Short post but I realized something yesterday when getting my hair cut. It's all a mindset.

I noticed an HB10 working at the salon I go to when getting my hair cut. I had never in my life just approached a 10 or any girl (before the last 2 months) and just started talking. She came to the counter when I was paying for my cut and just started talking to her. Knew my time was limited to a minute or two max before it got awkward so I just asked if I had to book an appointment to talk to her or if she just wanted to give me her number and we could do that later (game is still shit I know but that's not the point if this post). She said I could add her on Facebook and I told her I don't do that. It's either number or you tell me no. That simple. She turned me down of course but I walked out of there and my friend was jaw dropped. He said he would never have the balls to talk to her and I just laughed.

What I realized is that I didn't care anymore. I didn't care about rejection, I didn't care what she or anyone else thought of me, and I realized that it really is all in my head. It only took me 3 months for this to click but it can take some guys way longer. Monk mode and reading helped me realize this more than anything else. READ THE SIDEBAR, LIFT, AND MONK MODE.

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