Tl;Dr:

Pick that bitch apart.

Body:

I’m notorious for checking woman out, so bad that one of my main plates use to complain to me; You check out ever woman that walks into this bar. I know which ones you find attractive because you….. She swears I use to whisper yes under my breath. Only woman to ever say that too me, not the only woman who has mentioned my wandering eyes. There’s nothing wrong with it. I know what I like, not scared to take a good hard look at it. That being said, I’ve made it a habit to end my staring with a negative.

Ohhh she’s got a banging body. To bad that bitch doesn’t know how to dress.

Wow that’s a gorgeous outfit. If only she’d look that good naked.

Yeah she’s cute…..even in that goofy outfit.

Gosh she’d look so mush better with long hair.

Sexy. She looks miserable.

When I started doing this, I don’t actually know but I’ll tell you what it helped with. Gorgeous, beautiful woman use to scare me. I’m talking 22 plus (out of thirty) because those were the woman I wanted to date. Pulling pussy was easy, especially if she was sub 18. I got nervous cause I knew ever guy was drooling over her. Plenty of times I’ve passed on high end pussy that was interested in me because their beauty intimidated me. It was easier/safer to go home with the girl who inherently knew she was beneath me. When I see these girls now, I acknowledge their beauty before ripping it apart. It helps to bring these woman within my reach mentally. If you stair at anything long enough, you can find fault, even in that double dime piece.

Now perhaps I picked it up from Patrice O’Neal because he recommends taking this a step further; audibly tell her she’s cute but damn does she have big noose. Tell her you know she ain’t got a man because there’s no way you’d let your bitch go out with that stupid hairdo. He urges you to remind woman they’re just goofy bitches. At the very least I encourage you to remind yourself that every single one of these woman ain’t shit. Find something about her and pick at it, even if it isn’t that big of deal. Especially if it’s in your head, knock her off that pedestal.

*In conclusion:

If her beauty has you intimidated and forgetting you are the prize, find something, anything about that woman that isn’t on point and focus on that instead of g, g, g...gorgeous she is. What Patrice recommends is dread game to bring her down to his level, what I’m recommending is negging that woman internally to remind yourself bitches ain’t shit.