I recently deleted a Facebook account with over 4000 friends and an Instagram with 10,000 followers and this decision was largely influenced by a post titled False Stimuli.
Since the time I started college to now a large amount of my lays have come from social media. I have a bit of local celebrity and the best way to use it to my advantage I figured would be online game. Snapchat/Instagram/Facebook, you name it and I used it. However the conversion rate to effort rate is not even close to worth the effort. As was said in False Stimuli, something I quickly learned is that social media has two effects. For women is gives endless options and for men it gives the ILLUSION of endless options.
Even the girls that post about what freaks they are in bed, snapchat pictures of their bare butthole, talk about how much they love sex, all of it is a trap. It is a trap for validation. They want to see how many men both of low and high status they can get to validate them and "Slide in their DMs" so they can leave them on read and brag about it to their friends. They literally get off to it and it is a game to them.
I've gotten lays off my online efforts and some pretty solid ones in my opinion but when I look at the effort and the numbers game involved I quickly found it not to be worth it.
Even handsome men, rich men, it's rarely about the status of the man himself but obviously it does it effect your rate on returns. At the end of the day though APPROACH IN PERSON and step away from the keyboard if you find this to be true of your life too.
Girls want to be chased, they want to be wanted. So many of these women have absolutely jack-shit going right in their life other than an endless list of men inside the graveyard that is their inbox and they don't give a damn about any of them. These women will even try to sell nudes of themselves to endless list of betas who think that somehow that will lead to them fucking them down the road.
The internet is a dead end, an illusion and a trap. Yes this includes porn to a limited extent. Use your online time to research, to study, to learn, to grow. Don't waste it on women because that's exactly what it is, a waste.
This is true to the point that we have even turned "Send nudes" into a meme, it's a joke as is most online "game." Online you cannot kino, you cannot look deeply into her eyes, you can't have style, you can't look directly though her and her bullshit, you can't have tonality and most importantly you can't fuck her.
The internet is a validation trap for men as well because they feel like they are actually doing something. Even if you have an inbox full of nudes, from women all around your city, if you aren't fucking them then what is it worth? Absolutely nothing. I would go as far as to say the internet is where masculinity goes to die. As far as game is concerned at least.
So if any of this rings a bell with you, learn from my mistakes, step away from the keyboard, delete facebook/instagram/snapchat and yes even tinder and get into the world and start gaming women in person. Don't fall for the internet and it's lies about sexual availability. Happy hunting's my fellow men and please feel free to leave your own observations and opinions in the comments on this subject.
Choose to live in the dangers of reality and not the safety of the keyboard. Dare to be different from the pack.
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