I don't personally use OKC, but for those who do might like to see how answering questions on a website a certain way prove misogyny.

https://medium.com/ladybits-on-medium/b3b502925697

Personally, I think there's a grain of truth, but it's mostly to horde away the try-hards that are plugged in trying to come off as masculine. Online dating is training wheels for real pick-ups. Sadly, rejection manifests as a non-response rather than the gratifyingly more constructive face-to-face rejection.