Clarification

Firstly, everything is based on what I have seen and experienced, it is just my best guess as to how game works. Human sociology and psychology are incredibly complex and even most universities have bogus information. This is how badly we understand this: Most psychology classes will say something like, "people get more attracted the more they are around you. If you want someone to like you be near them. This is the law of proximity." This is complete bullshit. Psychology researches don't get pussy. I do and I'm telling you this is retarded advice. Not to say I completely understand game, but women won't like you for simply being near them. Women do not notice most men near them, their RAS (reticular activation system) blocks out all men who aren't literal celebrities anyway, but how much is RAS discussed in school again? Not at all? Cool. Anyway, not everything I say is true, I am a human and I am fallible just like Tyler is fallible, and every poster on here. The best I can hope for is that in this giant wall of text maybe 2 or 3 things hit home and you meditate on them. If I even get that much then I have succeeded.

To get this out of the way, this is the last post I'll ever make about Game. You just don't learn enough by reading about it anyway. You have to go out and do this stuff. That's how I learned and that's how you should too. This subreddit is cool and all, but if you want to turn your social life/dating life around, it's best to write down the top 4 or 5 game-related things you can glean from this post and quit Reddit altogether. There have been numerous scientific studies on the effects of internet usage so this is it for me, and it should be it for you. The best information is located in books and papers anyway, so trust me when I say that nothing of value is lost by decreasing internet usage. keep in mind, by even writing these posts, I feel my game getting worse. You have to understand that when I am actually out talking to girls with my friends, I am not thinking about any of this when I'm in state. All I'm thinking is "party party fun fun fun!" I only think about this when I'm not in state, to give myself a mental crutch to jump-start the engine so to speak. Therer comes a point where you should not think so logically about attraction but just focus on living a good fun life. You evolve from logical thinking to positive emotional thinking when it comes to women.

And lastly, I am leaving out a lot of shit. Why am I not mentioning working out, or building a career etc? Because I did not do that. I worked out in high school but that was it. I'm starting to get back into it because you should take your health and longevity seriously, but fundamentally if my experience reflected the idea that looks and money were the most important aspects of attraction, then I would simply do that and not focus on socializing as much. I know how to plant two feet in front of someone and get their attention and keep it, so that is what I will discuss here.


"What are some of the most important aspects of game?"

Some of the absolute core components are:

• Vocal Tonality

• Logistics

• Approaching

• Inner Game


Vocal Tonality

Vocal tonality is such an unbelievably massive sticking point for guys. They simply do not project their voice. Just like you should occupy more space than guys around you, you should be louder. Especially in a super loud club, you should be shouting for them to hear you properly. What completely shifted my paradigm on this was watching RSD Tyler's voice work with guys. This is one of my favorite recent examples of it. Video for reference. To understand what is making you not project, you have to understand your mind. The mind is made up of three parts, the Id, the Ego, and the Superego. Keep in mind, the rest of this section will sound batshit crazy. I have not found a better way to explain this so if I come across as an insane person it's because I am pretty crazy. What can I say, it works and this thought process has worked wonders for me so here it comes:

The Id can be easily understood as your biological drive. All thoughts like: "I am hungry" "I am tired" "I am afraid" etc. is the Id speaking. These are not your thoughts, per se, the Id is having them for you to save time and energy. The Ego is best understood as your conception of yourself. An example might be, "I am an introvert." The self-identification as an 'Introvert' will begin to dictate your actions. For example, say you go out one night and get tired after talking to people for hours. Because your Ego identifies with the concept of "Introversion," you will then have the thought, "Wow, I am so tired. Damn introversion got me again. Time to sulk home like a beta male." What if in reality, the cause of your lack of energy was a lack of sleep? If you simply don't get a full 8-9 hours of sleep (more depending on age) then you will, of course, get tired after going out to game, especially if you had work or school. So in this example, the real fixable issue has been replaced by the phantom concept of "introversion." That's not to say that there is no scientific thing like introversion, I just have seen this play out a lot in myself and others. Another example of the Ego is believing that you are a "red-pill man." Are you a red pill man? What all does that entail? Do you blindly agree with everything trp says, regardless of if you have tested it? Are you letting your entire worldview be dictated by a bunch of people on the internet for no real reason? These are questions you have to ask yourself to keep the ego in check.

