Sometimes she just needs some dick

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-10-26T01:20:40+00:00

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beachbbqlover · 2020-10-26T01:34:03+00:00

You can actually teach them, you know...

Mine just walks up and whispers what she wants.

She also knows not to raise her voice at me, and takes the time to wrap herself up in my arms and figure out what's bothering her before she says stupid shit.

Secret to LTRs man.

Keith_Valentine · 2020-10-26T01:32:23+00:00

Thats not an option for everyone, and therein lies the problem . but theres also more than one way to skin a cat.

My ex was bitching about everything one day and i pulled your move. I just ripped her clothes off and started fucking her, i was even yelling at her while i fucked her. Then we were on the porch smoking and she was like "wow it really does make things ok, huh?" She was just cranky because she wanted some orgasms, i legit dont think she knew that about herself because before she was in a dead bedroom marriage basically. Mutually unsatisfying.

Afterwards I was driving and she text me "when you fuck me like that, it just makes me want to shut the fuck up!" I dunno if she was being kinda sarcastic but it was hilarious. Anyways agree that orgasm maintenance is important in healthy relationship. I also say orgasms are like social currency to women.

levitating_cucumber · 2020-10-26T02:07:06+00:00

Why does every second post here look like a 12-year-old's fantasy?

zino193 · 2020-10-26T10:13:40+00:00

You are kinda right... however - I can't be bothered anymore tbh.

There's so many ladies that are banging their heads on walls to get a good man to take care of, feed, love respect and cuddle with.

When I was younger I loved that braty overreacting behavior, it was easier than keeping a calendar - but then I found a girl that was just chill and I just didn't get it. Then I realized What are you doing? We're just having a conversation... there's no other shoe that's gonna fall, stop waiting for it.

Then I realized - that's a fucked up cycle women trained us into, man. Jumping on the cycle of overacting, dicking, being civil and reasonable - is a treadmill, you should not put up with.

Fundamentally you owe her one conversation. Tell her, you don't need her energy (yes, use fucking energy because women don't understand logic or reason other than their solipsistic reasoning). Then walk aways when it happens. She is smarter than a dog, she knows what she does, and knows you told her not to. No negotiation and no discussion. It's amazing how reasonable, apologetic and peaceful women can be, when they know they can't ride the emotional carousel with you. And to be honest, it's actually better for them. They want to enter a zone of tranquility and stop worrying and complaining. If you ban negativity for yourself in the beginning you end up banning it from her mind in the long term.

Spirited-Foot · 2020-10-26T02:27:46+00:00

Having sex and f’ing a women right is literally the most important thing a man can do, next to provide resources and give his time and energy.

Doing so is more fun for you and her. Also if you master this and communication, you can get their SOULS

derpitaway · 2020-10-26T05:00:42+00:00

Bro, you are getting manipulated. She’s literally using a Pavlovian your ass. Get ready, getting back with her is in the books.

8trius · 2020-10-26T14:54:21+00:00

Listen, there are more productive ways of dealing with this “I need dick” energy from your girl.

My LTR and I have a term for this energy that we made up, because one day I came over and she was decompressing after work. After a lot of attempts at connecting, she said, “I just feel distant from you.”

I was in immediately aware of an anger response inside me. I felt I had done quite a bit to connect.

I don’t remember the sequence of events, but fairly soon after I took her upstairs and I gave her a good hard fucking.

Afterward, we were downstairs on her couch, the same place she had told me she felt distant from me, and she said, “I think sometimes I just need you to fuck me first.”

It’s not a hard and fast rule, but it’s something we are now both aware of and we treat it that way like mature adults.

Instead of only considering physical hunger, sleep patterns, PMS, or work stress, we now have a new category defined as the tension she feels when what she really wants is for my inner animal to come out and ravish her.

Pre-red pill, I thought women needed a lot of emotional connection in order to feel sexual desire. So I’d do all the nice guy things, look for ways to serve her in practical ways, be an endless emotional tampon for all her “meadow reports,” and the covert contracts were plentiful.

Now, I understand that she feels safer with me when I’m animalistically sexual with her. Because it’s a LTR (I don’t do plates), she has a need to know she can still get my attention, and because she’s probably the healthiest woman I’ve been with, she also takes responsibility for that feeling and communicates it to me.

