Every time I write a blog post, I like to post it in its entirety here, since this is where many of my fellow redpillers reside, and I enjoy the feedback. This blog post is "Holiday Field Reports".

http://deepthrill.blogspot.com/2014/01/holiday-field-reports.html

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I've had a fun and productive holiday. I recently found another bachelor and we moved in together. We got rid of all our previous belongings, and started fresh. We chose brand new paint, furniture, etc., and basically pimped out a really nice bachelor pad for a few thousand dollars.

I also started a new, high-status career, and have had some good sexual success, some of which I'll share here.

Faith

I was at a bar/club scene the other day on a Friday, and met a girl "Faith". It was towards the end of the night, but she seemed really interested, and I moved from upstairs to downstairs to bring her to a new environment. She seemed a bit fascinated with me, and I ended up making out with her while in the bar. Her friends were ready to drag her away since they were leaving but I said that she had to give me her number. She did and said she wanted a text right away.

I texted her when she left and we flirted for a bit that night over text. She ended up saying that my lack of modesty was unacceptable, but everything else about me was more than acceptable. She was immediately qualifying herself to me, saying she wasn't sure if I'd still be interested in her when I was sober. I said that I don't know but we'll have to find out.

The next day, I texted her in the afternoon and said I was still interested, but just a little bit. She said only a little bit? I said the first little bit is free, but she has to earn the rest. My old instincts kicked in when she didn't respond right away and I was about to send a followup text (in the past I would have sent a text saying "jk, you've earned it :)" or something lame like that), but I waited. She texted me back a few hours later saying that I'd have to earn her interest but it wouldn't be very hard. Her shit test was the fact that she waited to respond to find out if I'd maintain my frame.

I told her that we are going to hang out the following night and we'll both have to see who earns whose interest. She said obviously we are going to hang out the next night.

So Sunday rolls around and we meet up for dinner and drinks (I paid for dinner, she paid for drinks), and after some minor LMR we ended up back at my new place and had an exciting night having sex a few times.

She's texted me since then (she's always been initiating) and I'll probably ask her to meet up this weekend.

One thing she noted is that she was on the fence whether she wanted to hang out with me because my texts could have been too "dick"ish but she wasn't sure if an asshole or not. She said that in person I was more playful than dickish and was glad she was on the border and went with it. It just goes to show that she did like a small lack of modesty despite what she said (but I bordered on arrogant), but also how difficult it is to portray tone over text. I've recently subscribed to the philosophy of only texting for very minor flirting but really to make plans. It has served me well.

Nancy

Nancy and her friend came over to check out our new bachelor pad and have some drinks at a small party we threw. I gave her some attention at the beginning, but only seriously towards the end of the night. She had to go back to her apartment but I told her to give me her number, which she did. I think she was surprised I asked for her number in front of everybody, and for some reason thought it was bold of me.

But I found out the next day that Nancy is a virgin, and she doesn't want to be anymore. I asked if she wanted to hang out a few times, and she always gave "maybe" or "probably" answers but would never get back to me. Note that if a girl says she'll get back to me, I don't send a followup text, but rather make other plans if it gets too late. No desperation will be had by me.

After the second time she gave me a text that said she'll probably be free but never got back to me, I simply forgot about her. After a few days she sent me a text apologizing for not getting back to me and saying that she wasn't ignoring me. Whatever; I sent her back a friendly text, but this time didn't ask her to hang out. She has to earn it and make an effort herself if she wants to see me now.

New Years Eve

I went to a few bars in the city for NYE and ended up at a private enclosed rooftop party of a promoter we know. At one of the bars I went up to a girl and said something simple like "Hey what's up?" or "Hey what's your name?" and she just looked at me, said "No." and walked away. Situations like that remind me that while I could learn more about improving my openers, coming up with something situational, sometimes a filter is fine and I don't want to waste my time with somebody like that. Yes, maybe that's me hamstering, but that's better than getting strung along only to get rejected later. Sometimes she just doesn't want to be hit on. I don't know.

At the last private party, I already had some preselection and social status from knowing the person who organized it. A girl approached my buddy and I, and we chatted for a bit. She seemed interested, and I went to the bar to get drinks and champagne for everybody. I admit that was a bit of the provider in me coming out after a few too many drinks, but the drinks were for the group and it was an open bar, so I had no problem with it especially since I wasn't paying. But by the time I got back to the group with everybody's drinks, she had left and gone to talk to another guy. She noticed I had drinks and champagne, but then turned back to her other guy. I suppose I portrayed too much of a provider demeanor even though no money was actually involved.

I made no effort to chase her. Rather, I started talking to other girls in the party, and ended up kiss-closing a few of them. The first girl noticed this, and started to become more interested, and dancing closer to me, but I essentially rejected her for the new girls, with no regrets. The night ended quite well, and I was pleased with my performance for the night (approaching and otherwise).

2014 and Onward

I've gotten reasonably good at getting girls' numbers and getting back to hook up. I still have some more work to do especially with coming up with better situational openers, but once we start talking, I can usually end up sleeping with them.

Some things I've learned this past year:

  • Text-flirting is really risky and text should be limited to making plans.

  • Meeting girls through friends is 1000x easier than cold-approaching. You already have social status, and you don't need any real openers since you are usually introduced.

  • Girls like guys with social status, either through knowing somebody at the venue, or from your career. You have to play to their fantasies (see 48 laws of power for more info on this). I feel like every girls' wet dream is to have an alpha who is also a provider (i.e. wealthy). So I need to not act like a provider, but rather make them infer that I have money, while also having the confident assertiveness of an alpha.

  • I have to add a little bit of modesty and make them "earn" learning things about me. They like a little bit of a chase too, and there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.

Moving forward, I want to focus more on my physical game. I want to become a sex god. I want to learn about tantra, kegels, use masturbation to improve ejaculatory control, learn how to make them squirt, etc. That's the next part of my game I am going to start delving into the underbelly of the internet to learn about.

Happy new years to everybody, and may 2014 hold many interesting and successful stories!