Red Pill Brothers,

*This post is meant to serve as a guide to changing your inner game, investing less and getting the results you want without wasting your time.

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There is an epidemic of guys wasting their time and being overly invested into the women they deal with. This is a mainstream reality that has spilled over into TRP as well. "I hit this chick up twice and she flaked. How should I text her from here?", "Best way to deal with LMR..."(a recent thought of mine), "LTR wants to go on a girl's night out. How to handle?", "Why are these chicks so hot and cold?" etc etc.

STOP. DEALING. WITH. THE. BULLSHIT!

All of these problems stem from a lack of inner game or at the very least, weak inner game. Tolerance based in scarcity, a lack of self respect and not possessing a prize mentality and most importantly actually being the prize is the problem at hand.

Do you think these women really sit there thinking about the situation as much as you do? Are they getting all up in their feelings and getting frustrated when some guy won't reply to them 4hrs after they sent a text? Of course they aren't. Women dont put nearly as much effort and thought into the interaction like most guys do. They are in a perpetual state of abundance due to social media, dating sites, swipe apps, and thirsty, desperate guys at work and offering to "buy them a drink". This gives them dozens of options on a daily and weekly basis. The abundance they have is something rarely talked about on here. They aren't investing into the situation anywhere near the extent and thought level you are. Most of the time, they simply arent interested that much and they dont care. And when you do get those high interest chicks, you'll know- the signs will be as clear as day. Shit will flow and it will be easy. You won't ask questions like I mentioned above, let alone even thinking like that. But high interest chicks arent the point of this post...

The inequity of investment due to your mindset is. First off, your purpose should be your priority and women should NEVER be #1. Also, you should be lifting and/or training in martial arts as well as eating properly. We hear this all the time, but you actually need to be on your purpose working towards your goals by taking action and improving your mind and physique. When you do run your game, you need to get to the point quickly. You cannot negotiate desire and attraction. You need to start flipping the game on women by filtering them through your system. Are they attractive enough? Do they seem cool enough to fuck with you? Do they follow your lead? Do they have a good demeanor? Are they sweet? These are the questions you need to ask yourself. Come up with your own list of what you like in a woman and see if she fits into that mold. You are screening them and this is what keeps your investment lower. You are the prize and its tougher to invest more when youre the prize. After all, you are on your purpose, lifting and improving yourself each day. This should lay a more grounded foundation for your inner game and you have the substance with your mission/purpose and constant development of self(reading, traveling, taking action, expanding your social skills, learning through experience, learning the game, trying new hobbies and activities, etc etc).

The next step is cooperation. You want to move your process quickly to your end goal of being sexual and enjoying your time together. You should be polarizing, isolating and escalating. Each step of the way is gauging her reaction to your action and seeing if she is following your lead. Does she show interest in return to your approach? Is her vibe/energy something worth dealing with? This is the initial stage. As you get into the approach a bit and you throw in some light kino, is she receptive? If you decide to pull her to another part of the bar/club/courtyard/location, does she follow your lead? For night gamers, is she keen on getting something popping off that night? Does she cooperate with your advances as things continue to go smoothly? Once you have her info, does she follow your lead for setting a date and is she good company? Does she come home with you? Does she make time to see you when you invite her over? Does she continue to follow your lead and act respectful? The key here is continued cooperation. Each progression must be met with this or you won't get what you want and in the latter, you must quickly move on to the next. If you've been honing your game through reading and most of all, experience and your system is working- good.

But RPB, what do I do when she doesnt cooperate and she isnt investing into what I want? What if she is being difficult when Im trying to set up logistics/fuck? You next her and move on. You have better things to do than waste time trying to change her mind(a futile attempt anyway as you can't negotiate desire). And for the women youre already dealing with, stop tolerating them acting up. For minor offenses, its withdrawal time and attention and for larger offenses, its NEXT!

Keep this is mind: the degree in which you sacrificed your terms is proportionate to how devastated you are when the situations ends.

When you invest less by screening them, being the prize and quickly discarding those who dont cooperate with your program, you will save yourself wasted time and emotion.

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STOP. DEALING. WITH. THE. BULLSHIT.

Be the prize and keep the investment low.

Until next time,

RPB