I discovered this reddit a few months ago. I've known a lot what has been discussed on here for years. I've played many roles, and have seen these issues from many angles. However, what I've lacked are other like-minded people to discuss them with.

One of the things that resonated with me was the dreaded alpha fucks / beta bucks dichotomy. It sounded eerily familiar. Then, by chance, I went back to the website where I first heard about it.

It's run by women. It's called "Heartless Bitches."

I can't find the exact link, but there was a post on there where a woman revels at the prospect of fucking borderline criminal biker types, then having some beta office drone help her raise the resulting alpha-spawn.

Over the years, I've had many experiences, of which I will share at a later date.

Here's the link on "nice guys":

http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml

I bet their website is quite a gold mine of opposition research.