Saw this on Facebook: "Average OkCupid Woman"

Lilcheeks · 2014-03-03T15:17:16+00:00

Even if she said all the right things on her profile page she'd still throw up red flags from the photo alone.

She's got the all black thing going from boobs to feet because she wants to hide her rolls and a slightly transparent top pleading for guys to 'please look up here instead of at the rest of me'. Then the weird arms/stand/pose thing. Screaming insecurities.

This is the shit that saddens me regarding the feminist approach. Instead of being told by her peers to hit the gym and work on her appearance, she's being told to expect men to ignore her failings and demand to be accepted for what she is. The accountability get's shifted from her to all men.

I don't mean for this to be a personal critique or to come off as an attack on her, because it's not. However, she spends time picking outfits that hide her insecurities and highlight her boobs. If she spent that time in the gym or counting her calories she could wear whatever the fuck she wanted and look amazing. She isn't ugly or hideous. She's investing time in covering up what she doesn't like about herself rather than improving it. Wrong approach.

BooksofMagic · 2014-03-03T17:28:37+00:00

I am working out, but I'm still a little big. I want someone who is into physical fitness

Translation: I don't have the willpower to improve on my own so I want a BF who will make me go do for my own good. It's just too hard making myself do anything so I need a man to make me do it.

My wife (former fattie) was the same way for years. Then she found her motivation on her own and lost a lot of weight. I joined her whenever she went to the gym and since then I lift weights and run on a semi-regular basis. Now eventually she became much happier with her body and stopped going to the gym regularly. At this point I started to get the vibe that she wanted me to start kicking her ass to go work out. I think that's BS being responsible for her working out so I told her straight out - "If you want to work out with me, great! I'll tell you when/where and even adjust the time if needed to accommodate you. But I'm not going to kick your ass to go and I'm not going to allow you to keep me from going. Your motivation has to come from within, not from me kicking your ass. I refuse to be blamed for your lack of will power." She hasn't complained since.

OttifantSir · 2014-03-03T14:19:10+00:00

Quite the ironic imgur title on that picture :-)

SpaceMoonstar · 2014-03-03T15:53:27+00:00

Just like we all know, women want a leader. When I spent time on OKC, I noticed this trend too. Women, who are over weight abd barely work out, want to find a guy who is already ripped. They want him to see her for "her inner beauty" so she can be encouraged by him to work out.

The idea, in their eyes, is that she gets a hot guy now, and you get a hot girlfriend as a reward. Ya know, after you put in a ton of effort helping her get fit.

Emiel000 · 2014-03-03T16:05:24+00:00

I hate these people. I'm gonna eat what I want, I'll just always be ' a little big ', but I want my guy to be physically fit. Hypocrit woman

redpillschool · 2014-03-03T14:29:06+00:00

As always, avoid online dating. It's preselection at it's worst:

http://puerarchy.com/2013/07/31/how-pre-selection-affects-your-online-dating-profile/

notseriouslyserious · 2014-03-03T13:15:08+00:00

If this is right, the avg weight of a woman in 2002 is ~164 pounds, so in a sense, she's probably technically of average weight.

EDIT: For those of you more statistically minded who are thinking we should be using median weights instead, then this here show that women age 20-29 has a median weight of 132 pounds. Not as bad as 164, but unless she's at least 5'7", that's still on the chubbier side.

bytesunfish · 2014-03-03T15:34:01+00:00

Did anyone else notice the irony of the link having the picture id as G0ldgem....

Allferik · 2014-03-03T16:45:34+00:00

Man the reason she got a decent rating or average whatever is because of all the ugly, thirsty, desperate as dudes on okcupid who just want anything they can get. I'll take this girl on a date and leave her at the gym. I am good looking and fit.. If she wants me she better plan on being my sugar momma

Hyooge · 2014-03-03T14:47:01+00:00

The sad thing is, she gets lots of attention from pussy hungry dudes who slot into the "average/fit" category.

Not for me thank you, I'll go for the girl who actually lifts.

Hormander · 2014-03-03T15:54:25+00:00

Dat whale. Man, the harpoons.

positiveeagle · 2014-03-03T18:09:13+00:00

Translation: I want someone hotter than me, and that will teach me how to be hot.

RedBigMan · 2014-03-03T18:31:20+00:00

Seems like if she wrote that stuff in her profile that is in her picture she's looking to ditch her fat friends and get some skinny ones.