The Superego is the last aspect of your mind. The Superego can be easily understood as the socio-cultural factors or influences in our lives. For example, your country, your parents, your friends, the media etc. all dictate this part of your mind. Most of the dumb bullshit we believe comes from this because our world is set up to essentially brainwash the masses to fight amongst each other. The rich get richer and the poor get poorer, as it is often said.

"Azitah, what in the fuck does any of this have to do with being loud in a club. I'm just here to fuck girls, not learn all this dumb shit that doesn't matter."

Then you can sit in a hole in the ground and die.

This shit does matter because the reason you can't be heard in a club isn't because of whatever dumb reason you think. It's because you are intentionally making yourself quiet. You are sabotaging yourself. You do not want to be heard. Firstly, your Id is telling you "if you are too loud, you will stand out from the crowd and make a target of yourself." Your Ego is telling you, "you don't think you are an alpha male, do you? You are a fucking beta because you got bullied in school, or because you are short, or because you suck shit, or because of some awkward thing you did one time, so shut the fuck up. You don't even want her to hear you dude." Lastly, your Superego and society at large are telling you, "The state will fuck you up if you fuck this girl. You will get #MeeToo'd, you are worthless, you know deep down Disney was right, girls don't even put out like this really, your body does not look like the magazines we make, you are breaking religious law by even doing this, the Game is literal nonsense, and ever since childhood it has been our intent into shaming you into becoming a beta-male and forgetting who you actually are, so shut. the. fuck. up. you fucking animal."

So you do. You don't think what you have to say is valuable, so you remain quiet, and bitch on TheRedPill about how looks and money are the only things women want yadda yadda etc. etc.

This is what has been caked into so many young men's minds since birth. It is the sole reason people are so docile and content with sitting on their phones and social media all day and, IMO, will be the end of this Earth. Because people never stopped to think about what actually ran their minds, they thought they were in control the entire time, and they will be the weapon of their undoing. And just like this shit will be the end of this Earth, you will not fuck this girl for the same reason. Because you aren't you, and you don't even know who you are.

The solution to this is complicated. The hardest part is recognizing it's happening. By understanding that your mind is sucking the energy out of your voice, some of that power is automatically restored. Just like the anger phase, the initial revelation makes you instinctually push back against it. When you feel your state fading/voice failing to get attention, you will instinctually place more power into your voice to get it to work. The second is posture. Physiology and psychology go hand in hand. By keeping your physiology in check your voice becomes more powerful. Try working out properly and developing your posture. It's really hard to speak with a meek voice when you are standing tall (like you evolved to do). One more tip I will give you here is understanding the warmup period. It's rare that you will get off work or some routine thing you do every day, then pop into the club and start making the sets fly open with your voice. This takes practice and warm-ups. Over the course of the night, you will receive small bits of positive feedback, and your brain will lend you more charisma and vocal power.

THIS IS KEY: You cannot prevent negative feedback. When you approach the 9 stone-cold with no warmup, you will probably fail and she will shit on you, you can't prevent this because it is part of the process. You can only control how you REACT to negative feedback. When you don't react and instead say "nice to meet you" then walk away with a smile on your face and instantly open the next set you see, you are training yourself to simply have fun. When you get positive feedback, however, let it fuel your state and increase the fun. This is how state works. You decrease the effect of negative feedback and instead replace it with a positive vibe like smiling when walking away (Positive emotional reaction to negative feedback) while still thinking about it so you can actually see where you went wrong (Logical deduction to improve in reality).

When this happens the effect will snowball and soon it will be hard to not make women laugh. The idea is not to beat yourself up when you aren't entirely in the zone. Just allow the night to be and have fun, your voice will slowly return. A quick note on attraction: guys lower their entitlement because they think that you need a massive amount of attraction to have sex with hot girls. You don't. Simply chatting and getting her laughing with the occasional IOI is more than enough to isolate and go for a pull. Don't think you need to have her wet in the venue and tounge her down. Sometimes that is appropriate but in a majority of cases, they won't comply with that behavior because her friends are there and staring or she feels judged or something. You will know how much attraction is actually required to pull with practice (About as much as you think, divided by half.)


