Of Human Bondage Part III: Slave Girls of the Red Pill.

“We treat women too well, and in this way have spoiled everything. We have done every wrong by raising them to our level. Truly the Oriental nations have more mind and sense than we in declaring the wife to be the actual property of the husband. In fact nature has made woman our slave. . . . Woman is given to man that she may bear children . . . consequently she is his property, just as a fruit tree is the property of the gardener. -Based Napoleon.

I have previously written about Submissive Women, as well as my predilection for Tying Up Young Ladies, how Slave Girls Are Fun, and More Fun With Submissive Girls.

“I know your secret” as mentioned in my previous top-level post on submissive women can lead not only to her admitting her submissive nature but also that she desires to be a slave girl. It is on that topic that we dwell, today.

Some Initial Points

This is the Deep End of the Pool. You are either able to handle responsibility responsibly, or you need to GTFO. Toward that end:

CONSENT, muthafuckas. It’s a real thing. And observing limits, which should be pre-negotiated during non-sexy times. Also YOU as the Master/Dom/Taller Person/Whatever, are responsible for the health and safety of your sub and/or slave girl during play time. Ease words and safe words. Set them, use them, and honor limits. And understand that your sub may not be in the proper “head space” to use an ease word or a safe word when she should. Also, drugs and booze do not mix well with BDSM. That’s how people get hurt, in ways they don’t want to. If your and her ideas don't line up with each other, then she's not for you nor you for her. We do not hurt other people in ways that they do not want and which are not enthusiastically welcomed. I am not a sadist and I do not enjoy “hurting girls”. I will do it, if a girl wants pain, although that’s not my kink, but more often than not they just want some fun and sexy spanking.

I personally believe BDSM should be a “loving” experience, involving trust and pleasure. It is too often presented as “humiliation”. I think that that is stupid (although fine for people who actually enjoy that particular kink).

Also, I should point out now, for all the folks hate-reading this, that all of my girls are eager volunteers. Nobody is being held against their will or is a victim of “human trafficking” or some other bullshit. They’re just kinky, and they like the feelings that I make them feel.

One final word for the haters:

“Let the women whine, it is their business.” - Also Based Napoleon, who clearly meant “blue pills”, “SIMPs”, “Nice Guys” and “White Knights” here.¹

Slave Girls of the Red Pill

So virtually all of the submissive girls I have had in my life have had a “slave girl” fantasy. Either they want to be a “Harem Slave” in the bedroom, where they serve their master’s sexual desires (and by extension their own), or in a more permanent arrangement. What kind of MONSTER would I be if I denied them this pleasure?²

Know your Quarry

As I have written before, there is an Approved Narrative that people feel they have to observe so they don’t get “canceled” or some shit. For some reason, the Normals have ceded control of the culture to the Crazy Leftoids and Feministas” who think they are entitled to control shit that other people do, when they are basically parasites. The upside of 3rd Wave³ Feminism’s insistence on the “tough girl trope", all the time, and otherwise sucking up all the oxygen in the room doesn’t leave much room for feminine women to express themselves and, well, here I am.

As my radar is finely tuned and I choose my audience correctly, once exposed to my Patriarchal views, girls will express agreement with what they know to be true but are afraid to say out loud, lest they get “Kafka-ed” for “Crimes Against Feminism”. I can sometimes hear actual relief in their voices. One of my girls said to me once, in a moment of post-coital bliss, “I am so glad you don’t believe in that ‘Equality’ bullshit. It’s not natural.” (I was actually a bit surprised that she would express it in this way, but sometimes shit actually has to happen. When people are fed a steady diet of crap, they tend to react.) Why? Unlike Manjaws, feminine women typically prefer benevolent sexism because they understand that submission to Masculine Men means protection when things go pear-shaped. In Masculine hierarchies, there’s space for everyone. In female/libtard hierarchies, you can get ostracized. That can be Deadly Serious for women, although that was more the case back in the Bad Old Days of the Saber Tooth Tiger.

The Human Brain is a Complex Thing

Very often, sub girls have had a "tormentor" in their lives, whether it is a parent, an elder sibling or a bully at school. Usually, in a few questions, I can pinpoint who that person was. In one case, as I knew the woman's family, I told her which of her sisters it was. In any case, the subs are often - and I would say that this is a high percentage of cases based solely on my own experience - "acting out a pantomime" in which they "please" their tormentor (with the Dominant standing in that person's place) by submitting.

So very often the Dominant is really a "healer" for the sub, which is the position in which I often find myself. This is why I say that BDSM can (and I feel should, although others are free to think differently) be a “loving” experience.

What’s going on in the Dom’s head during a scene and what is going on in the sub’s head can – and frequently are – very different things. But that’s fine, so long as everyone gets what they came for.

So I identify their psychological needs and then I put my foot on the gas.

Create a narrative.

