I got a text from a buddy yesterday which I offer for the enjoyment of the community. We always talk about outcome independence and not being hooked on the pussy. We talk about the fact that women are attracted to men who can pass on the pussy because he has other options. This is one way to accomplish that mind set. I don't recommend it but it sure worked for him.

"Dude, u were telling me about OI and it is a fuck of a lot easier if you really do have other options. Same old, same old, u know the story. Wife kept turning me down despite that I was running hard Dread. After 4 or 5 denials and 2 weeks without sex I went to [name withheld] which I thought was a strip bar. It was not a strip club, it was a fucking brothel! Hot young girls sat on my lap offering to suck my dick and fuck me for $60.00. Yah I felt bad about it but not that bad. A 22 y/o babe took me in the back, put on a condom, and fucked me until I almost came. Then she hoped off and sucked my dick and drained it totally.

I staggered into bed and here is the weird thing: The next morning my wife woke me up with a BJ! She was so sweet and submissive all weekend and we fucked 3 more times. Can they smell that shit or something?"

My reply: "Maybe, but more likely you discovering that $60.00 is enough to get off any time of the day or night got that pussy off the pedestal quick. That is OI and it is what they can really smell."