Sedditor lays down some gender role truth, triggers blue-pill hamster explosion in comments.

SequencingLife · 2013-03-10T21:31:38+00:00

Arrgh it's so frustrating to read. They're so close to "getting it" - it's right under their noses. Alas;

THANK YOU!! When I first started reading this all I could think was "I hope no one is actually taking this to heart." Most of us on here have experienced a girl we like choosing a douchebag over us. This is a guide on how to be that douchebag. What you should be doing is being better than that douchebag.

SeanDraper · 2013-03-10T20:52:47+00:00

Haha, I'm being downvoted for telling people that narcissism is an attractive trait to women. Oh seddit, how you have fallen!

zionController · 2013-03-11T04:01:10+00:00

Sweet fucking testicles. This guy decends from Mount Sinai with the Commandments from God and the people chastize him??

Seddit has turned into a breeding ground for betas

VZPurp · 2013-03-10T20:32:31+00:00

Good luck to anyone in those comments who decides they should let women walk all over them...

RedSunBlue · 2013-03-11T03:05:41+00:00

Tip #2 causes the most rustling of jimmies in that thread:

2- Don't ever let 'her' disrespect you: This is a big one. For me, if I'm going to allow a girl I'm seeing to be in a relationship with me, they must have to 'utmost respect' for me. This doesn't mean I dump the girl the first moment that she snaps at me. What I do, is simply 'Check' them. Yea, I make it a Chess game.

Example 1: Let's say I pick my new girl up from work and she decides to snap at me because she had a bad day. I have no problem slightly raising my voice and telling her that she can get out of the car and walk home if she wants to talk to me like that. Of course, I am not going to make her walk but I will make her believe that I will. This draws a line and if you do things like this enough then you will notice that she will behave much better around you.

/u/bananabananabananas writes:

Number 2 is about the stupidest thing I've ever read. Its going to guarantee you get into shitty relationships because only damaged little girls would ever put up games like this. Here's all you need to know. If someone disrespects you, remain calm - remember youre a man and not a needy little boy - and tell her its unacceptable for her to treat you poorly.

Ridiculous, because what he advises is basically what OP is doing in his example. "Don't tell her to stop disrespecting you. You should tell her to not stop respecting you."

/u/clarifried:

Yes, this is a thousand times more mature and direct than the high school attitude of "you disrespect me? You walk home!". This goes along with the idea of treating a girlfriend or lover as you'd treat anyone else. You'd let a friend know if he was being a jerk, you wouldn't give him stupid tests.

It's not a test for anything besides common decency. Reading comments like these makes me think someone's spiked my fish oil with crazy juice. If you go out of your way to give someone a ride in your car on your time and your dime, you have every right to kick any dick or vag out for being disresepctful apropos of nothing.

/u/cmoniwannapotato chimes in with an avalanche of womanly hamster wheel sawdust:

Furthermore, if you constantly feel the need to "check" your girlfriend, obviously you don't trust her, and this is dangerously close to establishing a parent/child sort of relationship, which I'm sure works for some, but not for a self respecting, opinionated girl.

Nowhere was trust brought up in the example. He said he does not tolerate disrespect. Where the fuck did trust come from? Here's a sample of cmoniwannapotato's argumentative strategy:

Boyfriend: "Stop disrespecting me or get out of my car."

cmoniwannapotato: "YOU DON'T TRUST ME!"

This sounds surprisingly similar to:

Parent: "Eat your vegetables or you're not getting any dessert."

Child: "YOU'RE MEAN! WHY DO YOU HATE ME?"

Of course, the irony is completely lost on her.

If any guy "checked" me by telling me to get out of their car, I'd say "fuck off" and walk. I have dignity. "Checks", to me, are degrading and suffocating.

So it's okay to ask for a favor, disrespect and degrade the person obliging that favor, then act indignant and incredulous when he pulls your card? Huh?

DragonSen · 2013-03-11T00:14:11+00:00

It hurts just reading the comments there. Ugh.