I use words to create visual imagery. I have a couple of younger (20F, 21F) girls that I am going to collar later this year – the 21 y.o. had a birthday last month and I was going to collar her on her birthday, but: COVID19.⁴

In any case, for both of them, I laid out imagery. I live in the countryside and I have a pool and a rather nice garden in my backyard. It is very private in the summer - no neighbor can see in and I would hear anyone approaching long before they got to the back gate anyway. So I told them that they'd be running around my house and backyard, nude except for slave collars and sometimes ankle bells. They sound nice and every step reminds them that they are slave girls. I would have them sunbathe nude - I would oil them up myself - and swim in the pool and generally frolic, eat fresh fruit, grilled meat (from my fingers), drink wine, and fuck a lot. Cool evenings? There’s a fire pit outside and a fireplace inside. Open flame appeals to the atavism in them. They each ate it up and asked for seconds. Sometimes, the Hamster is your friend.

Keep Her World Small.

Really, it's fun watching them fall under my control. Or as I will say to them, keeping with my mildly subversive and, for slave girls, slightly condescending vibe, "Don't worry, I know what's best for you." Slavs also have a concept of ”A girl behind a stone wall.” So I work that in with some tweaks, particularly when “Creating a Narrative.”

When a girl is with me and in my collar, I’m running the show, which usually means alone time – while I am highly extroverted, many/most of my girls are introverts, who, given the choice, would rather be alone with me, under my control. This is also useful in that slave girls are not likely to wander off to some music festival with their ho’ friends who want to meddle in your business, which is basically the female national sport, in whatever country you are in.

The more authentically we represent our masculinity, the more naturally they can allow their femininity to feel safe. Keeping their world small means they are safe and protected. The most pleasing thing in their life is to please you, when you have created the right environment. (Hat Tip: /u/theunconquored )

Keeping her world small and safe has the added benefit of keeping her away from outside stimuli, crowds, too much social interaction, etc., which can be stressful for introverts. Keep her away from stress and she will blossom right in front of you.

After all, Little Spoons Don’t Ask Questions.

Pro Tip: One thing I like to do with slave girls and submissive girls in general, is at some point during a fuck session, during a “line change”, take her by the ankle and drag her across the bed to a new position. Just try it. You will be happy with the results.

The Natural Order of Things

Submissive girls like calmness and order, knowing who the Boss is and that good decisions will be made, and they will be taken care of – pretty feminine women actually prefer benevolently sexist men because they think exactly that, they will be taken care of in a social order run by such men. Now, obviously, I don't care what other people do or how they order their lives, but the women in my life are there to look pretty, provide me with a nurturing environment, good company and of course sex – plus do some light housework and cooking. They often have other talents – my roster has two accomplished musicians, a former professional dancer and another is a chef. And there is no question who the boss is. And really, things work better when I run them. That means I have responsibility, also, but I'm a Man; it’s normal for me.

For whatever reason, many of my subs have been first-borns or onlies, and introverts. Those things, particularly in combination, tend to result in personalities that (a) like clear rules and (b) like following those rules.

I realize that my life is non-standard – if you had told me it was going to be like this when I was 21 I'd have told you to cut me in on whatever drugs you were on, and yet...here I am. I can't say it's not awesome. Properly executed there’s no reason a man with similar desires and his wits about him cannot do what I do.

Measure your neck.

When I am ready to collar a girl, I tell her “Measure your neck for me”. It’s a direct and bold move. And their faces light right up. Why? Because slave girls LOVE, LOVE, LOVE their collars. Love them. Why so? Because a slave girl’s collar is a tangible symbol of her sexual value and desirability to men. It means she is pretty enough, sexy enough, for a man to want to CLAIM her, and OWN her. See that feminist fattie over there? No collar. What man could want her? Slave girl? Collared, because men want her. That’s what slave girls think about. And really, they’re right.

As I understand it, for some folks in the BDSM community, collaring a girl is a bit like a fraternity guy “pinning” his girlfriend. They are “engaged to be engaged”. Maybe it’s true, maybe it’s not. For me, it is a tangible symbol of my “ownership” of a girl and her (willingly given) submission to me, and I may have more than one collar girl at a time. Maybe that makes me “DGTOW” (Doms Going Their Own Way).⁵

There are also “Day Collars” and “Play Collars”. If for some reasons a girl needs to remove her day collar (e.g. work, airport metal detector), she will ask my permission first. A text will appear on my phone and I will grant permission. When one of my girls is with me, she will have a collar on her neck. At my hacienda, it will be a “play collar”, which looks exactly like what it is. I prefer a model like that one with an O-ring in front and D-rings on the sides for multiple options. If we are out and about, she will be wearing a discreet (or semi-discreet) “day collar” as a symbol of my ownership of her. So if you see an attractive woman wearing something like this, she might just belong to your Uncle Vaz.

Takeaways

-Slave girls are fun.

-CONSENT! Discuss/Agree on limits and honor limits and safe/ease words.

-Create a narrative. What’s going on in the sub’s mind during the scene and your mind may well be two different things, but a narrative helps blend the overall theme.

-Keep her world small. Calm and Order are your friends. The rewards will be great.

¹ Per usual, the haters can lick the sweat off of my taint.

² Heh.

³ Or 4th wave, or whatever, but really who gives a shit?

⁴ Fuck you, China. You are getting in the way of my groove.

⁵ I’m not much of a joiner. People in groups always want to have some bullshit hierarchy, and I’m more of a “Sigma”. I just find that shit so tiring.