Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2

NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.

When guys who have been sexually / emotionally deprived all their life start committing to self improvement and actually see some results with women, they fuck it up by talking too much. They get laid and blab all about it.

A potential new plate asks them questions like "How many girls are you sleeping with?" or "When was the last time you had sex?" and these newly Matrix-escapees do the worst thing you could possibly do when a woman asks you a question: Answer seriously.

You think telling this woman that you had sex yesterday or that you have a high number count is going to impress her, and actually.... it kind of does. She calls you a player, a fuckboy (which by the way is a fantastic compliment).

But then she doesn't sleep with you.

Why?

By revealing any detail, no matter how small, about your sexual experiences, you have shown to this woman that you talk, and that you will talk about her.

She may seem impressed and call you a fuckboy, but now her anti-slut defence has kicked in massively. Her desire for casual sex now has a potential to be leaked to the public because you have just shown her that you will likely speak about your sexual experiences with her to another person.

Never. Ever. Talk about your sex life. Even to most male friends. Nothing good comes out of it.