"She turned on me"

_the_shape_ · 2015-01-19T19:28:14+00:00

"So more than half of marriages end in divorce, but I'd NEVER plan on a prenuptial agreement - I don't need that...that could never happen to us. We LOVE each other", says beta bucks to himself..

tits_out_forTheBoys · 2015-01-19T21:15:09+00:00

After all, even Sheryl Sandberg said, “…in time, nothing’s sexier.”

On the bowl reading this post. Read this part, laughed and farted. Same time.

fasterpussycatdie · 2015-01-20T02:47:34+00:00

This post was a great read.

Set the tone early on. It doesn't matter if she's the hottest woman on earth or has an arm growing out of her forehead. Lead by example. Set expectations before you commit and boldly ask for what you want. Don't walk on eggshells. Don't be afraid to piss her off. She'd rather be pissed, than think you're a pussy.

20 years of marriage and my wife still likes to have sex.

A lot.

With me.

UBER_MGTOW · 2015-01-19T23:30:49+00:00

Conservatives, feminists, MRAs, anti-feminists and white knights all harm men as a group. Why? Because each promotes or encourages some form of marriage, pedastalizes women, bargains for a better position at the slave table and/or fosters misandry.

The number one way to destroy your life as a man is to get married. Tens upon tens of millions of men, in the US alone, in the past 40+ years, have been destroyed through marriage. In the aftermath of these divorces, hundreds upon hundreds of thousands of these men took their own lives. Why? To escape the living hell many men go through as a result of divorce. It’s simple cost/benefit analysis. Marriage, for men, is a very bad bet. Marriage, for men, often leads to an early demise though divorce.

False rape, false DV, false sexual assault, false molestation and false harassment are now in vogue and routinely used to destroy men’s lives. Many hold to the notion that false claims are between 2% and 8% when no one really knows the number of false claims. Some studies say that up to half of the claims are false. The same is true of “1 in 5? and rape hysteria. No one knows the true number of rapes, yet the powers that be used “1 in 5? when the actual number is more like 1-5 in 1000.

Feminists, conservatives (with white knights in both camps) and anti-feminists have become very detrimental to men as a group, but for different reasons. “Yes Means Yes”, the VAWA, the efforts to redefine cohabitation in terms of asset division and alimony and the efforts to redefine domestic violence in terms of bullying and denial of monetary resources are all causes conservatives, anti-feminists and feminists are behind, but from different angles. Of feminists, anti-feminists, white knights and conservatives, guess which sees men as lesser beings that must be punished and which sees women as weaker beings in need of provision and protection (both physically and in terms of virtue – LOL)? I’ll give you a hint – there’s some crossover. Ever more misandric laws and policies are being pushed and passed on a global scale.

The same is true of divorce court, alimony, child support, selective service, sentencing disparity, rape, domestic violence, sexual assault, sexual harassment, employment, healthcare, welfare, etc. In each category, men are either seen as lesser beings that must be punished and/or women are seen as weaker beings in need of provision and protection (both physically and in terms of virtue – LOL).

MRAs are harmful to men because their goal is to bargain for a better seat at the slave table (aka – Marriage/Relationships 2.0). If men simply opt out of relationships with women – most of men’s problems go away. Happiness isn’t defined by your relationship status with a woman. Your worth as a man is not defined by your relationship status with a woman. Getting a better seat at the slave table isn’t going to make you happy. If men as a group opt out en masse, things would change drastically and mostly overnight. MRAs are just prolonging the agony and avoiding the truth. Most women are deeply entitled, narcissistic and toxic to the lives of men. It’s called a gender war for a reason. Marriage/Relationships 2.0 offer men no benefits. MRAs, feminists, anti-feminists, conservatives and white knights are all harmful to men as a group.

MGTOW are the only ones that see the truth. Marriage/Relationships 2.0 are potentially the most toxic and life destroying institutions for men in recent history. Men as a group were never the privileged class. If the patriarchy existed, it existed for the benefit of women and to the detriment of men. Feminists and anti-feminists are two sides of the same coin: Each wants to hold onto the aspects of the patriarchy that benefits them the most while eschewing the aspects of the patriarchy that don’t specifically benefit women. The world is in no danger of running out of people – so birth rates don’t really matter.

I don’t have relationships with women. Not because I can’t – but rather because I don’t need or want them in my life. Do I hate women? No. It’s just that I’ve learned through experience that the enchantment of getting married, having kids and living happily ever after, till death do us part, is one gigantic illusion for most. I’ve learned that my primary value in relationships with most women is what I have to offer them in terms of wealth. Women have amazing power to destroy my life through false accusations. No thanks. I’ll pass.

For the above reasons – I subscribe to the mindset of a MGHOW. While I appreciate the efforts of MRAs, until men opt out as a group, things will only get worse for men as a group. Feminists, anti-feminists, conservatives and white knights offer only a life of suffering for men. The MGTOW mindset is pure freedom and the quickest path to bettering the lot of men. The MGTOW mindset should be taught in men’s studies courses in college. Imagine the outrage of that ever being suggested for real!

Know what's funny? Men are their own worst enemies.

abdada · 2015-01-19T18:14:57+00:00

My first wife was also hot, and also turned on me (although more because of BPD and addiction than having my kid, which I thankfully avoided).

In most of the situations I see where a woman turns on a man, it almost always precedes that she is/was very hot.

Don't marry hot women. Marry a woman who is beautiful to you but not just for looks.

You should be a prize she earns, not a second place trophy she got just for showing up.

Title	"She turned on me"
Author	Rollo-Tomassi
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Date	January 19, 2015 6:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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