Over the past few years, I've noticed a recognizable uptick in the amount of comments that indicate one of two things, usually both:

  1. There is no such thing as 'game'

  2. And if there was, your appearance would be the major, if not sole defining factor in 'game'

My first compulsion when I read this nonsense is getting frustrated, then wondering why I am mad about some dumb shit on the internet, then forgetting about it. But that nonsense sticks in the back of my mind. It sticks because I know for a fact that inceldom/general social ineptitude is at an all time high, coronavirus certainly doesn't help either.

The sentiment expressed in point 1 isn't entirely untrue. 'Game' as it was popularized in the early 00's is actually fake news. There are no magic words or actions you can do to make someone fall in love with you. You can't hypnotize someone into sleeping with you, nor would you want to because that would probably be rape. But the truth is always more complex than the get-rich-quick goldmine that was early 2000's pickup DVD sets.

This might seem basic, but one of the fundamental questions that this subreddit was originally set out to answer is this:

"What do women want?"

If you are an incel like the above example person, you might say that women want the most attractive male possible to satisfy some evolutionary need. If you are a moron who doesn't think about things with any depth, you might not have an answer. If you are like most people, you will say that women want a man with vast resources.

The truth is very simple, and it is two fold

  1. Women want whatever you want.

If you feel good in your own skin, if you feel good as a man and as a human being. If you feel like you have a purpose and you are on your own path, then your behaviour will say as much to the person you are talking to.

  1. Women operate like this, you ask them a question like "can I get your number?" Or "do you want to hangout sometime?" They then go into their body, ask themselves how they feel, and if they feel good they say yes, and if they feel bad they say no.

The combination of these two masculine and feminine mindsets create chemistry.

That's it. That's the whole thing. That is literally how people work in most situations. I'm an average guy in every respect, and have pulled from cold approach plenty of times and had relationships with women way out of my league, because I held the above concepts in my mind. I have taken girls from guys that are much taller than me and better looking than me, and have successfully mentored young men that are more attractive than me, and watched them pull/get into relationships based on my advice.

So before you continue to write off every single post on this subreddit with a comment such as the ones I reference towards the beginning of this post, ask yourself this:

Do you feel good in your own skin? Do you feel like you are a human being with value, and that you are own your path that you have set for yourself? If you answered 'no' to any of those questions, your issue with women might have less to do with your appearance, and more to do with your self defeating outlook on life.

Looks help, but they are not. an. excuse.

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If there is interest for more detailed explanation on the topics above, I will take time out of my day to prepare my fellow pussy slayers and pussy slayers to-be for the inevitable return to normality in nightlife.

Have a good day.