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The same way we were programmed to be betabux from birth we can also program ourselves to be otherwise

May 1, 2017

we're just placed into this world, with no knowledge or information about how anything works, so how do we become the person we are? The information that we were fed on how to live life when we were babies, we may not recognize it, but we're influenced by what we see constantly and the information that we are fed, society really did a great job feminizing men in today's society by using this same technique instilling within us all the fairy tale bullshit we've been fed since we came into this world.we're shaped by inherited tendencies and the environment. inherited tendencies are passed from the genes of our parents, could be shyness, boldness, aggression, etc. The environment we grow up in also plays a crucial role in shaping our personality, if a baby was raised in a feminist house hold he will be raised to believe he is not the prize, he has to work for the female's affection and whatever she says goes. It's things like these that shape our personalities, a personal example that shaped me into the person i became ( was ) was when i was a toddler and i liked a girl the kids in my class would say "OMG asapgem likes a girlll... " it's fucking stupid i know, but something as simple as that can shape your entire reality and personality it did for me, because of that happening i grew up suppressing feelings and emotions, found it difficult to express myself.

But all is not lost! the same way we learned to become crappy versions of ourselves we can learn to become fucking awesome versions of ourselves also, and i'll tell you how.

Consistently feeding your brain of the person you wish to become - Have you ever found yourself listening to crappy music sometimes? like for instant young thug or perhaps you found yourself going to fast food restaurants constantly and you may not know why, why do we do this? our subconscious mind is extremely power and it adapts to familiarity that's how society programs us constantly feeding us with things as simple as advertisements fake news, radio stations etc , well guess what, we can learn to become whoever we want to be by consistent feeding our mind of what we wish to become. Consider learning to ride a bike at first we're horrible at it and we keep failing and falling but with consistent practice we're able to master riding a bicycle and even eventually add a little finesse to it, trust me these guys wasn't always this good, consistent practice is key! Here's a few ways you can train your mind to become the " ideal " person you wish to become

  • watch videos and focus on taking in all the information - i was a very dull person who seemed humorless at one point but what i did to fix this was watch a bunch of standup comedy constantly like everyday after work i would watch standup comedy, patrice o'neal, chris rock, etc and before i knew it i was developing a sense of humor and was able to tell jokes and not be boring. consistency is key! ( long way to go but it took me a few months of doing this to see some changes )

  • Frame - can't stress enough how important frame is it took me a while to grasp the true meaning of this and how significantly it changes your life, this is what i did to help with my frame i'm seeing and receiving different reactions because of this as well and i recommend you guys do the same thing, get a pen and write down the frame you wish to attain in a notebook. ( i will give what i wrote as an example )

1, how do you perceive yourself? i'm a very smart and intelligent person i'm bold and never back down from a challenge, overcoming challenges means growing and i'm ready to grow as a person

2, how do you think everyone sees you as a person? a very friendly person who seems comfortable and happy with himself and has a lot to offer.

3, how do you approach something you've never done before? if you don't take the risk you can't grow, if you can't grow you can't be happy, if you can't be happy what else is there?

These are just a few things i've been working on myself personally, there's a lot more but you guys get the idea, read yourself the frame of mind you want to achieve and develop daily and consistently then eventually you will become this person, you have to believe deeply in whatever you wrote in your notebook as your frame, that's a major key in this.

Faith without works is dead - You must carry out the actions that are necessary to develop the character of the person you wish to become, you want to be more bold? then be bold believe in yourself and do what you have to do to become that person, force yourself to be bold in a situation and if you keep doing this that's who you will become remember to remind yourself risk is necessary for growth and growth makes you happy before you do anything( you don't have to be but i do it ) it's like convincing yourself with compelling reasons why you have to do it. and by doing all these things together guys we develop a new personality and become that ideal person that we want to be, it's a lot of hard work but if you want it you will go after it, mindset and body must go hand in hand for you to become that ideal person you always wanted too,there's no way around it. Best of luck!

Lessons Learned

  • Change your mindset change your life!

  • Your actions must coordinate with your mindset to become and develop the personality and character you wish to become

  • Consistently feed your consciousness with information so it can be embedded into your subconscious

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Title The same way we were programmed to be betabux from birth we can also program ourselves to be otherwise
Author J_AsapGem
Upvotes 121
Comments 20
Date May 1, 2017 3:32 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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[–]Rooibosisboss9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

you are what you think about all day.

do the things that scare you, that you are afraid of.

