Ever heard this before? I'm sure you all have. I just met a hot Korean-American self-admitted "feminist" last night off Tinder who told me this without any provocation when we met.

Yes, it's almost always offered without any provocation or questioning. Why? because women display it as a "badge of honor" in order to signify their status as special unicorns. Their hamster logic tells them that they are somehow better or less melodramatic than "other girls" simply because some guys allow them in their group.

Let's explore this further:

Are these girls really accepted by the male group as one of their own? No. They are simply tolerated since having a vagina nearby is better than having no vagina nearby. Further, most of the male group usually wants to fuck her.

In support of this, I don't know how many times I've taken home girls and their "best best best friends" (which turns out to be 3 guys they've known for 3 months) call them 10x until 9 am when she wakes up to make sure "they got home safe!" (translation: they be mad jealous).

What's the real reason they like guy friends? If you ask them, their answer is usually something like "omgz, girls are just so gossipy and bitchy! I'm so not like that!" In reality, they are exactly like that but find that beta male groups more easily tolerate their bullshit, which they couldn't otherwise get away with in the presence of highly competitive girls who aren't pussy-starved.

As we are RPers, we know that the majority of men are either oblivious to the shit women pull OR are too scared/pussy-starved to do anything about it. So in these women's minds, why dress up or be feminine to get male attention when lounging around in sweat pants for movie night (only cuddling, no touching!) gets you the same thing?

But most of all: Solipsism

  • Fact: women crave validation from men. So when they see men gaining respect/friendship from their fellow male peers by acting a certain way, they childishly interpret this as the best way to gain attraction from men. How many times have you heard a girl surrounded by guy friends brag about how "independent and sarcastic" she is...as if that's a good thing? These women are unable to realize that what works for men in male social situations does NOT work for women.

  • They incorrectly believe that just because guys value certain things in male friendship, that they must also value those same qualities in female lovers. If this were the case, then every guy would be gay because we would all be attracted to our masculine guy friends. Obviously not the case.

  • They've been indoctrinated by feminists to believe that all gender-interactions are "battles" in which men must be dominated or challenged. If not, then she is not a "real woman" and is weak. Thus, "hanging out with mostly boys" is a way for women to label themselves. Achievement unlocked: man's world. It's a matter of having the wrong goals; ugly feminists know that they will never get sexual attention from men, so they don't want anyone to have it.

  • They see men getting praise/promotions/validation for being masculine, so they emulate that in hopes of receiving the same positive validation. Unfortunately, they often do receive this from beta male groups. This is another part of the problem:

    Beta males will compromise for pussy. Some may actually recognize the entitled, loud, sarcastic nature of their "female friend" but be unwilling to call her out or stand up for themselves simply because they have no other pussy options. They are beholden to pussy. This is why abundance mentality is so important. It allows you be true to yourself and your own interests, and not women's.

Outcome: I ended up making out with and then getting a BJ (was on her period) from her by gritting my teeth (alot), sidestepping her inciteful comments, calling her out for being a buzzkill, and maintaining a RP frame. Previously, I would have lost frame and gotten into some argument with her, resulting in a lost cause.

It just goes to prove that the "me be strong, me be independent!" attitude is just a massive shit test. Women don't want to be that. They simply maintain that attitude out of necessity until the right guy comes along who will let them be little girls again.