate aggressivly when someone insults you

and of course calibrate for how well you know a girl or person.

use playful agression with men also (make sure the vibe is positive and playful ,or you gonna get into a fight). if you do this when you hang with your boys it comes natural with women

whenever people joke around aggresievly , there is an underlying dominance game , win whenever possible/appropriatly

but seriously guys .... if you are offended by this type of " emasculation attempt"- the girl was just playing around , yes she made a belittling atttempt, but with positive emotions - you have issues. a lot of times "harded girls" like to play around just like "harder guys"

the girl is not emasculating you ... YOU are EMASCULATING YOURSELF by taking a fucking joke as cutting your balls off

[–]noct3rn4l2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with the essence of u/latinasonly ‘s post that the girl was probably just engaging in playful teasing and that you didnt handle it correctly. Some girls just have that idgaf type attitude and talk shit for fun, well cuz its fun, so she was seeing if u could handle it and you failed. Of course neither of us were there and date context matters so it could go either way. I’ll tell you what though, I definitely wouldnt follow that “go in for the kiss” advice (the playful aggressiveness is ok tho, just not the kiss). In that hypothetical, regardless of her seriousness, all she’d have to do is refuse the kiss and you lose the social and kiss game. Or force it and look like the try hard best friend she’s ribbing you for being. Nah bro, don’t even risk it. Id go with flip and amplify the ridiculousness in a low effort kinda way. Like in an aloofly playful way be like “biiiitch we aint friends i just cum on your face from time to time.” Then she’d clap back with something like “tehe youve done no such thing.” Then id clapback with “girl i done came on your face an hour ago and will again in another hour” then id look to the dudes and be like “any of you want in on this? We’re running a bukakke train by the tree in 10 mins.” And i’d say that regardless of the scenario because you’re either 1- saving ur social dignity at her expense (which she just tried to do to you) or 2- you save your social dignity and you’re still in the game cuz u passed the shit test. Point being there’s always gonna be dates where a girls behavior throws you, get into a habit of responding in a way that is good for you regardless of outcome.

[–]NabroleonBonaparte1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


Too much reacting to what the chick is doing.

There’s also a proper way of joking. Making banter between you two is fine, talking shit about you to an audience is a no go. Especially if the shit talk boosts herself at your expense.

It starts off as a joke now but down the line you’ll have her around friends and colleagues and she’ll begin saying grimy shit about you and you won’t know how things got to that point. Makes sense how people post about their friends on TRP and how after dating a chick became beta.

I only want girls around that can boost me and my empire. If she can’t make the cut, she’s off the roster

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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