FACE and SLAY that dragon that has become your problem, because if you hide from it, it will become bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

great post. love subconcious programming

[–]lancer000 points points [recovered] | Copy Link

Even subliminal messages are good. I tricked my mind, so it can make my body produce more testosterone for my lifting. The key is to always be man positive & install man positive stuff around you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

really good contribution, love the positive attitude

mindset and body must go hand in hand for you to become that ideal person

Yes hand in hand, you chose good words! The mind can change itself (Brahmacharya, diet etc. ) indirectly through, and is always dependent on a fundamental level, on the configuration of the body.

Mind, Body, Physical, Mental .... what is the difference... they are interfaces we can read and write too. It's a mistake for someone to focus only on mental OR physical

[–]JamzeNeu points points [recovered] | Copy Link

Great post OP, really appreciate you for sharing this.

I have been working on subconscious programming ( Affirmation, reading quality stuff and acting accordingly) for a few months now, And yes, I have noticed a big difference in how people treat me and how I see myself. And I have progressed a lot towards attaining an true DGAF frame.

The reason why we become a beta is, because we give too many fucks about various things/people that won't add value to our future.

And there isn't anything like 'not giving a fuck' , it's about, diverting your precious fucks towards yourself and things/people who hold value. IE invest in people and hobbies.

Also, This is an interesting video I watched recently,to change your deep inner beliefs. Pretty helpful.

[–]J_AsapGem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the positive feedback bro, glad i could help in someway video is pretty awesome as well

[–]Macheako0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Amazing post bud!!!! I'm with you on basically.....everythang! lol

I was thinking about this the other day. Basically, I was taking note of the differences between humans and other creatures. One thing I noticed was how drastically different "Human Expression" appeared from "Basic Animal Expression". But not in the usual sense. I mean over the span of generations/time. Basically, a pack of apes would appear to act PRETTY DAMN CLOSE to some arbitrary pack of apes 100, 200, 300+ years ago. Fuck their genetics "evolution", if there was any in that short time, but regardless, animals, as a way of being in life don't really seem to.....ever change, ya know?

Sleep, fuck, eat pretty much lol. And sure, you COULD abstract yourself 20,000 leagues from reality and TRY to force Humankind into the box of "Sleep, fuck, eat"....but it's retardedly obvious we do a little bit more than that lol. Now that's not to say some of our greatest motivations in life aren't sleeping, eating, or fucking, fo sho, but to say they're the ONLY motivations would probably be erroneous. Take for example the desire to be great in life. Some people's greatest inspiration is that they want to inspire someone else, they want to help another person "kindle their inner fire". You could try and link this back to fucking, but, if you already have a wife, or are already getting pussy, why do some men on push/drive even harder AFTER getting all this pussy? I mean like, I actually worked harder in life when I had my girlfriend because caring for her was important. Again, sure, it was "a fuck" lol, but she was also a possible mother, a possible friend, a possible companion. If it was only fucking...I don't even think I would bother with monogamy lol.

Basically, just that people seem to have a "drive" beyond JUST the attainment of basic life needs. But there's something underlying these human drives of ours, something very specific to Humans and our generations READ SLOWLY: The way human beings perpetuate and help maintain these uniquely Human drives is by the passing down of the accumulated knowledge, and understanding, that was both acquired by the preceding generations and ALL other generations preceding them.

To sum it up: Humans maintain order by passing down inherited ideas, and we maintain "Drive" by passing down Culture.

Seriously. Without this process we would honestly be EXACTLY like your basic dog bitch, or a group a monkeys, or some shit. I guess you could say Animals "pass down" their knowledge, it's just smaller, but that doesn't seem to REALLY be the case here. Animals simply teach their young how to survive. Nothing more. Nothing Less. But humans will teach their kids not only how to survive, but how to survive incredibly well, or, sadly, how to NOT survive xD (aka Feminists). But, basically, the primary mode of keeping order and peace amongst humanity on this planet seems to be by passing down THE BEST IDEAS from generation to generation, and that, if you're going to "destroy" a civilization, the easiest way would be to simply allow for terrible, or just SHITTY ideas, to be those passed down from generation to generation. Really man.