Remember, the company you keep often dictates your success. If you are friends with a lot of fatties then they're going to try and sabotage your fitness success with donuts and bonbons.

2014-03-03T17:22:56+00:00

She looks god damn awful. I'd rather have sex with a hippopotamus!

olaf_from_norweden · 2014-03-03T18:07:52+00:00

ok she definitely looks uh not so good. however i think its not really hypocritical, to be big and want someone not big, its just a preference really.

For example I'm a not fat, I'm semi muscular and in shape but look ok lets say i'm right in the middle and sometimes i really want skinny girls and sometimes i want bigger girls, doesn't mean I'm hypocritical.

It's just she's being a little unrealistic.

I do wonder if she would look good if she lost 40-60 pounds, something tells me her personality sucks just from what i can glean from her picture and those demands she's making.

InferiousX · 2014-03-04T00:59:47+00:00

No pictures usually but I see a lot of this on CL ads too.

"Curvy girl with 'more to love' looking for a guy. Must be in shape."

How about, "Go get fucked?" and not by me.

YOU_ARE_A_TOY · 2014-03-04T03:03:41+00:00

Who cares? Let her do what she wants. If you're not into her, don't message her, move on. Stop lingering on those things, she's probably out having fun and you're analyzing a profile you're not interested in.

2014-03-03T20:08:50+00:00

strong bulk going on, how much has she added on her DL ?

I know plenty of guys who are into 'fitness' related stuff who;d do her.

throwawaygonnathrow · 2014-03-03T16:35:03+00:00

Meh, I don't see a problem. She's aspiring to something better. According to her, she wants to lose weight, and she wants to be with a fit guy. It'd be hypocritical if she was content or even defensive of her fatness yet expected higher standards from the men she went out with. I wouldn't fuck her at that weight but nothing wrong with seeking something better. Besides, I don't see anything in that post where she says that she is allowed to be a BBW and that any guy who says otherwise is oppressing her.

The real issue is the women who decry "artificial standards of beauty" as an instrument of the patriarchy. That's where I draw a line.

Lipophobicity · 2014-03-03T15:26:39+00:00

I honestly don't see the issue, she isn't obligated to be attracted to people as chubby as her. She posted a full body picture and isn't trying to trick anyone

I get the point OP is trying to make about unrealistic SMV expectations on dating sites, but it isn't her fault for trying

GayLubeOil · 2014-03-03T21:07:40+00:00

I have zero sympathy for obese people. The amount of calories she needs to maintain that weight is something like 5k. If your a fit guy the chubsters will only bring you down and make it harder to achieve your goals. Dont surround yourself with losers. Yes eating 5k calories makes you a loser.

2014-03-04T03:58:58+00:00

Guess my girlfriend is un-average then hahaha

tedcase · 2014-03-03T15:46:05+00:00

I'd do her.

StatelessConnection · 2014-03-03T20:11:37+00:00

Is this sub satire? She's looking to get healthier, and wants someone who's there already or moving in that direction.

2014-03-03T20:54:31+00:00

Waist constrictor explosion in T-5 seconds.

ilike2partyhowaboutu · 2014-03-03T20:55:04+00:00

No no no no.. women like this never goto the gym.. they hit up a free yoga class a few times a year where they spend the whole class in the child's position almost crying because "it's so hard"

That's their work out.

Then they just starve themselves so their wildly fluctuating blood sugar levels combined with their shaved monkey horomones somehow believe that no matter what she does or says.. every man should see her as a beautiful perfect woman.

OkCupid is great for picking up a quick fuck.. but most women there are completely, absolutely brainwashed into thinking they deserve 6 foot tall guys with 100k+ jobs and six pac abs.

MrsStrom · 2014-03-03T13:12:30+00:00

"before McDonalds" rekt :D

2014-03-03T23:31:34+00:00

She looks cute.

MahlerNinth · 2014-03-03T19:36:16+00:00

Soundtrack to this profile should be "Moby Dick" by Led Zeppelin.

puaSenator · 2014-03-03T22:34:26+00:00

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2014-03-03T16:20:28+00:00

I used to go to macdonalds after the gym, and I never got close to as huge as that whale

Title	Saw this on Facebook: "Average OkCupid Woman"
Author	puaSenator
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Date	March 3, 2014 12:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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