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[–]Wumpus1 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TL;DR:
Keep your complaints to yourself, and only open your mouth when you have a solution or are going to actively do something to remedy that complaint. Just saying, X is wrong/bad/annoying/etc. doesn't do shit, only solutions do anything to help your situation.
[–]circlhat 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
If you meet someone who says, "It's always someone else's fault" RUN! If you meet someone who says, "Its always your fault" RUN!
Hyperbole pointless article, there is a balance to everything, The only absolute I'm certain of is there are no absolutes
[–]puaSenator 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They are a frequent poster to SRS, which slightly confuses me on the intent of their message or if their is any hidden agenda. Our two subs are direct polar opposites.
[–]redbluepilling 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One thing I've gotten better at with TRP is to judge the content on its own merit.
[–]Femme_Murican[S] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am not, I have commented in SRS to see if I would get banned. I have many posts to redpill and to redpillwomen, check my submission history. I'm banned from thebluepill as well
[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The only absolute I'm certain of is there are no absolutes
Are you absolutely certain there are no absolutes?
[–]Femme_Murican[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What he mean was that it's not all your fault. You are the only one responsible for your situation however
[–]circlhat 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes , he is a 100% correct in that regard, however complaining can be a useful tool and there is a reason we have evolved with this trait.
People aren't depressed because they are lazy, they are depress because they have no direction and complaining is the first step.
Complaining is simply identifying a problem in your life, it is absolutely necessary to complain otherwise you won't need to change.
The problem is some people don't know how to fix the problem or simply unwilling to change it, and this is why you can't just complain you have to actually get up off your ass and do something.
A much better title would of been, "Don't just complain"
When I was blue pill, I was complaining about my lack of women, than I search on things I could do, complaining + Action is what lead me to redpill.
If I was content and happy with what I had, I would of still been a blue pill loser.
"The first step is to admit you have a problem" , Classic AA line that applies here
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Self criticism and reflection are not the same thing as complaining.
[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 9 years ago | Copy Link
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[–]Femme_Murican[S] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can find examples where recognizing problems will help, but this was more directed to needless bitching
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The fucking fuck am I reading here?
if I were to share all the bullshit that happened at the shop or whatever I would just be shitting all over her happiness. I keep my shit to myself.
OoooOOOoohh! Shitting all over your precious rainbow umbrella of happyness, eh? A man should never complain to a woman, that is what women do. Because they LOVE to try and shit all over our happiness.
Tell your man, who tells us to stop complaining, to stop complaing. And the fuck if he wants to tell us something, get him on here. I dont care if he sends you to do his bidding.
[–]Femme_Murican[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He's banned dude, he got shadow banned that's why
[–]Ferelden 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're a loser. All people on this board do now is complain about feminism and women. Stop complaining and start doing.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I bet you are the loser here.
[–]writewhereileftoff 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for posting this. I can only encourage post that promote the betterment of oneself. Life revolves around yourself much more than people realise. Because everywhere you go the common factor is you. Food for thought.
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