I strongly believe in stealing, when the goods are worth it, so I'll quote the excellent comment by /u/Mgtowredpillonroids to introduce the issue:
Hookers are your friend, mate. (well, as long as you don't let them steal your money) Honestly I find ever since I either approach the situation as "I don't want sex tonight" or "Just got my dick sucked by a nice escort, no need to impress any ladies at the bar now" I ACTUALLY enjoy "gaming" women. I'm completely outcome independent, so I can really be in the moment and enjoy that teasing, that back-and-forth, that dancing around each other. That never worked for me when I went out with that nagging thought in the back of my head that "I need to get laid tonight". Outcome independence and abundance mentality get thrown around a lot here but if you have no basis to get it from then it's pretty useless, at least to me. In other words: If you're not already getting sexed, (by hookers or plates) achieving actual outcome independence is incredibly hard and more of a fake it till you make it kind of thing (but one that doesn't work). This is why incels should go on a trip to the Phillipines or wherever and then go out some nights as well and just see what kind of a difference this shit makes. You're way less in your head and you stop thinking about applying more "cocky&funny" or whatever.
Now, probably many of you aren't into regular prostitute usage (it's officially illegal in many countries), and many might never even have had one experience. Thing is, there is a way to reap the benefits of prostitution to getting you an IDGAF attitude, even if you don't actually use prostitution. And that is by applying the basic principle of meditation: if you just imagine a situation, your brain first believes it to be true, until it finds out it is not, and this initial belief is enough to give you a degree of relief.
Well, this is at least what they say about meditation (e.g. The Charisma Myth). If you are an analytical thinker, you might have a great difficulty "imagining" and letting this kind of self-placebo work.
So, for all you analytical thinkers out there, I'll just tell you another way to go at it, involving less imagining and more practicality: DECIDE to use prostitutes. Don't imagine. Really decide that if push comes to shove, you are prepared to use a prostitute. Do a little researching around. Find out where to get them. Read online reviews, see who are the best, learn about the prices, visit places, familiarize yourself with the idea.
Now, if your girlfriend dumps you, you will use a prostitute. If your wife has three headaches in a row, you will use a prostitute. If you don't get a girl back home tonight, you will use a prostitute.
The good thing about this method is that you don't have to follow through your decision. No one will blaim you. You have decided to do it, you might take one off and do it next time. You could actually keep doing this almost perpetually, and never actually use a prostitute! Just knowing that there is that pressure valve over there and you can use it, can work miracles to relieve your neediness.
This is actually cheating on the game, without cheating on yourself. ("Whow, this guy is not acting desperate, he must have other things going about him". - Just don't tell her that it's either her or a prostitute, that's on your mind.)
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