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The Power of RP Language

February 10, 2015

One of the greatest improvements in my life since swallowing TRP has been the growth in my inner game. I remember my old BP self, “falling in love” or “having a crush,” chasing after that girl, becoming friendzoned and then being “heartbroken” when she rejected me, etc. The BP way of thinking left me mostly powerless to the events unfolding in my life.

But now my eyes are opened.

I understand how the world works—the ideas of SMV, hyperygamy, the wall, the cock carousel, AF/BB… It explains how the world really works. Is TRP perfect in its explanation of all things? No. However, TRP is the clearest and best explanation as to why women are the way they are and how to have an effective sexual strategy. Understanding these truths has made me more powerful to take responsibility for myself and to pursue the life that I have always wanted.

I believe the biggest growth in my inner game has come from the change in language that TRP uses. Simply understanding the world as it is, and then using words that give me a course of action has made me more powerful in my sexual strategy. I have been, and am being, deprogrammed after years of being spoon fed Hollywood lies about “true love” and the Walt-Disney-happily-ever-after myth.

For example, I remember my old BP self crying over the phone with my mother after a recent breakup (cringe). “You’ll meet someone else,” my mother tried to console me.

“I don’t want to meet someone else!!” I sobbed over the phone.

“But there are plenty of fish in the sea…” She responded. Her words didn’t bring me comfort and I proceeded to be a trainwreck.

What was my problem? Why was I such a beta chump? I was so focused on my ex-girlfriend that I was an emotional wreck. I was powerless when we were dating, and even more emasculated after the breakup. I didn’t understand abundance mentality.

I want to go over a list of commonly used RP terms that have changed my inner game. They should be compared to my old BP mentality to see the difference:

“Falling in love” vs Oneitis -- Our bodies are wired to seek out mates and to bond with them. People speak about “falling in love” as if it’s something that just happens to you. In a way, it does. Your body releases certain chemicals that cause you to become attached to another person. Redefining “falling in love” to Oneitis gives you an awareness of what is happening. It empowers you to make different decisions if your sexual strategy is to spin plates, etc.

“Seeing someone” vs spinning plates -- “Seeing someone” makes it sound like your are Matthew McConaughey in some romantic comedy. You’ve just found a unique snowflake and life is full of endless possibilities. Let me tell you something: You aren’t Matthew McConaughey. This isn’t a movie. There are only a few ways your interaction with this girl will end up, and most likely they won’t end in happily ever after. “Spinning plates” is what it’s like. All plates fall and break eventually. You should always be approaching and finding more plates to spin (if this is your sexual strategy).

“We broke up” vs Next -- “We broke up” is just like “falling in love.” It just happens, right? Not really. Sometimes a girl swings branches. Sometimes a plate decides she’s about to hit the wall and needs to settle down with her beta bucks. Or maybe it just isn’t working because your SMV isn’t as high as she thought—you failed too many shit tests. Whatever the reason, being ready to next a girl leaves you powerful in the relationship. Always be able to walk away.

“There are plenty of fish in the sea” vs abundance mentality -- I used to get really irritated when people would tell me, “there are plenty of more fish in the sea.” Usually it because I was so focused on that one “fish” that I was narrowly focused to see that there are so many girls in this world. They’re really not that special. They are not unique snowflakes that you need to fight for. Did you just have a LTR just end? Don’t feel sorry for yourself. Now you get to go out and fuck a lot of different women. Is that so bad? Abundance mentality.

Friendzoned vs beta orbiter -- Were you oh-so-close to getting that cute girl in your English class? You guys talked and laughed, and had “such a great connection.” You would text her just to see how her weekend was going? But then when you told her you liked her, she (gasp) said she just wanted to be friends? What you really are is a beta orbiter. Your best bet is to cut ties and go lift.

Anyway, my advice if your new to TRP is to just read. Read the sidebar, read the posts, read the comments (which often are better than the posts themselves). You have years of deprogramming to go through. Pick up on TRP language and use it to understand the world you live in. You will become more empowered for success in your sexual strategy. Oh, and go lift.

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Title The Power of RP Language
Author jb_trp
Upvotes 62
Comments 14
Date February 10, 2015 11:36 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Preface: I'm still a RP padawan.

However, I'm pretty knowledgeable about the philosophy of language and this is incredibly in line with many well known academic viewpoints. Philosophers have always asked about the relationship between language, meaning, and the conceptualization about our world.

Socrates famously showed that many words everyone uses (justice, friendship, knowledge, etc) have completely unknowable definitions. Of course, you can give one but it won't hold to scrutiny. The philosophy of language is full of answers to how we then communicate in spite of this.

One breed of answer that I'm especially sympathetic to is that some words are just fundamental. We know is sacredness is. We know what knowledge is. However, we can't define them well. Our words then carry a lot of these concepts along with what they mean and how they fit in with our worldviews/reasoning schemas.

From this point of view, friendzone and beta orbiter have literally different meanings insofar as they fit into our minds differently, even if the physical phenomenon is the same. We're almost very literally getting a new reality from these concepts as if we had taken a literal red pill.

[–]1jb_trp[S] 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. I think with new language brings a fundamental change in your worldview--a RP worldview.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Definitely been the case with me. The word "shit test" has changed my life. Now, I've only been actively trying TRP for two weeks after reading everything I could find to read, but it's really an eye opener. At first I heard it and didn't think such a thing really even happened but now I just see it everywhere.

