The difference between those who succeed and those who don’t is how they deal with failure.

Everyone has setbacks. But you choose how to interpret those setbacks.

When you binge eat after following a diet for 75 days, you can say,

“The diet was too tough, I can’t do it.”

Or you can say,

“I’m going to start again and follow the diet until I lose 20 pounds. After that I’ll decide whether to make adjustments.”

I change my plans after I reach my goals, not when I face a setback.

Of course, this applies to pickup just like anything else.

Most guys give up when they have a few tough rejections and say, “I don’t think I can do this. I’m not good looking enough.”

Instead, I would tell myself, “I’m going out five times per week until I’ve approached 500 women. After I hit that goal, then I can change my plan based on what happened."

See the difference?

People usually change their goals based on emotions. We all have tough days, it’s easy to give up when we’re feeling overwhelmed.

Instead, make a line in the sand that says you won’t quit until you achieve something difficult—you lose 25 pounds, go on 20 dates, make $1000 with your online business.

Then, once you hit that goal you can change course.

But don’t give yourself an alternative.

You’ll find that once you hit that challenging goal, you’ll want to keep going because you’ve had so many wins along the way.

I strongly recommend that after reading this, you make a commitment to yourself about pickup.

Tell yourself, “I’m going to go out x amount of times per week until I achieve y.” And if I fail, I will start from the beginning.

You can keep it simple, “I’ll go out every day for at least 15 minutes until I’ve gone out 30 days in a row.”

Or it could be, “I’ll go out 5 times per week until I get 10 dates with women.”

Then, if on one week you don’t go out 5 times, you start over from the beginning.

And there’s no alternative. If you fail, you start over.

Until eventually, you succeed.

Then, once you’ve achieved your goal, you are allowed to make adjustments.

This is the method that allowed me to create an online business that makes me over 15k a month while only working an average of 10 hours per week.

Apply it to pickup. Apply it to your other goals.

All I ask is you send me your success story via DM when you have one.