Logistics

I swear on everything good and holy on this Earth, Logistics might as well just replace game entirely. I unironically live in a fraternity house ie. party city and it is painfully easy to pull girls. If you live close to the club or get a hotel near it when you are traveling, or you live within 5 or so minutes of the place you are pulling from it is unbelievable how easy it is to get laid when you have the fundamentals down.

You can work out, and that can help with girls sure, but without game, you are pretty much dead in water anyway because of what I said earlier in the introduction. Game is like to logistics, what working out is to game, if that makes sense. Basically, I'm saying that game is cool and all, but if your logistics are shit then you are fucked. Either you need to become the king of day 2s and just take time off work and day 2 all the numbers you get, or you need to move out from the countryside my guy because ain't no bitches of quality out working in the field yonder'. If you catch my drift.

So I don't have specific advice because everyone's logistical situation is different. A car is pretty much required, but I have seen naturals who can function without it because they just get their girls to drive them everywhere. That, however, is not in the cards for most guys, so we need cars like everyone else. A place to your own is optimal so you don't have to have roommates, but if you do need roommates then you need to be on the same page ie. no cockblocking and understand how this shit works ie. make game easy for each other. I get the best of both worlds because I "live on top of the club" as my friend Scott calls it, but rest assured when I move out I will make sure to move even closer to the bars and clubs near me.

Another quick aspect of logistics is the girls logistics. Does she have work in the morning? Is she with her friends etc. When talking to the woman you need to ask her where her friends are, then lead her to them. Not only are you leading, but when you get to her friends she can introduce you as the cool guy who was considerate enough to take her to her friends, then you introduce yourself to the group and start cracking jokes, then ask who all rode with who etc. to get a sense of the situation. Do you see how this all fits together? When you handle logistics, you are leading. When you are doing this and funny/Cocky/playful at the same time, you are high status, and when you have solid frame/inner game, she will chase your validation. This should start to make sense.

You need to try to isolate and get her back to your place, alone preferably of course, but every situation is different. Simply think logically about what you would do in that type of situation, then go out and try to see what works. These things take experience and all.

In conclusion, logistics are extremely important, but game is also important too. Just good logistics alone won't give you killer results, but time and time again logistics are usually the cause of prolonged game difficulty, not usually game itself. Every situation is different so use your mind critically and effectively to sort out what your specific brand of bullshit is.


Approaching

Your ability to approach is linked to both your entitlement and your state. The higher your state, the more likely you are to open a given woman. Your entitlement, however, is a "gate" on who you filter out with your RAS. If your entitlement is low, you may only be able to game the 6 or 7, if your entitlement is higher then you can game higher quality women. This is why many high-quality women date degenerate guys because those drug dealers/football starts/frat guys etc. typically have mental disorders that shoot their entitlement through the roof. They have no "brake" pedal on their game so to speak. Naturals only ever have access to the "gas" pedal in regards to their game. This is also why you can see good looking guys date and marry unattractive women. Their entitlement at that point in life was low, so no matter what girls you think they deserve, their mind will prevent them from approaching the true 9s and 10s of the world.

So sometimes you'll have nights where you can approach 7s and 8s like it's nothing. The charisma is flying out of your mouth. But the 10 walks by and you sit there and watch her walk away. A lack of entitlement stems from many places, mental health issues are a large place they come from, but I would say that limiting beliefs are the source of low entitlement. The reason I don't talk about getting fit much or making a lot of money is because thinking of game in that way is ultimately a limiting belief. I understand that many endorsed contributors fully internalized the idea that you should work out/make money for yourself, but deep down most guys don't feel that way. By thinking that you have to get this or that to get hot women is a limiting belief that will permanently stunt your entitlement.

