tl;dr decided to be a man and just go with it, awesome decision and very satisfying
Summary
I know this may not seem like a big deal but i had to share, maybe it will help the other new guys in some way. i've been reading a lot of theory for a few months and i saw someone mention something about " mental masturbation " a while back, reading thinking you're improving but you're just procrastinating taking action, and i knew this had to change if i want to improve. so i literally told myself yesterday a few times fuck it, i'm a better man now, what do women have on me? i lift, i read, i eat healthy and i'm working at a decent paying job, so i did it! fuck approach anxiety i just started cold approaching like 4 girls in total, ofcourse i got rejected by all my game is awful, but it felt so GOOD! i literally got a high off of being rejected and after my 2nd rejection i literally didn't give a shit anymore! i was actually having a little fun with it, stay tune guys will be reporting positive news next time, but i just felt that this was somewhat of an accomplishment for me, after being in a 2 year relationship and not speaking to any other female.
Lession Learned:
Sometimes you just have to stop thinking and just do, i find when you think about taking action you will overthink the situation ( what if they don't like me, etc ) also taking action with an IDGAF what happens mindset pays off greatful, i don't know if this help encourage anyone or not but just thought i would share, cheers.
[–]BowlOfCandy22 points23 points24 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Melvin_butters19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Fuggernugger2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Temptationn7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Dustin_Bromain9 points10 points11 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 7 points7 points7 points | Copy Link
[–]Profdiddy 11 points11 points11 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]1egoisenemy10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SuaveSilverSurfer0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]J_AsapGem[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RPmatrix1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]All-DayErrDay1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Evileddie130 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Complecs0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]pilledwillingly0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]slay_it_forward5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1nzgs-2 points-1 points0 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]LabyrinthineDreamer4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior ContributorNightwingTRP1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1nzgs0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior ContributorNightwingTRP1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]1nzgs0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Senior ContributorNightwingTRP-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1whatsazipper0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]1nzgs0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]thop89[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LabyrinthineDreamer-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link