Our Humanity, our history, our culture, our way of life....it ALL starts and ends with how we raise our children.

The exact, specific idea(s) that get handed down to our children almost DIRECTLY dictate the incoming generations success in this world. It's precisely the reason why there is SUCH controversy surrounding public education. It's also something most politicians won't outright admit to, because he who controls the minds of the young LITERALLY controls, at least indirectly, the direction of society. Humans are literally just expressions of whatever it is they think or believe is Real. Get someone to believe the world is better without em, and watch how quickly they off themselves. Convince a chick she ain't good enough for ya, and watch how quickly she immediately wants to win your approval, or maybe she says "fuck you" and NEVER talks to you again lol. Our inner "Truth" quite literally IS OUR OWN PERSONAL FUCKING SHIP HELM. So what we accept as Truth, and subsequently pass down to our young fucking IS the goddamn driving force behind everything of that society.

So yea, everything you said man. What we "believe" about this world, about our lives, about ourselves, about our friends and family fucking DIRECTLY influences HOW every single one of those interactions "expresses" itself in the world. So having a solid, stable release inside of both your heart and head is the BEST place to start. Great post bud!

[–]J_AsapGem[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

very intelligently said, everything you pointed out can be another post on it's own, i appreciate the positive feedback as well bro appreciate it.

[–]Macheako1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yea man, anytime! You just touched on a REALLY important point here and that is how we really are "programmed" in a sense by TERRIBLE fucking teachers when we're young. And the majority of these teachers push feminist agenda bull shit, and everything else TBP and so, out of the goddamn gate we are at a disadvantage.

We're asking people to abandon almost EVERYTHING they've been taught, to accept that their old teachers are complete fucking morons, and to possibly lose all their current "tribe" benefits. Trying to convince someone a that ain't exactly easy lol but it also ain't impossible. It's something useful to think about when you're trying to talk to these ignoramooses lol

Keep up the awesome work, friend.

[–]tropzumuch0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you! I really love TRP and it's members. I'll write a frame list for myself.

[–]rayray2kbdp-2 points-1 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Sadly no. A significant chunk (30-50%) of personality, hormones, and sexuality are predicted by heritable factors.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

When you maintain an attitude like that, you learn towards the 50% ;)

[–]guitarfaces1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

And 100% of those 'factors' can be dominated by consistently and ferociously creating the person you want to be.

[–]rayray2kbdp-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

No, they really can't be dominated or overcome in any way. They are limited by your genetic capacity.

[–]J_AsapGem[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

it's all about how you perceive life buddy, if you want to think that way then that's the person you will be for the rest of life

[–]rayray2kbdp0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

It really isn't all about perception. There's this thing called reality - we're limited by biological and physical constraints.

[–]J_AsapGem[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

lol that's a very shallow way of looking at life, and honestly that's a perfect definition of scarcity mindset, we're limited by our beliefs and if your belief believe that life is limited and is based on " biology " alone then so it will be FOR YOU, but for others that dare to belief different they are the ones that do amazing things and become awesome people in life, les brown for example he was labelled " biologically mentally retarded " did he let that opinion define his life? fuck no he let his own belief defined his fucking life and you know what? he was labelled the top 5 speakers worldwide, so it's all about your life buddy, he couldve just accepted his reality that he's a mentally retarded guy " born that way " but no, he choose to not accept that, that's the thing that fucks up humanity, they believe the reality they are brought up in is their final definition, but no it's not our reality is whatever we WANT it to be, personally i would love for you to think this way but it's clear that you have a fixed mindset so i will let you be.

[–]rayray2kbdp-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not shallow because it's not the entirety of my outlook. I'm just well aware that we can only control so much of our lives.

[–]guitarfaces0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

THE POINT is that we take intense action, and we do it with no excuses.

But you're right - going to the gym hasn't made me an inch taller, and I can't change that, so fuck it, right? Or: my genes and environment made me naturally small and meek, and I can only overcome them by X% because the rest is genetics, right?

Talking about 'genetic limits' is a justification for NOT making changes. I don't need to learn more excuses I can use, and I don't think the majority of men reading this need them either.

[–]rayray2kbdp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Strawman arguments all over the place dude. I'm just saying you can only change so much of yourself. Accept your limitations.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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