Alright, well; basically...
You should try to separate “cheating” from being something they do consciously....
The nicest girl you’ve ever met, even if she loves you will be prone to it if she doesn’t look UP to you (like a leader).
Women are hypergamous by nature so... if, let’s say you meet your gf at a phase in your life when you’re working heavily on yourself and she isn’t; she will be very attracted to you...
But then if she starts working on herself to follow your lead while YOU decide to stop, she will start losing attraction to you; and may find it elsewhere (if she does find it, she will not want to have sex with you anymore; she may still do but not be into it at all)
Every single one of them feel like that, some are better at retaining their urges at cheating than others but they all feel that way if confronted to the situation; even they don’t know why they feel like this (until they learn about hypergamy)
At first when I learned about this I thought it was BS, then looking around me provided all the proofs I needed. I got in denial for a bit (anger towards our specie/the world) then after accepting that it is only our natural instincts kicking in, I could finally embrace that instead
If you get to truly understand and accept it, you hold a huge advantage
I would rather have my chick tell her friends:
“my bf works all the time on his business and himself, he gives me no time; I miss him so much”
than
“he’s always there, doing my every little thing I ask of him... I don’t know why but he makes me soooo angry; aaaarrrgggghhh!”
That’s why TRP dictates that we should work so hard on becoming better men, the best way to reduce the chances of being cheated on is by making them feel intimidated by our financial/educational/behavioral/physical success so much that it gets to a point where it isn’t even something they’re thinking about
Don’t be ashamed if you’re not there yet though, it’s a long journey.
As long as you keep going forward, great things will happen
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