The OP is right that this energy can be expressed in an immature way (throwing tantrums, insulting, being an insufferably busybody) and you can support her reward system by giving her dick when she acts out in maladapted, destructive ways.

Or, you can start letting her know that dick is a reward for good girls who know how to behave themselves when they get those feelings.

I know which one I prefer.

donnymufc · 2020-10-26T14:43:19+00:00

Never reward bad behaviour with attention, fucking her when she acts up might work in the short term but it creates more drama down the road. Punish her by nexting her and removing attention, go and fuck one of your other girls on rotation and go back to her when the nexting period is over THEN give her some good dick, providing she's not still throwing drama at you of course.

That way she will know that if she acts up she knows she ain't getting that good dick or any other attention that females crave so she will have to learn to control her behaviour.

Shieldless_One · 2020-10-26T18:12:59+00:00

I wonder if sometimes women try to make us emotional when they’re trying to fuck because they know it works on them.

Rtat · 2020-10-26T01:50:42+00:00

Am i supposed to take advice from you retard

LandoChronus · 2020-10-26T02:19:30+00:00

Don't reward bad behavior.

You don't give a dog a treat when it snaps at you.

Don't give a bitch a bone when she snaps at you either.

2020-10-26T02:28:41+00:00

You can always get with the baby mama.

This isn't exactly new advice or anything earth shattering.

SatyaNi · 2020-10-26T05:08:11+00:00

It's a feedback cycle. You don't fuck her so she gets pissy, as she's mad she'll want to bang less which in turn damages the relationship more. The best your relationship is, the more you'll get fanny and conversely, the more you pump the better your relationship will be

fuddubandha · 2020-10-26T11:41:02+00:00

My ex gf who is married now does that I just ask her to come closer to make out then sex. I give her good deep dick which recalls her memory and reset her.

BtW her husband gave her $20k engagement ring. I was like what a simp. All they need is dick down to reset it.

Neoniko · 2020-10-26T10:05:24+00:00

Yeah because thats just what i need, my plates to learn that whenever they want dick they just need to start acting like a bitch.

ReddiReaders · 2020-10-26T04:39:09+00:00

Wow, you conquered....your babies mother. Good job, bet that was a difficult task. Come back when you actually accomplish something.

KanDeMan2 · 2020-10-26T11:48:11+00:00

Nice Humblebrag fantasy.......

And Babymomma?.......Really?

This certainly is the decline....but I don't think it's all women's fault with posts like these.

2020-10-26T21:26:18+00:00

good dick will have a bitch forget what she was mad about.

and she'll cook you dinner and roll your blunts too if you dick her down right.

floppyjabjab · 2020-10-26T06:01:13+00:00

Absolutely true, been in multiple LTR over the years (I'm in early 30s), the D is like the peace maker. Honestly pisses me off that it's how it works because I never get horny for fucking an annoying cunt (no pun intended). Usually all I think of is dead drop a spin kick in annoying women mouth, fucking her out of the pussy mood has always felt like a chore and when sex feels like a chore it defeats the very fun of it. Even worse is not something about "not the right one" cause what OP speaks of is literally every female by nature, just like any female can't fucking communicate like a functional human being.

lovatoariana · 2020-10-26T05:56:47+00:00

True dat. Solved so many arguments and mood swings with just sex.

boy_named_su · 2020-10-26T06:42:08+00:00

Sometimes you need to remind her who the Mayor of Poundtown is

Ask_For_Cock_Pics · 2020-10-26T04:32:11+00:00

This would definitely work with one of my plates, and definitely not with the other. The first is always horny and always angry, the second is usually easy going, but if she's mad, trying to fuck will just piss her off even more.

Rairaijin · 2020-10-26T04:13:03+00:00

Have you ever consider the taken in hand style relationship?

Drp345 · 2020-10-26T11:20:26+00:00

Out of sheer curiosity, what happens if you can't give her good dick?

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-10-26T21:39:24+00:00

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LibertarianLibertine · 2020-10-26T15:28:29+00:00

You sound like you're living with your 'baby momma'. All sounds very ghetto.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-10-26T20:07:05+00:00

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Title	Sometimes she just needs some dick
Author	DerekMorganBAU
Upvotes	400
Comments	96
Date	October 26, 2020 1:11 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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