The Shy Girl and the Sex Date.
So I get this question from guys sometimes. They will be texting a girl – better n00bs do this for logistics only but you can sometimes create a narrative this way also – who seems super into them and then, they go out on a date and…nothing. The girl carries on like she’s into them. Something like this happened to me recently so I will elaborate.
Your goal in online dating, should be to get to a meeting ASAP because your cock isn’t going to go into her pussy over text. Girls will say dumb shit like, “But I want to get to KNOW you first!” but really the best way to do that is through a meeting, not texting.
So in short order I got a girl out on a date recently who definitely acted like she was into me, but wouldn’t come across at all. Not even a little bit. So at some point I picked her up off of the ground - ALWAYS find a reason to do this because, along with my patented Ankle Drag Move it taps something primordial in their brains – and she turned her face way from mine, y’know, in case I kissed her – there’s a difference between a girl who wants to be kissed, but is playing hard to get, and one who is actively avoiding it. So I thought, “Ok, whatever, she seemed like she liked me but I guess she’s not that into me,” and that was that.
So we went on another date – in general I give girls two dates in case they are shy, but I’m not wasting my time beyond that without some indication that pussy is on the agenda soon – and, well, same thing. So after that I decided to move on and sent her a note like, “Hey, I had fun but it seems like you’re not into me, so let’s move on.” In retrospect, I guess that was giving her a third chance, only without a date involved.
I get back this novel about how she wanted to kiss me but … {lots of stupid reasons}. Me: “So look, I remember, being 100% available for kissing, and such, but I’m also entirely rational, and when someone SAYS one thing but ACTS in a different way, I go by how they ACT.” Anyway, she pleaded for a third date, and promised things would be different.
And they were.
Dramatically.
I had a date sort-of planned but we never left the house. I kissed her – have to see if it’s all just bullshit early on so you can salvage the night – and then her clothes came off.
A similar thing happened with OLTR1 when we started dating. She’s strongly introverted and it took 4-5 dates to crack that clam. So at some point she was over and I asked her if she wanted to grab dinner - “No” - watch a movie “No” – and after whatever the third thing I suggested got another “No” I realized, “Oh. It’s the Sex Date.” So I walked over and kissed her and that led to us fucking, straightaway.
Sometimes (but not often) good things really do come to those who wait.
Now go forth and SLAY!
Takeaways
-Despite the large number of Tinderellas, not every girl is a Giant Whore.
-Some girls are shy and need a few dates to warm up, even if they like you initially.
-This is more common among younger women.
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Let me get this straight.
On the first date you escalated and got rejected.
Somehow you got a second date and you escalated again and got rejected.
Then after all of that, not only did you get a third date but she pleaded you for a third date that was straight to your place and banged.
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