TL;DR: Compare the worst case scenarios between each perspective of NAWALT & AWALT.
Some people here don't understand, even if we were wrong we're not the ones who are gonna get fucked over at the end of the day.
When you end up losing everything in court after she cheated on you, or you find out that your children aren't yours 20 years into the relationship are you going to be thinking about the other women who aren't like the one who fucked you over? No. Taking your risks thinking that NAWALT is worse than spending all your income on the lottery thinking "Well, not everyone loses!"
You can always get your money back, but the damage that results from losing in the marriage/daddy game can't be fixed.
Husband finds out children aren't his 20+ years into the relationship
Following the results, the children cut off all contact with him. He claims his ex-wife turned them against him. “I would have been happy to have a close relationship with them as a stepfather but Helen wouldn’t allow this and told them to keep away from me,” Rodwell explains.
oh and this
It’s hard to imagine such a thing even happening, but if it wasn’t for the whispering campaign that was going around, he may have never known the truth.
I was a loving dad for 18 years.. then I found my son wasn't mine
“And it’s the cruellest betrayal. For 18 years I thought I was a dad, but I’m not. My ex-wife deceived both of us and I can never forgive her. We feel utterly duped.”
1.6M Men Pay Child Support For Kids That Aren't Theirs
Now try to tell me some bad scenarios for thinking that AWALT?
That the man would start finding his time more valuable than a woman and start living a fulfilling life that he has full control over?
Sure many people here believe 100% AWALT, and even if they were wrong..what do they end up losing? What do they miss out on, "meaningful relationships" with women? You don't know anyone here to say that, you don't know how we treat women. I have plenty of healthy relationships with women that weren't possible before when I thought they functioned the same way as men.
Lesson learned
- Weigh the pro's & cons to each perspective, and act accordingly.
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