Every time a woman says something not nice, disagrees with me about something other than ice cream flavors, tries to bring up her area of expertise that I don't know shit about, I just see it differently. She's seeing if I can handle her calling me out. She's seeing if I can react to disagreement sensibly without taking it too seriously or backing down. She's seeing if I can hold frame by keeping the topic such that only what I know is relevant. Everything is a test.

And it's been the best week of my life. New semester so it's different chicks that I've either never met before or haven't seen in a while. They treat me differently than before and I've got a date this weekend with someone who I might make my plate, and another who I just started talking to today and I bet I can get a date with my next weekend. Not sure if I'm doing things rightly enough to get laid, especially since two weeks isn't enough for my body to have come in yet obviously but I always get my foot in the door and command respect.

I even do it with males and professors. If I say something the professor disagrees with and they react adversely, I hold frame and speak with authority even though I don't have it. I speak the same way to my friends and roommates. I just go for it as if nobody else even exists in a meaningful way. I've been getting treated very differently.

[–]trp_angry_dwarf4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Feels awesome doesn't it?

I got a pay rise.

[–]laere0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How do you handle being called out?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Again, I'm very new to TRP. I'll specifically answer what I do but I won't comment on it's relationship between what you should do, the ideal, or anything else.

Around here I see a lot if people go for agreeing and amplifying but it doesn't work for me. I'm not TRP endorsed, I'm not jacked, and I'm new to game. I need to fight to be taken seriously. I believe that agreeing and amplifying would for me only serve to validate what she says and even reward her socially, as assistant comedian, for shit testing me.

I am a much bigger fan of disagreeing or disagreeing and amplifying. When I disagree, I generally just assert boldly that I'm right or repeat my conclusion with some force. I was lucky in that I'm naturally very good at projecting my voice. I'm also very good at doing it either without raising my volume or by using volume very deliberately rather than in panic.

I also learned a lot about this from meeting a man from Tenessee with a strong southern drawl. He was an idiot quite frankly and he lived in a very small world, but his narrowmindedness gave him some godlike power of projection because he never even imagines that he could be wrong.

I try to emulate that influx he has, except I'm very well read. I like to make the bold assertion with the bold and commanding influx and use my voice to project the obviousness of what I'm saying.

I also have a very good wit. Improciaing subtle jokes is very easy for me, particularly because I'm willing to cross boundaries that others are not willing to, either implicitly or explicitly.

[–]Moldy_Gecko0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I learned this in a college course a few years back. Since then, I try to limit what I say to only use Anglo words.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Friendzoned vs beta orbiter -- Were you oh-so-close to getting that cute girl in your English class? You guys talked and laughed, and had “such a great connection.” You would text her just to see how her weekend was going? But then when you told her you liked her, she (gasp) said she just wanted to be friends? What you really are is a beta orbiter. Your best bet is to cut ties and go lift.

Women are very different to us. We fall in love when we feel a lot of comfort/trust with women. When I say "love" I mean sexually, we want them because we love who they are as people AND they aren't ugly, thus we want to commit and we want them to want our cock. We want serious shit. Women on the other hand feel like "you are a friend and don't want to jeopardize that." They got all the benefits already of your commitment and love, they think giving you pussy will cause them to miss out on the good feels they already get. So they friend zone. There is too much comfort and not enough arousal for them mentally. Whereas for you arousal is physical. You would have fucked her on physicality alone, but now because of the friendship you want to commit. The friendship only made her want to be your friend, you see men humanise women through relationships but sexually want them on physicality alone. Women's sexuality is very psychological. Weren't dominant? You're not an option, you can be great, but you're "just a friend."

The asshole alpha never made them think a genuine connection was possible, but he aroused them with dominance and mental pressure, hence af/bb. Yes, women are fucked up. Accept it or open a bottle of whisky. Cheers!

[–]NeoreactionSafe6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Practice, practice, practice.

Like all things in life we are creatures of habit.

To change a habit you need to practice new ones.

Red Pill is a language and framework that slowly expands in clarity as long as you keep practicing it every day.

Muscle memory.

(it is amazing isn't it?)

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Internalize TRP vocabulary, but don't make it an element of your everyday lexicon. The uninitiated will be either confused or repulsed by it, and you still need to interact with a mainly plugged in public on a day to day basis.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is 100% correct. You have to keep it to yourself. If you talk about it among civilians, they will be repulsed by it.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For myself, I believe that the concept of "Next" and "Abundance Mentality" have been some of the most helpful. Everyone KNOWS that there are tons of other people out there, but it's another thing to actually FEEL it in your gut. Once you realize you can drop a woman and feel absolutely nothing negative about it, it opens up a lot of other mental avenues.

Good post.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I completely agree. The creation of Red Pill language was a huge help to me. In the past I could see things happening but I didn't have the vocabulary to properly describe it. It was almost maddening trying to intelectualize social dynamics until everything became codified and broken down like a science.

[–]princenotsocharming1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a very important insight. Being aware of what is happening is very important and having RP language does exactly that.

When you meet a girl and she asks you to buy her a drink the word 'beta bux'pops into your mind which makes you 'aware'of what is happening.

Pre RP I would have thought about in isolation and would have never generalized it the way I do it now.

Also the language acts a preset SOP or a macro (in Software terminology). I like to think of it in terms of macros.

If you sense a shit test, deploy agree_and_amplify() mode

If you sense friend zoning, deploy next_and_ignore() mode

If you sense disrespect, deploy hard_next() mode

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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