Today's x-post from the PillsCollide forum comes courtesy of a comment by user FallingSnowAngel, who writes:

My issue with it comes from the fact that the redpill has totally nailed the science of being bitter gender traditionalists with poor social/communication skills that want to bang shallow, but conventionally hot young submissive women.

This is a common theme that arises from newcomers, doubters, or casual observers. The general gist goes something like:

How can TRP say they support traditional gender roles and traditional relationship dynamics one minute, then talk about how to fuck dirty party whores the next minute?!?!

Seems like a valid question on the surface, right? I mean, indeed, how can all of us misogynist, sexist woman haters from the crack of Reddit's ass talk about wanting things one way and then strategizing how to do the corollary opposite?

Well, the answer is quite simple, and as TRP gets far more traffic than my private little project debate sub, I'd like to see if I can reveal some clarity on the issue for the lurkers and half-unplugged.

Lamenting a life that you were raised to want, but now realize you can't have, is not somehow in conflict with realization and subsequent changes in goals and expectations. Maybe it gets a little jumbled in context or sequence, but TRP steps in unplugging go something like this:

  1. You have been unsuccessful in getting or keeping women. Either you can't successfully date them, or you can, but they always cheat or leave. You want to know why.

  2. Your initial goal in obtaining women is to find one suitable enough to marry, settle down with, have kids with, grow wealthy with, and eventually grow old and die with. If you're as lucky as I was as a kid, that's what your parents did, and that's what your grandparents did. The concept of "family", in your estimation, is as old as time, so why shouldn't you get to have one. Right?

  3. Hi. We are TRP. We are here to tell you that there is a pitifully small chance that will ever happen, and here is why: the motivations and sexual inclinations of women in the modern, post sexual revolution era are completely at odds with those goals in step 2. It is lamentable that women would rather ride cocks until their biological clocks strike 11:55pm, but it's just the way it is. Take time to lament that, but ultimately, you must move on from those goals.

  4. Change yourself. Drop the beta provider motivations, they mean jack shit to women today. Become superficial. Get in shape. Get good at game. Women do not see you as a provider figure, at least until their looks have faded (AF/BB). When it comes to the young, attractive women you would like to be sexually successful with, you are nothing more than a clown to them. A source of entertainment, that is all. Become the clown; the physically fit, funny, charming, "fun" clown.

  5. Now go on with your life. But never lose sight of the true nature of today's women, and when you think you've found one who dropped out of a 1950's time warp, remember AWALT. Hypergamy doesn't care, and we are living in an era where hypergamy is no longer shamed, but celebrated and encouraged. Never invest more in a woman than she is investing in you, and at all times, be prepared to walk away. Literally at any time.

That's it. I think it gets lost in the signal-to-noise ratio sometimes that we are not trying to change the world. We aren't trying to invent a time machine back to go fuck June Cleaver, after she cleans up the kitchen after Tuna Casserole night and puts the kids to bed. Lament the past all you like, but embrace your maximization of success, on all fronts, in the present and future. Or put more succinctly, enjoy the decline in our Slut Culture.