HumanSockPuppet · 2013-03-11T00:44:35+00:00

God, these comments are so predictable... then we get the female comment... hopefully you guys don't have a gag reflex:

As a woman, much of what you say leads me to think that the the type of girls [As if there are vastly different types...] you are talking about are too immature. Furthermore, if you constantly feel the need to "check" your girlfriend, obviously you don't trust her [Given the way women behave why should he?], and this is dangerously close to establishing a parent/child sort of relationship, which I'm sure works for some, but not for a self respecting, opinionated girl [Pro-tip: real men don't give a shit about your opinions.]. You may not like that type of girl, many guys don't, but I guarantee that conversations are a lot more challenging and thoughtful [Men are for conversing, women are for breeding. Blunt, but true.] with someone who is not afraid that you will leave her at any hint of disobedience.

If any guy "checked" me by telling me to get out of their car, I'd say "fuck off" and walk. I have dignity. "Checks", to me, are degrading and suffocating. [Oh I bet you would! Grrl power! Yeah!]

I don't like making dinner, and keeping a clean house because my guy has manipulated me into respecting him [Id: I will use manipulation as a primary tool for survival and shaming to prevent others from doing the same thing! It's genius!]. I do things for him because we have an honest relationship, and I respect and love who he is as a human being. That's right: He earns respect because he is a good person and he is good to me. It's a partnership, yo. [It's not a partnership it's a trade, and if his value is high enough relative to your own, you will worship him and drink his bathwater if he requests it of you.]

Like you said, if you have a girl who disrespects you, leave. She is not mature enough to handle a real relationship. Women don't need to be "checked", we can handle ourselves, thank you. [Easily said in the longest running peace time the world has ever seen. When your motherland gets invaded by foreigners intent on raping, pillaging and enslaving you, something tells me you'll realize the mistake in this comment.]

Ughhh... feminism has invaded seddit, that sub is officially dead...

stomptttt · 2013-03-10T22:34:14+00:00

Lotta upvotes and downvotes. I sense some cognitive dissonance within seddit.

legendofpasta · 2013-03-11T04:16:40+00:00

What is this blue pill faggotry?? :( rip seddit

Honestly, how is being a mangina considered seductive??

redpillschool · 2013-03-11T14:06:13+00:00

Got to love the cognitive dissonance:

This is some grade A, immature, high school bullshit and it's just as bad as the games women play that we guys always complain about.

We know women play games to get what they want. You are immature for acting like a woman. Also, respect women.

O.o

RC_5213 · 2013-03-11T19:52:16+00:00

Anyone have a the text of the OP? It was deleted.

quiet_wish · 2013-03-10T23:35:54+00:00

To be fair, some of what he says is.. meh. The whole "checks" thing comes across as weak state control. Example: Your girl starts flirting with another guy.

redzy's advice: Check her. Let her know that you will not tolerate that kind of behaviour.

roissy's advice: Act unfazed. Give her pickup tips.

icedRed · 2013-03-12T03:02:46+00:00

Did anyone get the original post? It's been removed.

2013-03-11T04:20:16+00:00

Besides, you don't want to be with someone who you have to convince to be with you anyway.

no.1 rule of happiness for sexual relationships, for both sexes. if the sexes are to be equal, we all should expect mutual attraction and communication thereof.

Bobsutan · 2013-04-10T16:58:01+00:00

Does anyone have a copy/pasta of the deleted OP in that thread?

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-03-11T02:46:05+00:00

I would very much appreciate if you guys would not argue and start trouble outside your own turf. Please do not antagonize people by getting in the middle of arguments in other subreddits. I understand that you think you are helping, but you're not. This sort of arguing draws negative attention from outsiders, and starts subreddit dramas, which just ends up shutting down the thread. In this case it would probably cause removal of a thread you are endorsing. Do you see how this is unhelpful?

Sincerely,
TPUA
Moderator of seddit.

Title	Sedditor lays down some gender role truth, triggers blue-pill hamster explosion in comments.
Author	Whisper
Upvotes	45
Comments	58
Date	March 10, 2013 7:46 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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