I'm not gonna be too long but I'm gonna restate something that some vets on here have already screamed: WHEN YOU SWALLOW THIS AND BEGIN TO CHANGE, YOUR "BOYS" WILL SWITCH UP.

It's not for debate or even "well not all people," yes all people. Obviously on this journey, ive begun to see things differently and build myself up to be the best version of myself and this has rubbed some "boys" of mine the wrong way. I have a particular sense of humor and the way I go about things. I guess I'm an intense person but for the most part I focus on myself and my goals. Well some of my "boys" have gone all SJW on me when I make certain jokes or when I say certain things. They get annoyed when I choose to no longer go to the bars when I have training the next morning.

I'm in "win now" mode and some of my "boys" are content with nights of video games and wasting money on overpriced alcohol and having nothing to show for it. That's not me anymore. I'm over it. I dont mind having a good time, but it's either now or never for me. The resentment against me has begun, of maybe it was always in play.

I'd be interested to see how some RP guys have dealt with starting over from scratch in terms of guys you hang with.