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The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 1: Attitude, Ego and IDGAF

April 28, 2015
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TL:DR - A compilation of the basic tools you need in the field to handle the vast majority of situations which could arise. The way I explain everything is the way I see it and how it has been working well for me including examples and links to additional reading. As a result of all the detail, it was extremely long, so I've broken it down into four parts for ease of use. This part covers an introduction, guide preface and Attitude, Ego and IDGAF.

  • Introduction (My motivation. Skip if you don't care.)

Ever since I unfortunately had to remove the Field Report I put up about a month ago, I wanted to find a way to get that information back out into the community. I had a couple of guys message me to thank me for the "masterclass" in TRP seduction. While I'm flattered by that, I don't believe I'm a complete master. (I also believe that any attitude suggesting you have nothing left to learn is counter-productive for any man looking to continually better himself. We are all apprentices in a craft where no one ever becomes a master.)

Everything I used in that FR, I learned from this sub and the IRC chat. When I realised just how much I'd learnt and how many principles I put into play over the course of that night, I realised that there is no one piece which draws these strands all together. That's what I intend to do with this guide. That way any newer guys have a complete list of everything in one place and can quickly see where their strengths and weaknesses are. Most of these work very well for me when applied to the right situation, YMMV depending on your appearance, approach and personality.

  • Preface to the guide

This is the "in-the-moment social dynamics which is essentially the raw game itself, getting popular/laid is based on all this bullshit, which is effectively the basis of animal attraction/charm/social grace. We don't get too many posts like this anymore, but it's always good to rehash the basis of interaction, especially for guys who are busy working or doing other shit and need to dust up their social skills. Like anything, too much time out of the game makes you rusty and these behaviours you describe which otherwise come naturally to many become lost and need re-learning/reawakening, which I'm sure your descriptions will aid in. Also helps the autists who never had a clue to begin with, too." - /u/Illimitableman (Thanks for your input on this and giving so freely of your time to better the community.)

Your TRP knowledge is a bit like a toolbox. We hear plenty about how personal calibration of game is a significant factor in your success with women. Each tool has its own specific use for a specific problem. Utilising the correct tool in the right way at the right time is the essence of proper calibration. However, like any craftsman, you may be better at using some tools than others. Develop the best quality tools you can and work to your strengths as much as possible.

  • Attitude and ego.

Attitude is all about the inner monologue going through your mind. In my opinion, this is the most important part of any interaction. I say this because I strongly believe your attitude and ego are the foundations which underlie your frame and your ability to respond to tests. I have also now had two women later tell me how they "internally felt" my attitude within 15 seconds of meeting me. (One of them even got it literally word-for-word.)

Setting your attitude may take some time, but there are a few phrases I remind myself of in order to maintain the right attitude. These phrases may seem raw or even offensive to newer members who are trying to learn from this. Some of them are actively wrong, but you want to keep them just to keep you in the right frame of mind. There is a big difference between your ego out in the field, and your ego on TRP. Your ego/confidence, (maybe even narcissism at a push), should be absolute in the field. Once you get back on the TRP sub though, you should kill your ego in order to be more objective. So these phrases apply to frame of mind in the field, not on the sub.

  • I am entitled to touch her body. (You're not really, we don't encourage rape or molestation if she's clearly uncomfortable. This phrase gives you confidence in your kino. If she doesn't like it then she'll find a way to let you know. If any chick ever does, it's no big deal. Shit happens, but kino is vital to escalation!)

  • I am the God of my own little world. (This is your frame. She may be here by her choice, but she's also here because you allowed her to be. Never forget this and never let her insinuate anything different. You're in charge of you, she is not.)

  • She is worth just as little as the next slut. (She might not be, but that's not the point of this. This is about reminding you of the right attitude to take to make yourself as attractive as possible. Reminder of the biological realities of AWALT. Reminder of abundance mentality. Reminder aimed to ensure you act like your SMV is higher than hers. There are no good girls. There are no unicorns. Don't be an idiot and keep that perspective.)

  • I am here to have fun. Whatever else happens, happens. (Outcome independence. You are completely disinterested in a specific outcome. You control yourself and your ability to have fun. Use that. Everything else is irrelevant. Any interaction you have with a woman should be fun. If you're not having fun, leave her and go find someone more fun.)

  • All women are sluts. You will now go prove this. (While not entirely true, every woman does have the capacity to be a slut. The requirement to be a slut is to have a vagina and spread your legs often. Every last woman is capable of this if she doesn't control herself. If you're looking for quick sex then remember that it is your task to turn her on and put her in a situation where she can be the slut her body is urging her to be for any man of high enough SMV. A smart woman who doesn't want to be a slut will avoid such situations, but that's her responsibility, not yours.)

  • I'm going to walk away if I choose. (Your time is valuable. You are not going to waste it. You know what's happening and what you want. This is to remind yourself that you are outcome independent, you are in control of the interaction and your SMV is higher than hers. Women are very talented at spotting fakes. If you don't truly believe you are her superior then she'll read between the lines and figure it out. Remember that women date up!)

  • She is here at my whim. (You are out to enjoy yourself and she has been allowed along. It's true that she needs to want to be there too, but that must not be the way you view it. The moment her presence becomes her decision rather than yours is when you step into her frame. As a dominant man, it is your frame and your whim which is the ultimate deciding factor. The fact she wants to be there is incidental, you could still have chosen not to allow her along because there are plenty more women out there. Abundance mentality. Outcome independence.)

Some of those may be a bit raw for the newer guys and anyone who likes to call TRP misogynistic. As I said, they're not all true, but you need the right attitude to project your superior value. The truth of the sexual market place is that women will only go for men of higher value than they have. Which means in contrast, you've only got a chance with women who perceive themselves to be of lower value than you. You want a chance with that girl? Better start thinking she's getting the better end of the deal. Doesn't matter if that's true or not. Develop an ego which truly believes it.

  • A note on IDGAF. (I Don't Give A Fuck.)

Typically speaking, along with developing the right attitude to symbolise your superior SMV, you'll also develop a bit of an attitude like women don't matter. Actually, they don't. They're just another part of the world. Most things don't really matter in the grand scheme. All you really need is food, water and warmth and you'll survive. Everything else is gravy. You can survive, you can achieve your life mission... you can do most things without women.

Woman tries to tell me what to do/how to think - like I care? I can think for myself. Let the disinterest flow.

Guy tries to AMOG me - you do you mate. Doesn't matter to me, I'm still gonna do me. Look at all these fucks I couldn't give.

Shot down by the bitch shield - that's one chick... what does she matter as the tiniest cosmic fleck in my universe? Time to go dance to the theme song.

Essential reading.

The less you care, the better. Outcome independence. Stronger frame. Pussy off the pedestal. All rolled into one. Next time I will be tackling Frame, Posture and Body Language.

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Title The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 1: Attitude, Ego and IDGAF
Author NightwingTRP
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Date April 28, 2015 4:34 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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