You've met a woman, she's hot, flirtatious and sexually charged. You feel things are moving well, you may have made out with her, she may have even given you a blow job early on. She makes you feel good, and you her. As time goes on you notice that whenever and however you escalate, nothing seems to be going anywhere. This could be as little as a few days or a few weeks. However she won't let you go. She entices you with the promise of sexual fulfillment that never happens.

Gentlemen, The Cock Tease.

I find these women are few and far in-between. Most of the time you hear this term coming from beta males who couldn't seal the deal and chalk it up to women playing games. Let me point out most women can be wooed into sex and most other women will give you clear indication that sex will never happen. However this Siren-like 'BPD' woman will give you very confusing signals that may be uninterpretable. It's almost like you're a tier above beta orbiter, but don't be fooled, it will more than likely go no where.

I find most men who play the field will encounter a few of these in their life time. So what's the proper way to handle these women?

It's simple but you won't like it. The answer is to take the L and walk away. Now this is confusing because the promise of sex and blowjobs seems to be just a stones throw away, which can be made all that much more frustrating when it seems like the carrot is right in front of your face. It's important to notice that these women aren't in it for sexual gratification, the attention and power they receive is fulfilling to them. It's important to be able to spot these women before they end up wasting your time and or money. It's important to note these differences because the average woman who wants you to be an orbiter will never be direct with you, where as the cock tease can be very direct:

  • The promise of wild sex and blow jobs is abundant

  • They may kiss/make out/blow you to keep your interest

  • They may be openly flirtatious with you, even partaking in risky behaviors such as promising a blowjob in the rest room but flakes out last second

  • After escalating she gives you last minute resistance that is unexplained, even after escalating multiple times and her seeming to be very into it

  • She expects you to sleep over without having sex or engaging in sexual activities

  • She is very manipulative over sexual activities and gets offended very easily if called out about her dual personality

  • 'All you care about is sex' is a manipulation tactic these women use as a defense tactic when they themselves use sex as a lure

  • Like a woman who will lead you on, this type of woman will make time for you. She may even tell you she has feelings for you to keep you interested in her

More often than not these women will drive you up the wall, and frustrate you to the point where you will eventually break frame. These women are 'pros' at what they do. Just like BPD women, unless you're straight up Dark Triad, stay away.

TL:DR: Cock Teases will reel you in, break you down and eventually leave you feeling utterly confused.