In my view, this is the equivalent to PUA conferences for men. Both sexes have their own sexual strategies and will often "do what they gotta do" to fulfill their (often subconscious) strategies.

What's more, you'll often find that one's sexual strategy often exists at the detriment of the other. For one sex to fulfill theirs, the other usually has to lose out somewhere. In its most simple form: women want commitment while dishing out the least amount of sex; while men want the most sex whilst giving away the least amount of resources and commitment. For modern humans to coexist and copulate, we had to come up with compromises (a.k.a. consenting relationships) where both lose out on one aspect of their strategy, while gaining a bit more in exchange. With that in mind, I soon realized there's a reason we call it "cheating" if a person has an affair with a stranger. "We've set up this game with a set of rules, and you're gonna go ahead and CHEAT by getting more out of it than you should??" It's like Game Theory from Economics 101.

Here's the link in question: https://archive.is/Rxju3

Funny enough, I found myself cringing and breathing a little faster than normal as I was reading through the article. I paused and thought to myself "Wait a sec, this is bothering me for probably the same reason that PUA advice bothers women: people sharing and spreading ideas about getting a One Up in their sexual strategy, which in context, means that women lose out and lose leverage as more men are aware." Ahhhh, makes sense.