I don’t remember a lot of people I knew in college. Many of them were not worth remembering. Others just went down different paths after we graduated and we just lost touch. But there’s still one guy I remember all too well and that’s Steve. Steve was the kind of guy you meet once and probably never forget.

The first time I met Steve was at a fraternity rush event. Steve was built like a lineman and had messy blonde hair. Steve and I started talking as we had both played football in high school and we were both into the same sports teams. From there we both ended up pledging the same fraternity, we went through pledgeship together and I ended up becoming really good friends with Steve.

Back in college I lifted and was a decent looking guy but was still really clueless when it came to girls. Girls would come up to me and be flirty and I would always be in my head about what to say and what to do. Steve was a rockstar when it came to pulling chicks. He never thought about what to say or what to do, he did and said whatever the fuck he wanted and if the chick didn’t like it he would hit on the next hot girl he saw. While I would be insecure and wonder if my face looked bloated from the protein shake I just had, Steve would hit on girls with a lip of Copenhagen and a spitter cup. He just didn’t give a fuck.

Steve would fuck girls and tell them he can’t get aroused because he fucked a hotter girl the night before. He would use girls for sex and shoot down all their requests for “dinner dates” and “spending time together”. When chicks gave him shit he would tell them not to waste his time and that he has 5 other girls on speed dial. Steve would approach girls at parties, pull them in close, and say “I like your ass, come take a shot with me.” Some girls would be disgusted and tell him to fuck off, but Steve would just laugh and talk to the next chick he saw. While chicks called Steve a douchebag he pulled more than any other guy I knew. The chicks he was banging always wanted “something more” with him and he never gave that to them. This drove them crazy and made them obsessed with him. Steve was a real life Vincent Chase from the show Entourage.

Steve never put girls on a pedestal. Steve put himself on a pedestal.

Steve wasn’t afraid to get sexual and treat girls like cum dumpsters.

Steve didn’t care about what anyone else thought about him.

Steve used girls for sex and didn’t seek their validation.

Steve didn’t give a fuck about rejection.

Steve had killer instinct and wasn’t afraid to escalate physically.

Steve was confident and masculine.

Over the years I have found myself becoming more and more like Steve. I started putting myself on a pedestal and invested in my self improvement. Whenever I have a problem with chicks I think back to college and remember Steve. What would Steve have done?