If you're anything like me, sometimes the way women think and feel seems like the polar opposite of my reaction in the same situation. Red Pill-aware men are armed, however, with tomes of information about female attitudes and behavior.
I'd like to share three examples of preselection that I've found suprising:
1.) The most recent occurrence was on Valentine's day. My then-girlfriend and I met a beautiful blonde girl at my friend's house on the way to dinner. I'd recently picked out a sexy, purple, Marilyn Monroe-style dress for my girlfriend and wanted to show it off. I love to use women to flirt with other women, so I had my date removed her overcoat and give a twirl for the other girl, showing off her body and flowy dress. 3 months later, I had no struggle bedding the girl who I showed off my girlfriend for. This seems fucked up and I would probably lose attraction to a girl that did this around me, but she ate it up and we're still fucking 6 months later.
2.) I have a friend who is a model and a real estate mogul. Tall, gorgeous, and kind, she has a low n-count and has normally had a committed partner whenever we've been near one another. I still take her out because she's a whole lot of fun and obviously makes other women uncomfortable with how pretty she is. They talk to her, see how nice and valuable she is, then the jealousy only builds. I've learned that this somehow works to get women wet. Maybe it incites a drive for competition, but that might be a male way of thinking about it. Perhaps it's more like a desire to share part of a man who wins the admiration of valuable women.
3.) With two different LTR girlfriends, I got caught fucking other women. Morals and specifics aside, I can't tell you how much this did for increasing the frequency of sex in both relationships. In the first case, the gf discovers that she loved to suck another girl's pussy off of my cock. After some bitchy drama, the girl I got caught with eventually joined us in a triad. In the second relationship, I was caught in bed with Plate #1 when Plate #3 tried to surprise me by showing up at my place unannounced. I was rather shocked when this event cause Plate #3 (who I valued more) to express her attraction and love for me more explicitly. Her catching me was actually the catalyst for our LTR. The dread was very real and--somehow--seeing me with someone else only made her more devoted.
It seems weird to a man, but I believe that A LOT of women get off on feeling inferior, humiliated, or otherwise "small" under the shadow of a confident and dominant man. What's crazy is that this can go as far as being cuckqueaned.
Obviously, this is a dangerous method and it needs to be handled gracefully. Context is important and you better make damn sure that the women in your preselection arsenal are actually high value if you want to use it to attract other high value women.
TL;DR: Women are a little crazy and secretly love being cucked or taken off the pedestal. Even if they don't, they'll crave the cock of a man with other attractive options. If you can show those options off, it is only to your advantage (usually). This is called preselection and it is very effective once you earn it. If you haven't generated a preselection pool yet, fucking fake it!
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