There is a difference between having a discussion with versus and argument where one of you, usually the woman starts to get emotional.

The moment a woman starts arguing she gets all emotional and she wants to suck you into it. Explain things to her rationally, the moment she starts to raise her voice or get emotional, just get up and leave.

You can never resolve argument when a woman is in an emotional state.

If she is only a little emotional, going to another room and closing the door will suffice. If she chases after you, just calmly state we will discuss this after you calm down, please leave. If she pushes the issue, tell her you are going out for a few hours.

The first few times she will go all crazy, but after a while just going into another room is all that is needed. After she calms down both of you can have a rational discussion.

I didn't figure this out until 3+ years into my marriage before that there where was a huge fight atleast once a week. There are still rare occasions when the wife catches me off guard, and manages to suck me in. But usually I catch myself and walk out.

Comical part is often you both want the same thing, but the woman when she is all emotional doesn't understand or can't explain herself properly.