I suggest focusing on your career and fitness etc, but not viewing these things as the key to a good dating life, you should pursue these things while paradoxically believing that you currently are the shit. You currently are enough. Buying into society's frame by chasing this or that pursuit means that you are reacting to your environment rather than causing it, and in turn lowers your charisma and entitlement. I call this passive self-disqualification. You are not outright disqualifying yourself when you refuse to talk to the hot girl (the 9 or true 10), but the thoughts of "she's busy, she's with her boyfriend, she's walking away" etc. that you would normally have for 7s and 8s (which you lessened by getting into state and having fun) you are now taking those same thoughts and applying them to the next tier of women (because your entitlement is not at its peak). These thoughts stem from a disqualification that you believe you aren't good enough < which again, is a false reality, you are good enough at the present moment for her, but that shouldn't stop your continual improvement.

This is probably one of the hardest things to internalize, so I recommend thinking carefully about this section and meditating on your self-image and where it comes from, how much of it is negative and useless, and what about yourself that you like and what is positive. The way I see it is that it's not that negative thoughts/self-image is bad per-se, but 95 percent of our negative thoughts and self-perceptions are largely manufactured by our minds with little basis in reality and supported by culture/advertising/the lizard overlords, your shitty parents/childhood bullies etc.


Inner Game

Consider this as a thought-experiment. Don't think if it is true, just take its accuracy for granted for a moment as a hypothetical:

Imagine that the world, from the top down, was entirely constructed by a group of powerful people (probably the extremely wealthy, and no, I'm not talking about fucking jews give me a break). While they are human and fallible, sometimes it doesn't work out, but it usually does work out in their favor. What might this world look like, and what effect on your mind might it have?

Well, if I was king of the world with this expressed goal in mind, a good place to start would be to obfuscate the real quality of each person and replace it with a figment, some quasi-human personality. A good start would be economics wise. Making people think that work is their entire life and that there isn't much more to life than that. Ooh, let's also throw examples of rich people getting women in media. That will keep the hamster on the wheel for a long time.

Let's also brainwash them using media. Get them to think all sorts of stupid fucked up shit about themselves and other people. Maybe they will hate women. Or hate men! Maybe the masses will set their sites on minorities, or I don't know, plastic straws os some shit.

Do you see how easy it is to get lost in today's world? The world of Kim Kardashian and politics. At the end of the day, you have not carved any time out for you. You have instead internalized other people's needs and desires and neglected your own.

All of the technique, every part of it, fuck even lifting and making money mean jack shit depending on the frame that you are coming from. If you see magazines full of ripped guys (all photoshopped) and start to gym grind every day (out of pure ego, not an intellectual understanding of the benefits of the activity you are engaging in), you have failed. You have bought into another man's frame. If you watch rapper videos on youtube and see all the diamonds and cars (all fake/rented/leased) and decide to make money to achieve that (with no regard/respect for your financial longevity), you have failed because you have bought into another man's frame.

Game is not what you do or say to her, it is what you do and say to yourself.

If you are at the effect, and not the cause of your own life. You need to make that change so that you aren't always reacting to things, and get the girl to react to you, but not consciously thinking about this. When you prioritize fun and good vibes, they will naturally react to your funny jokes, interesting questions etc. This is human nature, we react to the strongest reality in our vicinity. It isn't that hard to have a stronger reality than a hot girl. Their realities aren't based on anything substantial. Simply having a high degree of self-love and self-assurance that you are on the right path in your success materially, physically, and spiritually is more than grounded enough to attract women to you with little effort required.

This is where so many guys go wrong, they think the thing is funny because of the content of the joke itself, or it's interesting because it genuinely is. It all comes down to the place that those things come from. When you are a grounded man that has a self-image and self-confidence rooted deep into the Earth, things are funny because you think they are, they are interesting because you think they are. And when you just let it come out with no self-judgment you will get really good responses when you're out in the field.


Supplemental Reading

• The Power of Now

• Power vs. Force David R Hawkings

• RSD Tyler's Classic Posts Free Ebook

• The Book of Pook

• The Kybalion (crazy spiritual shit but fun nonetheless)

• The Black Phillip Show/The Beige Phillip ShowClarification